Virgo Traits and Other Thoughts

I am new to this board and have posted a couple of things on the Virgo board. I must say I have read at random some of your thoughts on Virgos and have learned a lot. And I thank you all for that. I have been seeing a Virgo now for over three years. To say the least it has not been easy - I am a Scorpio. Hold on now, I can just hear it now...oooo Scorpio. But speaking for me - I am one of the reserved ones. I must state that I have had the patience of Job in dealing this this Virgo man. Cruel words that he has spoken to me when we would get too close - to push me away. Then will come around like a little boy who has displeased a parent -- in knowing him for eight years - and seeing him for three. The noticable things I have witnessed. He's more affectionate now, helpful, gives good advice, really sweet. But then I figured out - if you don't do anything - a Virgo will. The thing is I don't think other signs give him credit on how he does a relationship. How you guys do it is awesome. I don't call him a lot anymore - I use to, but he was always going somewhere or busy or just didn't want to talk. So I stopped calling him altogether. Now he calls me, asks if he can come over and I let him. When he walks in the door he gives me a kiss on the cheek and we watch TV or read and make mad, passionate love. Yes a Virgo is an earthy , sexy man to a Scorpio woman. If you allow him to take his time to please you - you will be pleasantly surprised with him.
He is insecure and that is the thing that gets me the worst about him. I am emotionally drained from that... trying to convince him that I care - so I stopped. And somehow - he now does it to me. So I guess I am saying if you give this gentle man a chance - he may just surprise you - if you can tough it out in the beginning and with a lot of patience and love and gentle guiding... you will have a devoted person. Just seems to take them a little longer to get with it. All that analyzing I guess.
But to all you Virgos - you are really good people. Maybe a little misunderstood at times - and a little hard on the other person's feelings... but good never the less. I am glad to know one.