Virgo's Shell Phase

So we all know that Virgo's go into a withdrawal from the world phase. But I wanna know, when you guys go into this phase...do you like when others check up on you or do you want to be complelty left alone? Or let's say you have a love interest? Would you mind them reaching out to you to check up on you( even if you don't reply) or do you want them to leave you tf alone lol and you'll reach out to them when you're ready? You guys are so complex it's kind of fascinating haha!!

Mercury retro is

In virgo and many of them are dealing with a lot of crap. More then likely that is why they are in there shell. It is a big time for flings or x's to back... this same retrograde happened last year around this time so completed the cycle... hopefully lessons where learned or they will be learned again.

Piscesmoon

I mean it's nothing too serious with the Virgo I talk to. We both know we have feelings for each other and we've had sex and we always stay at his house whenever we see each other. When he doesn't talk to me for a couple of days and texts me "he's thinking about me don't think I forgot about you" each time he gets a "chance" he works ALOT tho. But I ask Bc my brother is a Virgo and he does the same thing, my mom's wife, my friend female and male, my dad is a Virgo as well so you can see why I ask lol.

Virgo's view sex often in an emotionally detached way. However if you been with this guy and he is making an effort like that more then likely he is just working a lot because of the retro. So being supportive is a good thing... also just take note of how he deals with stress during this time so for so good. However if you are not around him it also does not mean he is deal with it all but just not showing you how he is.

I would say don't be to hard on him but if he seems to weird it maybe something to take into consideration... then maybe have a talk and if he is real I am sure it will show. If you have been together more then 3 months this is more then likely your first real relationship test. I hope it goes well for you.

Piscesmoon

If it was a love interest I would keep in contact, even if it's only every couple of days or so. I would expect the same in return. Everyone else, maybe besides my closest friend, I would get back to eventually.

Posted by GraceV15
If it was a love interest I would keep in contact, even if it's only every couple of days or so. I would expect the same in return. Everyone else, maybe besides my closest friend, I would get back to eventually.

^^^This, except I would want my SO to reach out to me. I have the tendency to be a bit of a loner at times.

I need someone that makes me feel connected or important to them, without being overbearing or not respecting my need for space. Just to reach out to make sure I'm still alive.

Sometimes having a 12th house placement sucks...as do mercury retrogrades.

I don't mean just relationship wise tho lol I meant virgos in general. My brother can stay to himself for daysssss and come out for the bathroom and to eat at meals and stuff lol. My moms wife is like that too and she's married to my mom.

Yeah in general we kinda wanna deal with it alone. It all depends how close we are with you, especially emotionally close.

What's your sign ?

@Sunsetvirgo I'm a libra, October 6. My brother and I are very close. He's about to be 10 and he's already like that lol. I'm close to all of them but it's just one thing that they all do. Well my dad sometimes but he's August 26

I don't know about a shell phase, but I sometimes I get depressed and pissed at the world. It's those times that I NEED someone I care about to reach out, if just to say hey. I might not be the most pleasant to be around, but knowing someone cares would help break me out of my depression.

Or so I assume. I don't know if I've ever actually had anyone reach out to me when I'm depressed, but I wish they would.

Just be there but I don't want to actually talk to you much about anything.

It's true us Virgos do go through a shell phase! I just turned 17 and I've been going through my shell phase since I was about 12 :')

It depends on the person, if it's someone that wants to get with me they have to compete with the time I like spending alone. Now, if it's a lover I'll keep them in the loop. The thing with my friends is that we can just pick up no matter how long we haven't spoken to each other. There's no pressure. I don't like feeling like I have to talk to someone.

We'll reach out when we're ready. I would hate it if someone was intruding my privacy. But occasional interactions from people that still treat me like a normal person is welcomed. It makes me feel more connected.

If I have a love interest, I can't shell them out. When we shell out, we reconsider our lives. If I have a love interest, I need to talk to out.