Virgo males, let's see a reverse?

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Many topics contains "How to know if a Virgoguy is into youy"... I would like to ask these males, how do you feel when person X (female) is into you? Do you feel, do you know? Virgo males, please explain the points when you notice on your mind - yes, this girl is into me, she is ready for me, she's like/love me. Staring both sides - it's enough or not? Words, smiles, shyness etc.?
Virgos arent dumb, we all know. But do they are smart enough to see that the X like him?
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so Lilytree, I have a question.

I have been rejected by a virgo, he didn't have the same romantic feelings for me. Can happen, we are all grown up people. Nevertheless I was totally crushed on him and it hurt bad (and still does hurt) when he told me he just considers me a good friend. What also confused me is that apparently I misread signs for months at a time.
Now, we still have a lot of communication/contact, both initiating.. so that again confuses me. But I force myself to remember the words he said and to try and bring my feelings to a friendship level. But heck, it is confusing. And i want to stay friends with him, don't wanna loose him
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Posted by LilyTree
Posted by Europesaggy
so Lilytree, I have a question.

I have been rejected by a virgo, he didn't have the same romantic feelings for me. Can happen, we are all grown up people. Nevertheless I was totally crushed on him and it hurt bad (and still does hurt) when he told me he just considers me a good friend. What also confused me is that apparently I misread signs for months at a time.
Now, we still have a lot of communication/contact, both initiating.. so that again confuses me. But I force myself to remember the words he said and to try and bring my feelings to a friendship level. But heck, it is confusing. And i want to stay friends with him, don't wanna loose him



I'm sorry, but I didn't catch the question. Maybe your post was cut off?
Please keep in mind that I'm not an expert. I only speak from personal observations and experiences.
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Well thing is he doesn't cut off contact/communication, although he knows I'm totally into him. He keeps doing the same stuff as before (like in before he knew I had a crush on him). No phasing out behavior, no cutting off. And that just confuses me. But I'm not desperate. He said no romantic feelings, so these words are clear. But you understand my confusion? What does he want then?
I don't want to sound desperate, because I believe in rational behavior, no whining and holding on to illusions. But I'm only human and it can be tough to let go off some things sometimes.
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Dear LilyTree,
please accept my condolence about your hard, hard and pity situation right now. This is and old topic of mine, and you were my air to breathe giving an opinions about Virgo's, their stares, their feelings. I thought you found your true love... And now...

Well, your situation made me careful now.
I am still waiting my Virgo to understand that I could be THE ONE. I am doing it passive and
unobtrusive, actually I am not doing anything. It's fine with me and reading your posts I understand - no need to hope too rabid, it could be sad final.

Thinking here in Europe a bright thoughts about your hurted soul! 😉
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Posted by Europesaggy
so Lilytree, I have a question.

I have been rejected by a virgo, he didn't have the same romantic feelings for me. Can happen, we are all grown up people. Nevertheless I was totally crushed on him and it hurt bad (and still does hurt) when he told me he just considers me a good friend. What also confused me is that apparently I misread signs for months at a time.
Now, we still have a lot of communication/contact, both initiating.. so that again confuses me. But I force myself to remember the words he said and to try and bring my feelings to a friendship level. But heck, it is confusing. And i want to stay friends with him, don't wanna loose him



When me in virgo got together in june and by end of july it was over. Or so I thought, but I was devastated, I was crushed. but we kept in contact after that. friend wise. now we are back into us again. I don't know how to put it, cuz I haven't exactly figured it out. I know I like it, it is wonderful. I don't want to define it right now, I guess. I give myself the stomach flip and underestimate and over analyze, but when we are together, we are so close. scares me. I am affraid to lose him.
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Sorry, got side tracked. I didn't want to be friends, I wanted more, but, if being friends was the only way I could be in his life at that time, I was happy to take it. Sometimes, people come in to your life, but it may not be the right time. If it is meant to be, it will happen, no doubts. But one question, Has there been any romantic interaction between you and him? flirting, anything? I mean, be his friend. but live your life. If he comes around he comes around, it will be great. if not, then you have gained a loyal friend. He must care if he still makes an effort to be in you rlife. May not be the way you want it to be right now, but take it for what it is.
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When I first started reading this, I thought it was a good question .... but, not for an answer, rather for the Virgo to think about this rhetorically, if that makes sense.

You know .... people struggle with Virgo daily, that much should be obvious to Virgos with the amount of terribly confused people who come in here to ask ... wtf?

And Virgos, look at your threads !!!! ..... you NEVER know when a person is into you !!!!

Use that to remember that when you're standing there not knowing what the fuck signals that person is sending ... that is how YOU look to them.

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..... I saw rearea and LillyTree in here and thought ....



Dude, both of those bitches are doormats ... sitting in inertia, waiting for their lovelife to happen, with zero effort other than breathing.


then I saw this .....




Posted by LetltB
Posted by Stares


I am still waiting my Virgo to understand that I could be THE ONE..





Why hasn't it sunk into your brain that the Virgo moved in with the Pisces female? Would you like it if another female tried to get the man you were living with? LEAVE THIS WOMAN'S MAN ALONE!
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... and realized, never mind about the douchebags rearea and lilly .... because you are on their level.