Virgos and friendships

I just realized I don't have close male friends all my good friends and best friends are female... I have no need or interest in having a man as a friend, if I take interest in a male its only for romantic purposes. Whats wrong with me— I don't think thats normal behavior but I've never really looked at that part of my life before. Is that a Virgo trait— Is it part of keeping things how they belong or how we think they belong just another box.

I'm starting to think I shouldn't be dating and go out and buy a B.O.B and join a soccer team and just learn how boys work and think....

Do other Virgos find themselves having more or only best friends of the same sex and less or none of the opposite sex—??

My best friend has alot of platonic friendships with males good friendships that were never of a romantic nature.These same men I know and we're "friends" too. But theres some romantic encounter between us,... in the past anyways... I'm talking about 3 guys not heards over a period of 15-18 years.

They never married and I'm now divorced but we have no interest in being close buddies and no interest in rekindeling anything. When we see each other we all get along good and have alot in common. I guess I'm just wondering why we were never able to have just a friendship on an emotional level why there always has to be a romantic past. I can't just say hes a friend of mine, there "friends" even though its been along time ago, thats kind of sad and I think I'm missing out on something here......

Branh,

I think I'm older then you and there are probably things we both don't like about each other, certain views that is.... but if we were physically attracted to each other and with no emotional circus we would just get along great!!!!!!

This is one view I completely support of Brahns I have the same feeling about it I just can't be a mans friend if I'm not interested in anyway in him I wont even go there, I don't need him.

Oh god I'm the female version of Brahn!!!! Just reading what I just wrote makes me say oh my god... I'm so bad... but I'm being truthful.... So go ahead I'm ready for the bashing......