What attracts virgos to Libra so much?

All my serious relationships have been Virgos, and I was married to one for 14yrs. After than I went into another serious relationship with one..What is the deal here?

What is the deal here?

A great mental connection. I was married to a Libra Woman for over 20 years. It was the first marriage for both of us - right after college. Most of those years were happy ones, and neither of us regrets it -- we got a fantastic Scorpio daughter out of it, too!

In fact, the mental connection I had with LibraEX is far better than the one I currently have with my Scorpio Wife. But... we disappointed each other emotionally - we could not give what the other needed, and as she tried to provoke an emotional response from me, I resented it (and would shut down), and I saw her behavior become more & more drama...

We were both middle children, and I've read in several articles that it's not a good birth-order pairing, either...

What attracted me to her? She was so interesting! She loves reading as much as I do, and she brought different viewpoints to topics. We used to talk for hours. She's also one of the few women I've met who will debate me - and she doesn't have to win. But whens she does win, she doesn't lord it over me.

My Scorp will not debate me at all. But at this time in my life, the emotional connection we share is much more important to me, and that was immediate, deep, mystical, and addictive...

"We were both middle children, and I've read in several articles that it's not a good birth-order pairing, either..."

please share more about this DyarStraBe

Libra women are interesting and provide good conversation.
Their beauty is captivating and they show great cognitive abilities.
I really enjoy flirting with them but oft the drama they put forward is annoying.

The dry sarcasm can be patience testing and how they hide their emotions aggravating.
Right my first ex a Libra scorns me, like no other.

Deep down I know she loves me but she intentionally puts her self at risk and is pushing me away, oh well.

_ am a libra. _ loved a virgo man . well , _ dont think that _ can love anyone or feel as close to anyone else ._ think libra and virgos are similiar in intellegence .they both love words .libra gets scared if too much love is showed. virgos are too cautious to show too much love so its what libra wants.if someone washes me with love _ would run away. and virgo knows to show the right amount of love._ mean when _ love _ always mention it show it shower the one with love . _t s not right to act like that .and virgos know how much love to show and how much love to keep inside .
and _ think no matter how big their egos are , they are too vulnerable and _ love to feel and see how vulnerable the one o love is . cause _ think libras are more dominant no matter how kind they are . so its a good challenge for a libra to dominate over a virgo with the super big but weak ego . and virgo men have a very cute child hidden in them . when they bring that child out they are the most loveable sign for the tender libra . _ loved my virgo as _ loved a baby . he was as vulnerable as a baby. he was 🙂 now he acts like a monster 🙂

they're fun to be with. i can connect wit libra guys mentally... not emotionally. i can debate abt everything wit them.love having them as friends..but couldnt feel beyond that for them(xcept scorpio mooners).i need depth

i love my libra girlfriend she is absoloutly adorable, very kind and sweet. I've never met anyone whose willing to put as much work into a relationship as i am. she might be more considerate than i am and that freaks me out.

What attracts virgos to Libra so much?


Challenge.


Libra's know all about the dots, they've wieghed them to perfection, which Virgo loves this perfection of dots.

Challenge is .... Virgo getting Libra to connect them to make synchronicity, because Virgo loves order.

ardent_aries lol thanks hun!!!

God, where to start with this one. I was with a Libra for awhile and she's still an amazing friend to me.

We just fit immediately as friends and quickly into more. Not in some sort of "fire, passion, fire, passion" way but more so in just being REALLY comfortable with each other from the get go. We could talk about everything and nothing for hours. We could also sit with each other for hours, not say anymore more than a handful of words, and just be content with the other's company from the start. One of my fondest memories of her is that if we we're at our respective homes and neither of us could sleep, we'd call the other up and just gab because it would sooth the other to sleep. Genuinely kind to me. I will admit, she was far better to me than I was to her.

I also remember a Libra gal I worked with that we lightly flirted and teased each other for a bit. Same "comfort zone" type of chemistry.