Went to Virgos's bar last night...hahaha!

Well its been weeks since going to Virgos bar, last we spkoe was when he called to "check in" on LAST Friday...and did the clicker drop off in my mailbox.

I walked in with friends, he did the nod and the wave ( yes, i did a nod back) and I continuued to ignore him for about an hour....as he was standing by his friends that I talk to all the time.

More friends came in and the bartender said there was room at the other side of the bar for us to eat. So we went over (Virguy was near there).

All of a sudden a bunch of guys came in and stood behind us. Lo and behold they were all friends of Viguy. Virguy came by I turned to him and said "Hey, whats up" and so he started talking to me and introducing me to his friends. No word of ANYTHING about no calling or nothing. He said "What have you been up to?" told him I went away on business again/Montreal...crazy time, been very busy"

He once again Viguy started explaining to his friends (while I was standing there) "Sophie just got back form Montreal and just bought a new gorgeous car.." bla bla...why do they care and why would he tell them that? One of his friends asked if I was single and I said "VERY Single"...he asked "Oh my god, how is is YOU are single?"

So all these guys (5 of them) were all over me all night (they were all married)....and I pretty much ignored Virguy the rest of night. He left at some point, didnt say goodbuy.

One of his friends walked me to my car and asked for my number...I said no thanks.

Right on, Sophie68. Don't get involved with any of his friends. I think you conducted yourself very gracefully and you should be proud. It probably wasn't easy seeing him again but you didn't let on to that fact. That is more than likely the reason why he left without saying goodbye. He more than likely wanted you to be all over him and when you didn't, he cut his loses. Good for him he saw the writing on the wall. Good for you because you still have your dignity and won't have to waste anymore time on this guy. Always be friendly when you see him but don't let him walk all over you. You deserve better. Good luck.

Mystical

I would think since I wasn't all over him and his friends were all over me, it would make him even more curious.

I'm thiking he may make another "follow up phone call" next week.

Well, if he does make a "follow up phone call" then talk with him but make no plans with him. Why bother? You don't want to be used as a "booty call" either. You are a person with feelings also and he can't just take contact with you whenever he feels like it. Have him as a distant friend because he seems to have some issues to deal with. You don't need anymore mind games.