FlorasSecret
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Virgo men, what should we know about you?
Posted by FlorasSecret
I am just a curious Cappy girl! 🙂
Yay you lol
What kind of woman do you like?
Aggressive, know what they want, able to communicate properly their needs, wants, thoughts and ideas.
What is more important, looks or personality?
In the beginning looks. In the long run personality.
We are perfectionists, so we want both.
What counts as an absolute turn on, and what is a total turn off?
Turn on
Remembering things I did, or said, how to spell my name properly, able to have intellectual discourse on more obscure topics.
Turn offs
Ugly feet, unkempt look [nails, hair, clothes], close mindedness, ignorance, laziness, incompetence, selfishness, inability to concede in a debate or argument.
What are your main focusES in life?
Money, Success, Education, Competing, Roman Catholicism.
What do you like to do in your freetime?
Video games, Exercise, Research, Think
How much time do you like to spend with your lover. need your space, or like to have a bit more clingy girlfriend?
Ideally at least 3-4 hours a day. 10 hours or more every so often.
I'm alright with clingy, I think. So long as it is not overbearing.
Don't fancy the Scorpio[irrationally jealous] type.
the Pisces[ditsy, dreamy, go with the flow] type.
The Libra[conceited, pretentious, obnoxious know it all] type.
The Taurus [Self serving, selfish, money mongering] type.
When you start to date, do you prefer to make the first step or not?
I prefer not to make the first step.
Would you "fight" for a woman you love? What love generally mean to you?
Nope, I don't believe I should ever have to "fight for love".
It's either you want to be with me or you don't.
Are you idealists?
Practicality and Logic above all else. Then idealism.
How important sex is, and are you more traditional or rather crazy in bed? Want a more dominant, a more submissive woman, or both?click to expand
Sex is very important, post marriage.
Reasonably crazy, need for cleanliness prevents other more radical things.
Submissive woman who knows what she wants.
Any experiences with Cappy women?
My mom is a Capricorn and today is her birthday! Bought her a BlackBerry Pearl 3g.
The Capricorns I was interested in dating [only met in 2010], were all hung up on exes and one chose the ex who cheated on her over me ultimately. Not a good start.
Cajunspirit:
Thank you for the VERY detailed answer! Wow, i can see the Virgoness in you! 😉
btw Spell your name properly? Seriously? You should expect every people to learn your name and write it correctly.
The only question i have now: the woman should make the first step? Actually i am not comfortable doing that. I can have good conversation, i can be very friendly but making the first step.... i think a man should do it. I mean if he doesn't have the courage to do it, how can i be sure if he relly wants mo or not? Maybe he is with me only because i make a first step? Also it would make me uncomfortable because i would feel By "fighting" for love, i meant that if you would see another man around your girlfriend wouldn't you send him away?
I'd like a man who is a bit dominant and can definitely show me that he wants me. I want a man who can express this.
(I wouldn't go back to a man who cheated on me. Simply because i wouldn't trust him every again. If something is over, then it is over.)
Happy Birthday to your Mother. I wish her good health and happiness!
Thank you for the VERY detailed answer! Wow, i can see the Virgoness in you! 😉
btw Spell your name properly? Seriously? You should expect every people to learn your name and write it correctly.
The only question i have now: the woman should make the first step? Actually i am not comfortable doing that. I can have good conversation, i can be very friendly but making the first step.... i think a man should do it. I mean if he doesn't have the courage to do it, how can i be sure if he relly wants mo or not? Maybe he is with me only because i make a first step? Also it would make me uncomfortable because i would feel By "fighting" for love, i meant that if you would see another man around your girlfriend wouldn't you send him away?
I'd like a man who is a bit dominant and can definitely show me that he wants me. I want a man who can express this.
(I wouldn't go back to a man who cheated on me. Simply because i wouldn't trust him every again. If something is over, then it is over.)
Happy Birthday to your Mother. I wish her good health and happiness!
Posted by FlorasSecret
Cajunspirit:
Thank you for the VERY detailed answer! Wow, i can see the Virgoness in you! 😉
Guilty as charged!
btw Spell your name properly? Seriously? You should expect every people to learn your name and write it correctly.
It's Mathieu, not Matthew.
The only question i have now: the woman should make the first step? Actually i am not comfortable doing that. I can have good conversation, i can be very friendly but making the first step.... i think a man should do it. I mean if he doesn't have the courage to do it, how can i be sure if he relly wants mo or not? Maybe he is with me only because i make a first step?
As strong and independent as Capricorn women appear, it is exactly that an appearance. Cardinal signs on the whole have a strong emphasis on appearance. I am not disputing their strength, simply stating they appear stronger via their demeanor.
Capricorn women can be very shy, timid even. They dislike when they see a man talking to multiple women.
As a Virgo man, I believe I relate to women a lot better than men, so this "sin" is natural.
I have no problem approaching a woman who is alone, and joking with her.
However groups irk me, as do, as 25thDecan rightly states, RECIPROCATION.
That is THE most important part.
I am tired of people who I approach and they can only talk about themselves, they show no interest in me. They expect me to speak about myself. This is just not how I operate.
Also it would make me uncomfortable because i would feel By "fighting" for love, i meant that if you would see another man around your girlfriend wouldn't you send him away?
I'd like a man who is a bit dominant and can definitely show me that he wants me. I want a man who can express this.
I don't believe in "sending people away". If he is speaking to her, she had a choice, whether to reciprocate with him or not. If she chose to talk back and maintain conversation, obviously she had a desire to do so.
The one at fault is her, not the man.
Happy Birthday to your Mother. I wish her good health and happiness!
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Thanks.
Posted by 25thDecan
And i ve come to see that caj and I have a lot in common with this-similar upbringing I guess- but absolutely ZERO NEGOTIATION-.....if you are a hypocritical or gossiping woman, your best bet is to not pine after me. you are completely incompatible. Dramatic women who tear other women down, and other people are a HUGE NO NO.
I could'nt agree more.
What kind of woman do you like?- Intelligent, goal-oriented, honest, compassionate, determined
What is more important, looks or personality?- I like both. If your personality is great but you look like frankenstein, no go. If you're a Victoria's Secret bombshell but you're as dumb as a post, no go.
What counts as an absolute turn on- Listening and remembering what I say, being passionate about your goals, natural beauty, displaying your intelligence and wit.
What is a total turn off?- Being overly shy, being overly stubborn, uncleanliness, being dramatic, caring too much about what others think, trying to make me jealous.
What are your main focus in life?- Learning, helping others, being happy, bringing peace to the world in my own way.
What do you like to do in your freetime?- Read, study, listen to music
How much time do you like to spend with your lover. need your space, or like to have a bit more clingy girlfriend?- I like my space and loathe clinginess. Don't be afraid to shoot me a "thinking of you" text though, those make me smile.
When you start to date, do you prefer to make the first step or not?- I like it when women say "f*ck you, social norms" and make the first step. I don't like when women feel that they have to be slaves to tradition. It's 2011, for goodness sake!
Would you "fight" for a woman you love?- If by "fight", you mean "compete with other guys" then no, never. If you claim that you love me, I should never have to. If some guy is flirting with you, I'd expect you to send him away on your own just like I would to a girl flirting with me.
What love generally mean to you?- A buncha crazy feelings.
Are you idealists?- I'm idealistic when it comes to matters of peace and diplomacy.
How important sex is, and are you more traditional or rather crazy in bed?- Yeah, it's kinda important but it's not the only thing I think about. I can be traditional or crazy, adaptation is the key.
Want a more dominant, a more submissive woman, or both?- A little bit of both, I suppose. I get a little turned-on when I get ordered to take my pants off. As soon as the door closed and the light goes out though, expect to be pseudo-raped.
Any experiences with Cappy women?- Yes, she was a bit of a prude and never took any action(I had to do EVERYTHING) so I got bored and dumped her. She was a sweetheart though, I'll give her that.
What is more important, looks or personality?- I like both. If your personality is great but you look like frankenstein, no go. If you're a Victoria's Secret bombshell but you're as dumb as a post, no go.
What counts as an absolute turn on- Listening and remembering what I say, being passionate about your goals, natural beauty, displaying your intelligence and wit.
What is a total turn off?- Being overly shy, being overly stubborn, uncleanliness, being dramatic, caring too much about what others think, trying to make me jealous.
What are your main focus in life?- Learning, helping others, being happy, bringing peace to the world in my own way.
What do you like to do in your freetime?- Read, study, listen to music
How much time do you like to spend with your lover. need your space, or like to have a bit more clingy girlfriend?- I like my space and loathe clinginess. Don't be afraid to shoot me a "thinking of you" text though, those make me smile.
When you start to date, do you prefer to make the first step or not?- I like it when women say "f*ck you, social norms" and make the first step. I don't like when women feel that they have to be slaves to tradition. It's 2011, for goodness sake!
Would you "fight" for a woman you love?- If by "fight", you mean "compete with other guys" then no, never. If you claim that you love me, I should never have to. If some guy is flirting with you, I'd expect you to send him away on your own just like I would to a girl flirting with me.
What love generally mean to you?- A buncha crazy feelings.
Are you idealists?- I'm idealistic when it comes to matters of peace and diplomacy.
How important sex is, and are you more traditional or rather crazy in bed?- Yeah, it's kinda important but it's not the only thing I think about. I can be traditional or crazy, adaptation is the key.
Want a more dominant, a more submissive woman, or both?- A little bit of both, I suppose. I get a little turned-on when I get ordered to take my pants off. As soon as the door closed and the light goes out though, expect to be pseudo-raped.
Any experiences with Cappy women?- Yes, she was a bit of a prude and never took any action(I had to do EVERYTHING) so I got bored and dumped her. She was a sweetheart though, I'll give her that.
25thDecan:
Thank you for your reply! Actually now reading all of your opinion i start to "get" Virgo logic better.
I am not gossipy. But i am sometimes (especially in big groups) very shy. Maybe i should work on it if i want to catch a Virgo. LOL
By fighting i didn't mean that you should actually fight for a woman. I think as a Capricorn i am very faithful and don't like unwanted attention from other man when i am in a commited relationship.
I meant, fight for your woman, for example if your family or friends oppose to the relationship. Something like this.
Thank you for your reply! Actually now reading all of your opinion i start to "get" Virgo logic better.
I am not gossipy. But i am sometimes (especially in big groups) very shy. Maybe i should work on it if i want to catch a Virgo. LOL
By fighting i didn't mean that you should actually fight for a woman. I think as a Capricorn i am very faithful and don't like unwanted attention from other man when i am in a commited relationship.
I meant, fight for your woman, for example if your family or friends oppose to the relationship. Something like this.
Cajunspirit/Mathieu (Are you French?):
Thank you again for the reply. Very informative. Yes, i am timid and shy, but i can't mask it very well in professional life. Although once i start to like somebody i don't want to appear as somebody who i am not. But at the same time i am very straightforward and open.
"Sending people away." Sorry, my mistake, i wasn't specific.
Imagine a situation. Usually a couple going to dance, and man hitting on the woman very often. The woman sending them away one by one. But some of them are a bit more persistent. In this situation sometimes a woman would like to feel safe, because unwanted attention is not good. I would expect my bf not just stand and look at these occasions, but if he see that i send the men away and they doN't go, he should take action, and send them away. That's what i meant.
Thank you again.
Thank you again for the reply. Very informative. Yes, i am timid and shy, but i can't mask it very well in professional life. Although once i start to like somebody i don't want to appear as somebody who i am not. But at the same time i am very straightforward and open.
"Sending people away." Sorry, my mistake, i wasn't specific.
Imagine a situation. Usually a couple going to dance, and man hitting on the woman very often. The woman sending them away one by one. But some of them are a bit more persistent. In this situation sometimes a woman would like to feel safe, because unwanted attention is not good. I would expect my bf not just stand and look at these occasions, but if he see that i send the men away and they doN't go, he should take action, and send them away. That's what i meant.
Thank you again.
SomeRandomVirgo:
Wow. I can see all Virgo men here gives very detailed reply. Thank you for your time. It was very informative to read it.
So you like a woman who makes the first step. But have you every done it yourself, or you mostly started relationships with woman who makes it.
My problem is not which centruy we live in. I would simply feel more comfortable, because i am shy. (Yes, i know it's not a good thing. 😄)
Wow. I can see all Virgo men here gives very detailed reply. Thank you for your time. It was very informative to read it.
So you like a woman who makes the first step. But have you every done it yourself, or you mostly started relationships with woman who makes it.
My problem is not which centruy we live in. I would simply feel more comfortable, because i am shy. (Yes, i know it's not a good thing. 😄)
Posted by FlorasSecret
Cajunspirit/Mathieu (Are you French?):
Nope, just got a french name.
"Sending people away." Sorry, my mistake, i wasn't specific.
Imagine a situation. Usually a couple going to dance, and man hitting on the woman very often. The woman sending them away one by one. But some of them are a bit more persistent. In this situation sometimes a woman would like to feel safe, because unwanted attention is not good. I would expect my bf not just stand and look at these occasions, but if he see that i send the men away and they doN't go, he should take action, and send them away. That's what i meant.
Thank you again.click to expand
Yeah, I would step in, find out what's going on or if we have really good communication, I'd know it was time to "Save her" hahahaha
Posted by FlorasSecret
SomeRandomVirgo:
Wow. I can see all Virgo men here gives very detailed reply. Thank you for your time. It was very informative to read it.
So you like a woman who makes the first step. But have you every done it yourself, or you mostly started relationships with woman who makes it.
My problem is not which centruy we live in. I would simply feel more comfortable, because i am shy. (Yes, i know it's not a good thing. 😄)
No problem, I like dealing with lists and surveys lol. I've typically make the first step but if a woman gets a preemptive strike on me, I think it's pretty hot. It shows me that you go after what you want and you're not some poor, shy, maiden waiting for a prince in a tower. If a woman overly shy, I'll leave her in the dust. I don't like when people are that unsure of themselves.
Posted by CappyyLuv30
Under the topic of "fighting for love"....what about those corny movie scenes where the guy shows up at the airport and yells "wait don't go!" or the guy shows up at her doorstep to profess his love for her......things like this. A Cap guy told me once that he'd never do any of these 'outlandish' things, is it an earth sign thing?
It must be an Earth sign thing. I am sure. Because Fire signs would totally do this in my experience. Very big gesture of love. And maybe it sounds corny, but i love that. 😉
Posted by ellessquePosted by CappyyLuv30
My biggest pet peeve is when people misspell my name so I totally feel you on that, cajun.
OK carry on....I'm a sponge right now.
me too. I'm still pissed at my 4th grade teacher. i got in trouble for talking (imagine that). she put my name on the board. she misspelled it. it was all down hill from there.
i got suspended for three days over it 😛click to expand
Look at the positive side. You had 3 free days without her. 😱
SomeRandomVirgo:
Thank you for your answer again. I started this thread because i read in almost every astrology site that Virgo and Cappy are good together. I've never in my life met a Virgo man (or i haven't realised it, if i did) so i was just curious.
I understand a bit better now, how a Virgo think.
I am not unsure in myself, rather the opposite, but i can be very VERY shy. You all, seem like men with good values, even similar values as Capricorn, but now i think we may make better friends than lovers.
Thank you again!
Thank you for your answer again. I started this thread because i read in almost every astrology site that Virgo and Cappy are good together. I've never in my life met a Virgo man (or i haven't realised it, if i did) so i was just curious.
I understand a bit better now, how a Virgo think.
I am not unsure in myself, rather the opposite, but i can be very VERY shy. You all, seem like men with good values, even similar values as Capricorn, but now i think we may make better friends than lovers.
Thank you again!
Posted by ellessquePosted by FlorasSecretPosted by ellessquePosted by CappyyLuv30
My biggest pet peeve is when people misspell my name so I totally feel you on that, cajun.
OK carry on....I'm a sponge right now.
me too. I'm still pissed at my 4th grade teacher. i got in trouble for talking (imagine that). she put my name on the board. she misspelled it. it was all down hill from there.
i got suspended for three days over it 😛
Look at the positive side. You had 3 free days without her. 😱
lol. true.
she wrote my name on the board. i kept talking. she asked me why am i still talking if my name was written on the board. i told her that is not my name and i will keep talking until she spells it right.
my parents were not happy.click to expand
LOL. The way you tell it. You have a nice humor, Ellessque. 😉
To the 5 ft CappyyLuv30:
😄 So petite! Like a doll! In my experience men loves that! 😉
I think the theatre and the solid base can be done at the same time. At least in my dreams, LOL!
Yes, we appear strong. (Imagine i am Cappy + Cappy Asc). I think in some matters i am very strong inside too. Sensitive but strong.
The fact is, i never try to appear strong/cool/professional. It's not a decisieon, it's just the way how other perceive me. So i am not sure if i need or should change it. I hope there are still guys out there, who can see past all that.
😄 So petite! Like a doll! In my experience men loves that! 😉
I think the theatre and the solid base can be done at the same time. At least in my dreams, LOL!
Yes, we appear strong. (Imagine i am Cappy + Cappy Asc). I think in some matters i am very strong inside too. Sensitive but strong.
The fact is, i never try to appear strong/cool/professional. It's not a decisieon, it's just the way how other perceive me. So i am not sure if i need or should change it. I hope there are still guys out there, who can see past all that.
*sigh*...I just love reading your posts wg....
Wgamador:
Thank you for taking the time to reply! First i was totally mixed by your userpic with the Lion head, but i realised after that you are a Virgo. 🙂
By fighting i wasn't talkign about real fighting, but i admit if we would probably live a few centuries earlier you could be a knight, if you did that. I am sorry that you experienced something that bad. I truly hope your life will turn into better. I am not a fan of violence, but i understand that she was important to you.
"And would have LIVEd for someone." It's not my place to give any advice or opinion (i definitely am not the one to judge, ok?). But i like to say something. All of my relationships when i "lived for someone" went wrong. It's just not the right way. I think it's not selfish if i say that now i want to experience not living FOR someone and only for him, but living FOR myself AND giving my best to my partner. There should always be a balance between the YOU and the ME. Giving and Taking. If we only give or only take, then things go awful. I am not a perfect person. I am a Capricorn. Astrologycally speaking, i see several Pisces people who can sacrfice themselves for love, they are totally selfless. I know because i was in a relationship with a Pisces man. I can't do that. It's just how i am. I also feel that i am not sure if i can accept from another if he would just live for me. I can't take that huge responsibility.
I am not sure why iw rite this to you, i totally went off-topic now. But i felt like saying all this.
Thank you again for your answers!
Thank you for taking the time to reply! First i was totally mixed by your userpic with the Lion head, but i realised after that you are a Virgo. 🙂
By fighting i wasn't talkign about real fighting, but i admit if we would probably live a few centuries earlier you could be a knight, if you did that. I am sorry that you experienced something that bad. I truly hope your life will turn into better. I am not a fan of violence, but i understand that she was important to you.
"And would have LIVEd for someone." It's not my place to give any advice or opinion (i definitely am not the one to judge, ok?). But i like to say something. All of my relationships when i "lived for someone" went wrong. It's just not the right way. I think it's not selfish if i say that now i want to experience not living FOR someone and only for him, but living FOR myself AND giving my best to my partner. There should always be a balance between the YOU and the ME. Giving and Taking. If we only give or only take, then things go awful. I am not a perfect person. I am a Capricorn. Astrologycally speaking, i see several Pisces people who can sacrfice themselves for love, they are totally selfless. I know because i was in a relationship with a Pisces man. I can't do that. It's just how i am. I also feel that i am not sure if i can accept from another if he would just live for me. I can't take that huge responsibility.
I am not sure why iw rite this to you, i totally went off-topic now. But i felt like saying all this.
Thank you again for your answers!
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What kind of woman do you like? What is more important, looks or personality? What counts as an absolute turn on, and what is a total turn off?
What are your main focus in life? What do you like to do in your freetime? How much time do you like to spend with your lover. need your space, or like to have a bit more clingy girlfriend?
When you start to date, do you prefer to make the first step or not? Would you "fight" for a woman you love? What love generally mean to you? Are you idealists?
How important sex is, and are you more traditional or rather crazy in bed? Want a more dominant, a more submissive woman, or both?
Any experiences with Cappy women?
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