Virgo Friend is heartbroken - HELP!

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by MilaniKisses on Friday, August 11, 2017 and has 11 replies.

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@MilaniKisses
9 YearsVirgo

Hi all,

My Virgo friend was cheated on by her fiance (Taurus). She actually caught him in the attempt to cheat. Anyways, as a fellow Virgo myself, you'd think I could help her or at least understand how she is feeling. But I can't, because its not typical Virgo traits of grieving (IE.Walking away, wanting alone time, ect. )

With me, I would have already left already if something like that happened. Anyways, she has gotten severely depressed, no sleep, crying all the time and also giving her Fiance a second chance. She had mentioned before they had a soulmate connection which I believe because they are always with each other everyday and happy. He is very affectionate and you can tell he deeply loves her.

Though I recommended to her that she needs time/space away from him to think things over and take care of herself, she still wants to see him. Maybe she had become even more paranoid now and doesn't want to leave him alone... I dunno

Any advice on this situation?

Ever know a Virgo to stay after being cheated on?

Thanks,

Milani

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

My Virgo sister handles her problems alone. She's very to herself when she's dealing with something.

My sister is vindictive though. She will stay, but he will NOT be the only person cheating. That's unfortunately how she's able to feel better about the situation.

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@Toastedtoast
9 Years

Could totally see this happening

Posted by lnana04
My Virgo sister handles her problems alone. She's very to herself when she's dealing with something.

My sister is vindictive though. She will stay, but he will NOT be the only person cheating. That's unfortunately how she's able to feel better about the situation.

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@Toastedtoast
9 Years

I think the normal grieving traits you mentioned are the common ones. And severely depressed and crying all the time = means virgo is majorly hurt. And yes she would go back with a cheater just to make the intense feeling go away. From there it could go both ways. Keep getting cheated on ( I've seen it happen due to a Virgo with low self esteem) or she wakes up one day and slowly plans her way out/ possibly becoming a cheater to get even.

Posted by MilaniKisses
Hi all,

My Virgo friend was cheated on by her fiance (Taurus). She actually caught him in the attempt to cheat. Anyways, as a fellow Virgo myself, you'd think I could help her or at least understand how she is feeling. But I can't, because its not typical Virgo traits of grieving (IE.Walking away, wanting alone time, ect. )

With me, I would have already left already if something like that happened. Anyways, she has gotten severely depressed, no sleep, crying all the time and also giving her Fiance a second chance. She had mentioned before they had a soulmate connection which I believe because they are always with each other everyday and happy. He is very affectionate and you can tell he deeply loves her.

Though I recommended to her that she needs time/space away from him to think things over and take care of herself, she still wants to see him. Maybe she had become even more paranoid now and doesn't want to leave him alone... I dunno

Any advice on this situation?

Ever know a Virgo to stay after being cheated on?

Thanks,

Milani

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

LMFAOO oh so tauruses trying to cheat on us now ?

Tell her to boss up and remember who tf she is. Tell her to SNAP OUT OF IT.

Also lemme know the address of where this Taurus is. I just wanna talk ??