Virgo man upset

Virgo man joked on my joke which went the way other. And I happened to say something nasty. He said how could you say something like that and i don't want to talk.

How do I make it better?! Do you guys like to be told sorry like hundred time's or should i just let him be?

You fell from grace now he will keep it in his head and use it for ammo later.

wtf he's lame

We were having a conversation on men and women we have dated. And theres this girl we know who used to like him. Then I joked may be he could go after her after we are done. Then he said , you are a genius to say something like that!

And i was like. Why wait for it go get her tiger! I felt little bad that he coukd even consider it although i know i started this whole thing. And he was like how could i even think of let him go!

And then he started acting so cold! He's reading my texts but not replying! I explained i wasn't serious when i said go after her instead of me. And have said sorry like hundred time's! But he won't talk..

Posted by Earthgoddess
Doesn’t sound like he’s serious?

Was he?

Like wat did you say?

He's been more serious than me. I could say this because of the sweet nothings he does for me. And how caring he's been ever since we hot together. I could see it in his eyes.

Posted by Weeds
You fell from grace now he will keep it in his head and use it for ammo later.

Oh God.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by OHNOXoxo
Virgo man joked on my joke which went the way other. And I happened to say something nasty. He said how could you say something like that and i don't want to talk.

How do I make it better?! Do you guys like to be told sorry like hundred time's or should i just let him be?

I think they prefer actions (showing you're sorry) rather than just the words. Of course, apologising once doesn't hurt.

Let's hope he likes you a lot or you might get yourself iced out.

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How do i do it?! It all happened while im away on a work trip. And I'll only see him after a month.

I think your "joke" wasn't a joke at all. Seems to me you were jealous and played it off as a joke to get a reaction from him. Well...here's your reaction.

Posted by OHNOXoxo
We were having a conversation on men and women we have dated. And theres this girl we know who used to like him. Then I joked may be he could go after her after we are done. Then he said , you are a genius to say something like that!

And i was like. Why wait for it go get her tiger! I felt little bad that he coukd even consider it although i know i started this whole thing. And he was like how could i even think of let him go!

And then he started acting so cold! He's reading my texts but not replying! I explained i wasn't serious when i said go after her instead of me. And have said sorry like hundred time's! But he won't talk..

Oh. That wasn't a joke, that was a test. Meaning you were testing him.

And he's choosing to walk around in order to avoid that particular trip wire.

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
We were having a conversation on men and women we have dated. And theres this girl we know who used to like him. Then I joked may be he could go after her after we are done. Then he said , you are a genius to say something like that!

And i was like. Why wait for it go get her tiger! I felt little bad that he coukd even consider it although i know i started this whole thing. And he was like how could i even think of let him go!

And then he started acting so cold! He's reading my texts but not replying! I explained i wasn't serious when i said go after her instead of me. And have said sorry like hundred time's! But he won't talk..

Oh. That wasn't a joke, that was a test. Meaning you were testing him.

And he's choosing to walk around in order to avoid that particular trip wire.

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I don't understand why people think they can play that with us. It never turns out in their favor lol

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I think your "joke" wasn't a joke at all. Seems to me you were jealous and played it off as a joke to get a reaction from him. Well...here's your reaction.

So true !

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I don't understand why people think they can play that with us. It never turns out in their favor lol

Now since alls said and done! Now what ?! Shall I just let him be?! Or go on apologising?? Because till last night he was reading but not replying. And now he's switched off his internet. So my messages from this morning havent been delivered yet!

I want to die! I waited for this man to ask me out for a year! And i killed it in only 3 months.

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Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I don't understand why people think they can play that with us. It never turns out in their favor lol

Now since alls said and done! Now what ?! Shall I just let him be?! Or go on apologising?? Because till last night he was reading but not replying. And now he's switched off his internet. So my messages from this morning havent been delivered yet!

I want to die! I waited for this man to ask me out for a year! And i killed it in only 3 months.

I think it should be fine... from what I've noticed Virgos take a long time to trust and truly love. He shouldn't be scared off by one exchange. I wouldn't keep rehashing it, just stick around and he'll eventually speak up on what you can do to make him happy

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Thank goodness!

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
We were having a conversation on men and women we have dated. And theres this girl we know who used to like him. Then I joked may be he could go after her after we are done. Then he said , you are a genius to say something like that!

And i was like. Why wait for it go get her tiger! I felt little bad that he coukd even consider it although i know i started this whole thing. And he was like how could i even think of let him go!

And then he started acting so cold! He's reading my texts but not replying! I explained i wasn't serious when i said go after her instead of me. And have said sorry like hundred time's! But he won't talk..

"And he was like how could i even think of let him go!"

If I had made the same comment that you did to my future wife and she took it as a veiled indication of some amount of underlying doubt about the ongoing success of our relationship, she would have been correct.

So being the type that was in it for the long haul, I would have thought the same thing if she had made the comment you did. It's just not a joke or flippant remark either of us would have made, serious as we both were about each other.

I doubt many Virgos "lock on" until they are objectively and logically convinced (despite emotions) that their partner has as well. Despite being head over heels for her (locked on) I'm not sure I would have continued, it would have depended on what followed.

Even if things between you "normalize", you can be sure that he won't forget the implication of what you said for a long time, will be very wary, and chock up future comments and behavior until he is able to discern/confirm the truth, whatever it turns out to be.

Contrast this with the Virgo whose just in it for sex/fun, your comment would have been a relief by comparison.

If this seems too sensitive for you then I'm skeptical that the typical Virgo is for you. We hate emotional risk, and obviously from the increasingly high failure rate of relationships, with good reason.

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What can i do to make it right ?!

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I don't understand why people think they can play that with us. It never turns out in their favor lol

Now since alls said and done! Now what ?! Shall I just let him be?! Or go on apologising?? Because till last night he was reading but not replying. And now he's switched off his internet. So my messages from this morning havent been delivered yet!

I want to die! I waited for this man to ask me out for a year! And i killed it in only 3 months.

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You need to fall back and get a grip. You're coming off desperate and clingy. The man turned off his internet....that should be a clue that it's too much.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by OHNOXoxo

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I don't understand why people think they can play that with us. It never turns out in their favor lol

Now since alls said and done! Now what ?! Shall I just let him be?! Or go on apologising?? Because till last night he was reading but not replying. And now he's switched off his internet. So my messages from this morning havent been delivered yet!

I want to die! I waited for this man to ask me out for a year! And i killed it in only 3 months.

You need to fall back and get a grip. You're coming off desperate and clingy. The man turned off his internet....that should be a clue that it's too much.

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I haven't send him anymore messages after the usual good morning message. And one long read explaining how sorry im and how things went out of hand. I had bo intention to upset him. Thats all.

That was four hours back! But I need to calm the fuck down. I'm going crazy thinking whats on his mind! Will he come back or just say bye. Or will things go back to be normal or that incident has changed everything!

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
We were having a conversation on men and women we have dated. And theres this girl we know who used to like him. Then I joked may be he could go after her after we are done. Then he said , you are a genius to say something like that!

And i was like. Why wait for it go get her tiger! I felt little bad that he coukd even consider it although i know i started this whole thing. And he was like how could i even think of let him go!

And then he started acting so cold! He's reading my texts but not replying! I explained i wasn't serious when i said go after her instead of me. And have said sorry like hundred time's! But he won't talk..

"And he was like how could i even think of let him go!"

If I had made the same comment that you did to my future wife and she took it as a veiled indication of some amount of underlying doubt about the ongoing success of our relationship, she would have been correct.

So being the type that was in it for the long haul, I would have thought the same thing if she had made the comment you did. It's just not a joke or flippant remark either of us would have made, serious as we both were about each other.

I doubt many Virgos "lock on" until they are objectively and logically convinced (despite emotions) that their partner has as well. Despite being head over heels for her (locked on) I'm not sure I would have continued, it would have depended on what followed.

Even if things between you "normalize", you can be sure that he won't forget the implication of what you said for a long time, will be very wary, and chock up future comments and behavior until he is able to discern/confirm the truth, whatever it turns out to be.

Contrast this with the Virgo whose just in it for sex/fun, your comment would have been a relief by comparison.

If this seems too sensitive for you then I'm skeptical that the typical Virgo is for you. We hate emotional risk, and obviously from the increasingly high failure rate of relationships, with good reason.

What can i do to make it right ?!

Last resort. Only if you haven't asked him that question already I wouldn't blame you if you did, but then, resist the temptation to contact him again until he contacts you, seriously. Until then, it's in your favor to give him time to clear his head and miss you or you'll just drive him further away than he already is.

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Well luckily I havent yet ! I'm waiting for his response..

I so misssss him ☹😔

Is there anything I could do to make ot right?! What/how you Virgos would like someone to make thing's fine in LDR

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by TomSawyer
Lol

You can do better than that. So many women are after a Virgo man of their own.

Perhaps..but if I recall we went through a similar situation with the OP like 9 months ago.

Except that time this Virgo dude hooked up with her Aqua friend.

Poor thing was all heartbroken.

Anyway, She's a girly girl and if the dude's anything like me, all the "I'm very very sorry" text just makes her stand out.

I might get pissed off for a minute but at the end of the day I'd be thinking "what is wrong with this girl"

"Come here".



Op actually reminds me alot of my Taurus ex.

Both are silly girls.

Then again, it might be that this dude isn't ready to settle down yet.

who knows

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You are soooooo right ! Oh my God!!! He did text me back saying " Awww don't be sooooo sorry. I love you too much to stay mad at you for anything. And i miss you " haha

I'm back in the game. And @ Tom . You have been ny favourite since the beginning. I know you know it ! Thank you.

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Posted by TomSawyer
Lol

You can do better than that. So many women are after a Virgo man of their own.

Perhaps..but if I recall we went through a similar situation with the OP like 9 months ago.

Except that time this Virgo dude hooked up with her Aqua friend.

Poor thing was all heartbroken.

Anyway, She's a girly girl and if the dude's anything like me, all the "I'm very very sorry" text just makes her stand out.

I might get pissed off for a minute but at the end of the day I'd be thinking "what is wrong with this girl"

"Come here".



Op actually reminds me alot of my Taurus ex.

Both are silly girls.

Then again, it might be that this dude isn't ready to settle down yet.

who knows

Oh, I must have missed that one. Thanks for replying.

Do you mean “stand out” in a good way or a bad way?

I'm my case - definitely in a good way.

Annoying at first, good times later on.



What's kind of interesting in this is that the dude's not really going for the kill with her.

Sex-wise I mean.

So I'm guessing her charm is working on him.

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This is soooooo true! We haven't had sex yet. But we both can feel the intensity. And all that tension.

For now it's only a good hand shake and sweet hugs. But it's so cute

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Posted by OHNOXoxo
I so misssss him ☹😔

Is there anything I could do to make ot right?! What/how you Virgos would like someone to make thing's fine in LDR

Ask @TomSawyer or someone. He's advising someone else on a similar situation in a different thread.

I'm not a Virgo but I would say try to keep resisting the urge to contact him.

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He's a good man. Little straight forward. But in situations like these. Thats always helpful.

Posted by startwars
wtf he's lame

Have they let you out of rehab earlier?

Or they thrown you out without explanations? Lmao

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by TomSawyer
Lol

You can do better than that. So many women are after a Virgo man of their own.

Perhaps..but if I recall we went through a similar situation with the OP like 9 months ago.

Except that time this Virgo dude hooked up with her Aqua friend.

Poor thing was all heartbroken.

Anyway, She's a girly girl and if the dude's anything like me, all the "I'm very very sorry" text just makes her stand out.

I might get pissed off for a minute but at the end of the day I'd be thinking "what is wrong with this girl"

"Come here".



Op actually reminds me alot of my Taurus ex.

Both are silly girls.

Then again, it might be that this dude isn't ready to settle down yet.

who knows

You are soooooo right ! Oh my God!!! He did text me back saying " Awww don't be sooooo sorry. I love you too much to stay mad at you for anything. And i miss you " haha

I'm back in the game. And @ Tom . You have been ny favourite since the beginning. I know you know it ! Thank you.

You should thank most people in this thread though.

In some shape or form, they all contributed to you getting where you are now.



Nonetheless, sweetheart, I'm glad to hear everything is going good with you two.

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That's so virgo like! Can't take a compliment.. haha. But yes ! Everyone did help me ♥️

And I thank EVERYONE.