Virgos & Scorpio relationship??!?!?!?

in a earlier post i was asking advice on my Ex girlfriend she a scorpio & im a virgo! we was together 15months but we broke up because of circumstances, she didnt like me hanging around in gay bars, didnt like me doing drugs and didnt like the people i live with.

we broke up didnt see each other for like 2 months, but over the past 2 months she has been calling me drunk and we have been sleeping together but nothing more, ive had no problem with this, but last week she said we need to stop sleeping together to move on, and i was like why cant we get back together i know deep down she wants to but because the reasons why we split are still there she wont, so basically she said if i move out and stop going in the gay bars we could be together is that to controlling or should i just do it then we could be together. the other thing is i like this other girl a taurus, we get along great she does drugs goes in the gay bars and does alot more thing the same as me, me and her slept together last weekend had a great time but she has a girlfriend who she cheated on to sleep with me, now i really like her also but kinda know she doesnt want to be with me or want anything but i really like her, should i go for things with me ex which would be great or be patient with teh taurus and see if things progress with her?? please reply to a very confused virgo! Thank you (",)