Virgo Men, flaws and all, you are truly special _3

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Hello everyone,

I hope my title will manage to attract plenty of Virgo Men lol. I noticed that there's not much going on regarding my topic, so I had to think of sth. flattering :-) I mean it though.

Virgo energy (whether Sun or else) is the sexiest energy to me hands down.
Now what's my deal? I'm new to dxpnet, just created the account but I've been following the astrology board for a while now.

Unfortunately there's not much on Cap Women and Virgo Men :-/

My Chart: Libra Rising, Cap Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Mars, Aquarius Venus, Capricorn Mercury, Virgo Saturn, Virgo Jupiter...

Why am I here, of course it's because of a Virgo Man, there's a guy that has me enthralled but if it's not him I'd love for my future husband to have either Virgo Rising, Sun or Mars (Venus not so much lol).

VIRGO MEN what do you think about Capricorn Women? I'm afraid there won't be too much feedback and I don't want to beg but I'm sure you'd help a lot of folks :-))

They say we're so compatible, yet there are not too many topics on Cap Women with other earth signs.


Ok enough for now, I know Virgos don't like rambling so I'll shut my Libra Rising up now.

And goooo.. :-))


Thanks a lot in advance
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Ohhhhh that was quick. LOL ridiculous how excited this response got me :-)

The guy is Virgo Sun, Taurus or Gem Moon (I have feeling it's Taurus), Cancer Mars, Virgo Venus.

That's the chart I have so far. I haven't really gotten to know him, I know his sister, had a short convo at a gathering and then after a while sent him a request on FB (ughhh so Teenie, I'm in my mid 30's lol) and had a short but nice convo on FB when I sent him a Happy Birthday message.

That was it so far, kinda waiting for us to run into each other again or for him to make a move (which he certainly won't, at least not until he sees me again and gets to really check me out in person I think).

Do you think that with Virgo Men and CAp Women if they're smitten with us then it's us who isn't interested and vice versa? Or that Cap Women are interested early on and Virgo comes around 1 year later after you were sure it's a lost cause and tells you "I love you" LOL and you're like "errr WHAT??".

One of the two has to have the balls to take the risk and make a move even if it means being turned down. And I think it's more likely that it's CAp Women.

Plus his Virgo Venus makes think even more tricky. I guess it's time to lose a couple of pounds LOL.

As much as I love Virgo, I get them because of my Virgo Moon/Mars, if they are great they are SUPER, if they're "messed up" (for a lack of a better expression) then you need to really leave them alone.

I think that's why it's so hard for many women to let go of them even if they're coo-coo because once the ladies have gotten a glimpse of that soft and equally soft side of Virgo Man, the kind that needs no words, is so subtle yet very intense but is only seen if and WHEN the Virgo choses and may never be seen again and the ladies ask themselves "was I dreaming? where has that prince gone?and who the f*** is that grumpy/nagging fart?" LOL

Ok I had to stop myself here after noticing the Virgo Love-Thread was turning into the opposite 😉.

But like I said "flaws and all" I love them and get them & I know the difficulties of Virgo energy.



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I totally get what you're saying, earth sign sexiness is something else. Especially since we're so slow to act and there's plenty to build up lol.

Yeah I've had several guys with Virgo Energy interested in me, one is my longterm ex (Pisces Sun, Virgo Rising and MArs) and I think you're right we leave a stronger imprint on them than vice versa, or let's say it's different. I've never had a Virgo (Sun or Mars or else) that I've missed or wanted back. But I think if I met one that could hold my interest for long and was most of all stable (Virgo guys have major issues that leads to unhealthy relationships). A Virgo with a Cancer moon an Air Venus (not Gem though lol) would probably good.

Virgo is in my 12 th House along with 4 Planets so yeah I get them but their chart has to be "strong" to fit me and to make the match not too heavy. My Aqua Venus and Libra Rising will not have any Bonnie and Clyde, Romeo and Juliet relship.
I want romantic but practical, fun, loving, deep and most of all sane, no drama, well no major lol.

Actually as of now I'm not impatient and not fixed on him. He's just so super hot ughhh lol.

My Libra Rising likes to have a lil crush from the distance, I think we need that on a regular basis even if we're single to feel alive. Dream of love while we're waiting for it.

I don't know him so all that glitter could be gone once I get to know him.

He's been struggling career wise, not working in his career but just some random job. And as a Cap I know that we're not too interested in dating if we'Re unhappy in our career and not where we want to be and reality hits us. I had a tough year too career wise and I preferred not to date since I have no interested in that when my mind is on my money. Friends and family yes but no serious dating.

YOu are very nice!! Thank you so much for the kind and thourough reply!!

I'm on the Virgo Board as well. Talked to Tauruses, Cancers etc. Some serious haters on here lol, it's fun!
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I like your style Mimi, the way you refer to sign energy instead of just sun sign etc. That's how I think as well. I'm far more than just Libra, my sun is on Virgo cusp and I have personal Gemini, Scorpio, & Capricorn placements as well that make up huge parts of my personality. Most of us are far more complicated than just one sign! So I appreciate your approach. 🙂

I am also a huge fan of Virgo energy, my husband is Sun & Venus. My sister, aka previously my favorite person in the world prior to meeting my man has Virgo Moon, Mercury, & Venus. Bff Virgo moon, other bff sun. My son has Virgo mars but he's still wittle 🙂 so I'm not sure exactly how that will play out, but I can say he already shows signs of wanting to help sweep, vacuum, etc! Woohoo!

My chart: Libra Rising, Libra/Virgo cusp, Gemini Moon, Libra Mercury, Scorpio Venus, Capricorn Mars.
My man: Libra Rising, Virgo Sun, Taurus Moon, Leo Mercury, Virgo Venus, Aquarius Mars.

I think our charts are not typically considered highly compatible and we have had our differences but I love how we grow closer and bond deeper as time goes on. We were initially very attracted to one another but kept it just friendly for months even though he expressed to me that we'd probably be amazing together. I kept my attraction secret as I always do until I'm absolutely certain there's serious relationship potential. Then it's full speed ahead. (I think I attribute that to my Sc Venus & Cap Mars..?) Our first date was just intended to be friends hanging out (mutually agreed) but the attraction was more intense than we realised and it became a date. 😉

Mine is a very ballsy Virgo. I think it's his Aqua Mars. Often he will do or say something for the simple goal of seeing how someone will react. And also his Libra Rising & Leo Mercury makes him very friendly and outgoing. He's actually far more outgoing & sociable than me! He does get grumpy but never ever naggy.

About earthy energy being slow to act.. Yes! Like I said, it took months for us to have our first "friend date" turned "real date." And then even More months to become an actual couple. We took turns chasing eachother. But once it become solid that was that and it just keeps getting better!
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I'm sorry for the late reply guys!!! Honestly I forgot that I've created this thread LOL. Been all over the Astrology forums on here, since I'm new. Thank you so much for your input!! Very kind!

So I'm really interested in finding out more about Virgo Venus, the men that is, I have a Virgo Sun/Venus friend but she's a woman and if he's anything like that boy I'm in a for a ride and better put on my big girl panties lol.

I thought I'd post the question specifically on VIRGO VENUS in here instead of creating another thread.
If there's little to no feedback on here I might delete this thread and create a new one on Virgo Venus.
Am I not super organized LOL? Virgo Moon & Mars whooop!
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Well keep looking, it's worth it!! Yes Cap Women are either in longterm relships or longterm single. I was in a relships from age 21-29. Since 29 I've been single and I'm turning 35 lol. Had some "catching up" to do and see what's out there, then focussed on my career and now I got so used to it and I'm starting to think I might be getting weird so I'm getting ready to "get out there" again in 2015, this time for serious dating only.
I don't mind being single though, I have friends and family and enjoy my own company tremendously. But I also want a family so I guess it's time to dust my old self off and go hunting for a husband LOL.
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Posted by VirgoFlirt
virgo venus. what ya need?



Ooops I just saw this :-) Thanks for responding.

Well they say that by looking at Venus you can tell (at least a bit I guess) what attracts a guy in a woman. For Virgo Venus: bold women or very reserved/shy women?, as for outer appearance women with curves or rather the slim skinny/athlectic type, damsel in distress or humorous outgoing...

I didn't think the above through so I just wrote what I could think of :-p
I have Venus in Aquarius for example that could be a bit weird in the "getting to know stage" I guess, despite the fact that the rest of the chart fits very well.

Maybe you could describe 2 scenarios: 1 being when it goes really well with Virgo Venus and the other when it doesn't. Like pitfalls etc.

Thank you very much in advance!
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I meant weird because of our Venuses Virgo and Aqua :-)

Aqua Venuses "flirt" in a more humorous buddy kinda of way, it's not sweet like Pisces Venus or sexy like Scorpio VEnus. Some ppl don'T even perceive it as flirting but rather think that you'Re treating them like a buddy.

On the other hand I have Libra Rising and a lot of earth. I haven't figured out how much my Aqua Venus actually shows in the beginning but when it does I've noticed that men with earthy or watery Venuses are not always fond of it and find it "weird". Sorry I can't put it better than that.

If I get through that stage it should be fine, since I think I have many traits that Virgo Venus would like.
I have Pluto in the 1st house, so despite my Libra Rising, I have a strong Scorpionian energy about me.

What about preferences when it comes to looks for Virgo Venus? Of course that's a stretch but a rough direction lol?

Thanks you very much!
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Posted by Mimi618
I meant weird because of our Venuses Virgo and Aqua :-)

# Nothing to weird about that. Consider mine in pisces.

Aqua Venuses "flirt" in a more humorous buddy kinda of way, it's not sweet like Pisces Venus or sexy like Scorpio VEnus. Some ppl don'T even perceive it as flirting but rather think that you'Re treating them like a buddy.

# I usually refer to aqua venus as the Lucifinas of women. They truly are Lucifina. They write these encrypted messages for you to decrypt, and leave you standing on the Cold Street Corner by yourself to freeze. :-)

If I get through that stage it should be fine, since I think I have many traits that Virgo Venus would like.
I have Pluto in the 1st house, so despite my Libra Rising, I have a strong Scorpionian energy about me.

# Is it conjunct your rising or sun/moon?

What about preferences when it comes to looks for Virgo Venus? Of course that's a stretch but a rough direction lol?



# Preference as to what? Looks or Sexual attraction?
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Hahaha you're funny :-)

Oh wowza Pisces Venus is quite tricky 😉I like Pisces energy, Pisces Venus are so vague and they like to keep their options open too much, swimming from one relship to the next, and they're usually quite popular lol.

Lucifinas? LOL noooo but I get how ppl could perceive it that way. We flirt in this happy go lucky, homegirl, let's joke around, pick on each other lighthearted type of way, enjoying verbal sparring partners and then somehow without noticing we cross the line. In the beginning dude is like "wow this is really refreshing , she makes my brain tick, she's so easy going" then comes the point where he doesn't like it anymore cause it's just too much.

The encrypted messages, oh boy I know. I actually re-read texts after time had passed, to analyze what had happened with the guy and was like "WHAT?? I wrote that,yeah no wonder he didn't responded as I wanted, I don't even get what I wrote back then..." Aqua Venus really doesn't see it while they do it, at least not me with all that earth. Now that I'm older I understand my Venus and keep her in
CHECK :-)

Do you mean his Virgo Venus? It's conjunct my Moon, Mars, Saturn and Jupiter. He has Sun and Mercury also in Virgo..

With preference I meant looks but hey if you
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My Virguy seems to have been attracted to a balance of reserved/shy with a touch of boldness when appropriate. (I know several of his ex gf's.) I am both reserved/shy and bold, depending on many factors. Physically I am slim/skinny but I have curves- a booty for sure and moderate chest. When we started dating I remember him verbally complimenting my teeny arms. (I think of them as chicken wings, but he thinks they are sexy.. like a runway model.)

Interesting that VFlirt likes Pluto Dom. My Pluto is in my 1st house, just behind Venus.

Regarding Reserved/Shy & Bold.. my Virgo Venus sister likes guys who are a bit shy but she gets annoyed and loses interest in they are not bold about pursuing her. Come to think of it, husband likes me to initiate sex. Good thing I have a lot of Cardinal in my chart.
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Yeah my Pluto is in the 1st house to, Libra Rising :-)
So that is a check! Venus in 5th house is mine, which is also good.Chicken arms *looks down on arms*. Well I can try to get those back LOL. THe reserved shy &bold thing is good too, that is kinda how I am. My Venus in Aqua has no problem initiating and I have lots of Cardinal too Cap and Libra. But I have a Venus in Virgo female friend. I really hope that the guys are not like that lol, j/k. They need someone who has "balls" (men and women) BUT are more about the walk than the talk. If you can't back it up with real actions they will be less than impressed and they usually have seen plenty of that so I think best is to impress them with authenticity and having your shit together and some good sex on top. Don't be wishy washy, if you got that covered 80% then I think Virgo Venus isn't that complicated anymore. It's mostly in their head and they know that, I think they confuse themselves, so don't add to that.