Virgos who are actual virgins?

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Posted by MellyMel909
Losing it at 14 doesn't make you a whore, LIMM!

Part of the reason I waited so long is because I somewhat realized I wasn't emotionally mature enough to handle it in my teens. The "once you fuck me, you are stuck with me" mindset.. which I still have; it's just less dependent and/or emotionally loaded now.




Oh I know....just compared to everyone else who waited...but I can still count how many ive been with on two hands...so all in all I guess Im doing pretty good lol. I wish now that I would have waited...but I wanted to then and was mature enough to handle it...in my eyes at least...having to grow up pretty fast.
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Posted by LonelyVirgo

for a while i contemplated becoming a nun. i was ordained instead out of the catholic faith but remained celibate.i am debating whether or not to continue my life as a nun now that i see that relationships are not worth it for me in this lifetime.







You make the insinuation here ^^^^ that sex is the meaning of a relationship.

to be celibate doesn't equal virginal .. to be celibate means you have sexual desires that you ignore .... being virginal is a pureness of body and mind.

If the Virgo would remove sex as being the meaning of a relationship .... then this epiphany would come to their realization.

The Creator of this topic obviously thinks that being a virgin is suppose to mean something special to other people .... yet, by his obsession of talking about it (which he does often) creates the scenario of insecurity within him, which renders this "special" persona he thinks of himself, as useless to this other person(s).


Virgo fails miserably in this department. They don't appear to realize that how they view themselves isn't how others view them ... if/when they USE life, instead of experiencing it.
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Posted by LilyTree
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I don't think any guy ever "waited". Those who say they did are just saying it to feel better about themselves.
It just didn't happen before that for me and I'd be fine at losing it at 14.



I disagree. In many cultures and religions, men and women save themselves until marriage.



I'm talking about the developed world here, obviously. Cultural pressure to do something does not mean the people don't want to do it. It's not "free will" - not that in the developed world it always would be to do it at a young age.

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Posted by sv
I don't think any guy ever "waited". Those who say they did are just saying it to feel better about themselves.
It just didn't happen before that for me and I'd be fine at losing it at 14.



Stop projecting, mate.
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Projecting what exactly? It's abnormal if a male at age 18-20 does not want to have sex. Get any guy to bed who is supposedly "waiting" with an incredible girl and I guarantee they won't turn the girl down.
To say "I haven't had sex because I'm waiting for marriage" is much better for the ego to say than "I haven't had sex for the past 10 years because I've been unsuccessful at getting a girl to bed", it's basic psychology.
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The Creator of this topic obviously thinks that being a virgin is suppose to mean something special to other people .... yet, by his obsession of talking about it (which he does often) creates the scenario of insecurity within him, which renders this "special" persona he thinks of himself, as useless to this other person(s).

Virgo fails miserably in this department. They don't appear to realize that how they view themselves isn't how others view them ... if/when they USE life, instead of experiencing it.
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I can only agree with the first paragraph. Statistically it's true, the older one is without having had sex, the more special or rare they are. Yet, it's another irrelevant statistic along with "people who have never eaten ice cream".
When it comes to how people perceive themselves, that's definitely not just a Virgo trait - it's universal for people. I'd even claim I see myself more objectively than the vast majority of people but I'd say that's a hindrance as the majority of people with average success have a positively biased image of themselves.
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Posted by LilyTree
Posted by sv
I don't think any guy ever "waited". Those who say they did are just saying it to feel better about themselves.
It just didn't happen before that for me and I'd be fine at losing it at 14.



I disagree. In many cultures and religions, men and women save themselves until marriage.



I'm talking about the developed world here, obviously. Cultural pressure to do something does not mean the people don't want to do it. It's not "free will" - not that in the developed world it always would be to do it at a young age.

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Posted by sv
I don't think any guy ever "waited". Those who say they did are just saying it to feel better about themselves.
It just didn't happen before that for me and I'd be fine at losing it at 14.



Stop projecting, mate.



Projecting what exactly? It's abnormal if a male at age 18-20 does not want to have sex. Get any guy to bed who is supposedly "waiting" with an incredible girl and I guarantee they won't turn the girl down.
To say "I haven't had sex because I'm waiting for marriage" is much better for the ego to say than "I haven't had sex for the past 10 years because I've been unsuccessful at getting a girl to bed", it's basic psychology.
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Who the hell defines what is "normal" or "abnormal" anyway? Well certainly not you, and oh, that is not basic psychology you are talking about there, its your perception of things and preconceived ideas, not to mention you're assuming you know what's going on in EVERYBODY's mind. Get real.
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Posted by LilyTree
Posted by sv
I don't think any guy ever "waited". Those who say they did are just saying it to feel better about themselves.
It just didn't happen before that for me and I'd be fine at losing it at 14.



I disagree. In many cultures and religions, men and women save themselves until marriage.



I'm talking about the developed world here, obviously. Cultural pressure to do something does not mean the people don't want to do it. It's not "free will" - not that in the developed world it always would be to do it at a young age.

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Posted by sv
I don't think any guy ever "waited". Those who say they did are just saying it to feel better about themselves.
It just didn't happen before that for me and I'd be fine at losing it at 14.



Stop projecting, mate.



Projecting what exactly? It's abnormal if a male at age 18-20 does not want to have sex. Get any guy to bed who is supposedly "waiting" with an incredible girl and I guarantee they won't turn the girl down.
To say "I haven't had sex because I'm waiting for marriage" is much better for the ego to say than "I haven't had sex for the past 10 years because I've been unsuccessful at getting a girl to bed", it's basic psychology.



Who the hell defines what is "normal" or "abnormal" anyway? Well certainly not you, and oh, that is not basic psychology you are talking about there, its your perception of things and preconceived ideas, not to mention you're assuming you know what's going on in EVERYBODY's mind. Get real.
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You sure sound like the half-psycho extroverted Virgos I've known. I'm very real, when people are uncomfortable with facts about themselves, they try to make it seem like it was their choice and there's some sort of a higher meaning to it.
Normal is defined by our brain chemistry.
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Posted by LonelyVirgo

for a while i contemplated becoming a nun. i was ordained instead out of the catholic faith but remained celibate.i am debating whether or not to continue my life as a nun now that i see that relationships are not worth it for me in this lifetime.







You make the insinuation here ^^^^ that sex is the meaning of a relationship.

to be celibate doesn't equal virginal .. to be celibate means you have sexual desires that you ignore .... being virginal is a pureness of body and mind.

If the Virgo would remove sex as being the meaning of a relationship .... then this epiphany would come to their realization.

The Creator of this topic obviously thinks that being a virgin is suppose to mean something special to other people .... yet, by his obsession of talking about it (which he does often) creates the scenario of insecurity within him, which renders this "special" persona he thinks of himself, as useless to this other person(s).


Virgo fails miserably in this department. They don't appear to realize that how they view themselves isn't how others view them ... if/when they USE life, instead of experiencing it.
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Great post
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P-Angel: Virgo fails miserably in this department. They don't appear to realize that how they view themselves isn't how others view them ...

Angelina, I hope to God you don't have any mirrors in your house...

I hate to confuse a Fish with Logic, but here goes: Perception is unique to each person, as is self-perception; therefore, it is highly unlikely that everyone we know sees us as we see ourselves.
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Posted by ShakenNotStirred

P-Angel: Virgo fails miserably in this department. They don't appear to realize that how they view themselves isn't how others view them ...

Angelina, I hope to God you don't have any mirrors in your house...

I hate to confuse a Fish with Logic, but here goes: Perception is unique to each person, as is self-perception; therefore, it is highly unlikely that everyone we know sees us as we see ourselves.



Uhhh...aren't you saying pretty much the same thing?
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Posted by ShakenNotStirred

P-Angel: Virgo fails miserably in this department. They don't appear to realize that how they view themselves isn't how others view them ...

Angelina, I hope to God you don't have any mirrors in your house...

I hate to confuse a Fish with Logic, but here goes: Perception is unique to each person, as is self-perception; therefore, it is highly unlikely that everyone we know sees us as we see ourselves.



Good point.
She makes a point of others seeing the Virgo for what he is. Not realizing that her view is as subjective as the view of the Virgo of himself. Yes, there are people with extremely distorted views of themselves but these people aren't the majority and it's definitely not about signs. Or does she think the Virgo sees her the same way she sees herself?