As primarily a reader here, I've seen so much Virgo Man bashing that I just had to post this. My Virgo man is the most caring, considerate, non-clingy, tender, fun (yes, FUN even for this gem), emotionally passionate (and I don't mean with words spoken, i feel him and how he feels), and just an all around great guy!
I get the feeling that most of the Virguys that post here are like this and I wanted to say something positive about them.
There are quite a few Virgo's in here that are great people. I don't know how long you've been lurking in the shadows .. I suspect most of them have chosen to remain silent while the ladies have been on a binge .. there are some really nice females ones too.
I've been lurking around since last summer. I've read most of the posts since then so I'm pretty familiar with alot of the stories and situations.
There does seem to be a lot of sweet and intelligent virguys and gals. Along with a few that are "coupled up/used to be coupled up or wanting to be coupled up" with them too.
You are so nice with those comments! You made me smile at work when I read this 🙂
I'm sure Virgo guys and girls will feel flattered by your views...and will come with a "but we aren't"....but right now it feels nice so I'll take that, lol, although I well know I'm far from perfect, as many other Virgo friends...I'm REALLY happy to hear that the one you got is making you so happy and that he seems to perfect for you! That sounds great!!
Welcome aboard! I understand from your nickname you're a Gem gal. I am a Gemini too, who is flirting with a wonderful Virgo man. And I totally agree with you. Please tell us more about your story as I am still working on developing mine and need insight from time to time.
Okay love4, I'll try to summarize. We've known each other through business for a few years. I separated from by ex-husband about 2 years ago. Last January at a business function he found out I was "available" and started calling me. Since my divorce wasn't final we kept it to ourselves and started seeing each other during business trips and that led to just planning trips for the fun of it, etc. He did do the push/pull thing that has been described here a little like calling me 5 times a day and then just skip a day. I could tell he felt like he was rushing things and figured he needed to slow down but never said anything to him. There were many times I wanted to ask him how he felt about me but I never did. I'm a Gem and I love to talk about and think about everything so that was hard. I just went with my gut (which told me he was completely into me). He's yet to say the L word but he's already planned out how the "rest of our lives" will be which includes him moving to my town since his job will allow him to do so. We live 3 hours apart..forgot to mention that so we talk alot on the phone and see each other 2-3 times a month for a couple days at a time. Not being able to see him all the time probably makes me appreciate him even more. I'm very social and might be considered flirtatious by some although I call it just plain outgoing and talk to everyone (male and female). He jokes about my busy social life and doesn't mind it at all.
I hope I didn't ramble too much...I talk alot better than write, that Gem trait just flew right by me.
As you've said... Nobody is ?perfect? and nobody is ?imperfect?..! It's all about ?urban people? and the way they are evaluating and seeing things..! It's all about the status..! Society's status?.! The more advanced they are the more stupid they are..!
This myth bullshit about? ?Virgos looking for perfect? is a MYTH producing by those idiots on those communities?.!
I get the feeling that most of the Virguys that post here are like this and I wanted to say something positive about them.
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