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Virgo men?
Virgo guy. (2) past relationships with Scorpio women. ask me anything you want to know. i had issues with both women. very different but the same at the core. i was attracted to them at the start very heavy. the first was a physical-sexual connection. the 2nd girl was a shining intellect and quick-witted. in both cases i was drawn to the "excitement" of them. though varying between girls in essence it was the same thing.
both would drain me... and i'd have to be distant from them. their reactions to my distance is what caused both relationships to end. the girl with physical-sexual chemistry reacted by seeing other lovers.
the intellect and very verbal girl became verbally abusive, massively emotional. she really wanted to work things out but things she did and said in the past got really damaging. i stayed with her because she did have soothing traits. she was like a healer in some ways. i have OCD, and i diagnose myself with fake illnesses all the time. over time i realized she was the cause of all my symptoms, which is why i'd always seek her out to comfort me. when we separated my health recovered.
passed on these last 2 relationships i'd never date a Scorpio again. we'd be friends from a distance.
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I'm a Scorpio. Im struggling to understand him. Together we get along so well, like best friends and we can trust each other and laugh together. Mentally and physically we work well.
But apart, both of us being introverted can be quite distant. But I find he can be emotionally cold and is much less passionate than I in the sense I will fight for what I want whereas he lives commitment-free other than his passion towards his job. A workaholic, which I find admirable but his lack of strive in other areas can be somewhat irritating.
We used to argue quite a lot and nit-pick each other's flaws. Both being sensitive to criticism and strong opinionated this did not end well... I became emotional and he told me to pull it together and that it's hard for him to be dating someone so emotional. We ended up both apologising and realising how much we hate there being conflict between us.
I want to understand his feeling towards me and intentions. From the start he admitted to committment issues due to previous hurt in a relationship and made aware to me he could not be fully committed to me because work is his priority. Recently he's admitted to being fully committed to me, still work is his priority, but he's told me how serious he is about me. He suggested the idea of seeing eachotjer last weekend and I became pushy about getting a definite answer which scared him off and our plans fell through. He's probably just stressed with work but he's suddenly become very, very distant. I've been more clingy than usual as I have been a little upset by a recent job loss am now coming to isolate myself again.
He does nice little gestures, is physically touchy and loving, talks about me to friends and we've gotten to know each others families. He discusses our future together. My gut tells me he wants to be with me but on another level wants to be independent and not tied down. We're both young and so I am still maturing emotionally and he is learning to accept his own emotions.
I just want to be able to understand him. I feel as though I care about him more than he does me but in saying that I am much more expressive and it can be hard to know what's going on for him. He often misses me and wants to see me and stresses if I'm overly distant for too long, but after work stress and getting a new car he rarely contacts me right now. Im afraid he is over-analysing and pulling away slowly to end things but I could just be overthinking myself. I just need to understand him, his hot and cold behaviour, are his feelings for me deeper than I realise? With time good things come between us... do I just need to give him more time? I sense his feelings are very present by his little gestures but fear he could never feel as deeply as I.
I'm dating a Virgo to that's just how they are I'm a Scorpio woman I just go with his flow it's been rocky cuz I'm more aggressive and have to hold back.....But they are worth the wait genuine loyal faithful they seem like they are players but it's just their personality.....They are soul mates I swear
In the same boat.
All I can say is Patience is a Virtue...
They're worth it.
All I can say is Patience is a Virtue...
They're worth it.
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