virgo plus aries

Hello,

so 3 years ago i met some Virgo man.

He liked me, i thought he was interested in me not only sexually, but i was wrong.

He is the type of person who fixes people. I cant stand people fixing me, mothering me. The only people that can do it are my parents. I am their child.

All of my life i have taken (?) my friends as they were. I didnt care about the flaws, cons etc. I knew everyone is getting older, everyone is getting more experienced. I have never compared people.

3.5-4 years ago i came again into the company of some people. I met Virgo guy. Before he was single, he had relationships with Gemini girls ( i tried his natal chart and his asc cusp is gemini/taurus).

Then he met other Taurus people including my friend that invited me into her new company. She was very serious hardworking but sad.

Virgo came from similar family with separations and etc so they understood each other. She started to friendzone him even though she had boyfriends. I saw him interested in her.

Whenever i was around in the company , new, fresh, he was interested in me. She didnt like it. Was doing everything to catch his attention and pull me back.

I understood it only after 1-2 years.

I was taking them as friends, i didnt know they were 'like that' i didnt know about any competition about any 'attention seeking'thing.

I know before when we met i was a bit disorganised. Maybe too noisy anda bit 'around' i was not a nerdy type like this taurus girl and i was taking her attention from the company.

I started to have an affair with Virgo who wanted to fix me first ( like taurus girl was mothering me before). He wanted me to be his 2nd girlfriend and wanted me to 'wait' to fix myself and then while hanging out with other women he would switch for me.

I didnt agree.

When you sleep with me we can have an affair or we can be in relationship. I do not agree to be oneof the FEW and WAIT to be his 'official' when he changes his mind of me.

Because he 'matches' his trophies and then he waits for them and observes.

I didnt know that.

But started working hard and so one, met his friends from company and environment. They were interested in me. SO i was free, a single so i started to flirt with them after 1 year after the affair with a virgo.

So actually he wanted to come back, was begging me because me as a trophy was pulling away and he didnt have any control.

THis taurus girl was again interested in me because she found out i was becoming popular and i was doing cool things. So she attached again to Vrigo guy even though she had a bf. And again he was actually mesmerized by her was her 'prince charming; and she was the queen bee even though she had a bf.

After 2 years of that i was still single. Taurus girl pulled away from company with her new boyfriend. And i started also doing my thing.

I met other people, other men FIRE signs.

So after 2 years even Virgo was jealous of me, and even after not being with me and pulling back from me, he made a bad, black PR of me to Fire Signs men.

Finally after again 1 years - 9 months after that i am single i am in a totally different company i blocked virgo and i moved on.

I see now he has a gf - he is 28 years old, she is 20. And they met 1.5 years ago. And they had sex and he pulled back. She had aboyfriend and she was working 1 year to impress virgo. and when she started gaining victories in her business or studies Virgo came back and now he HELPS her and gives her GOOD contacts from the business and is like a 'father'.

He wanted to do the same for me. But actually i didnt want. I didnt want to be a doll. I am confident Aries woman who doesnt play games. Only fake and not confident people play games.

And I still wonder. Why did this Virgo 'match' girls and then he pulles back and waits and observes and comes back when they are 'fixed' to help them?

I didnt agree and he made a revenge. Because i pulled back and i dint want his 'help'.

I was searching for a boyfriend on the same level not a 'dad' that HELPS ME. I HAVE A DAD i dont need one.

SO my question is. Why does he do it?

And why is he so Slow? He is very analitical and he is very not confident.

I quit being jealous becuase i am an individual unit and i need the same level. I dont wanna be fixed i can fix myself by MYSELF.

Am i right or not?

VIRGOS tell me please🙂

Posted by TomSawyer
This can't be new to you.

Some times I get confused how Aries women can't see the picture as a whole.

Seems like y'all are thrown in the game and you're trying your best not to bow down or get run over.

Anyways, here's the game.

Command & conquer..

Throw a prey to the wolves and one of them will start slowly cornering you.

He'll have a smile on his face that'll make you believe he's being friendly.

Some chicks fall for this, others won't.

I've noticed Aries chicks are reserved as hell when it comes to certain moves played.

Yet y'all got the attitude to play further.

In a nutshell..This is a version of fast life.

Welcome to the tournament.

@TomSawyer

ithink i do not understand anything.

so its just a game and everyone should have 10 options to 'becool'.

and vanishing without a word is ok?