What does it take until you commit?

I make sure that the word LOVE is Real and everything has to be in the RIGHT place or else i keep running here and there.

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti
lol I know we are very complicated but we think about everything there is to think of in s short amount of time. kids, wedding etc. we think about it if we really have feelings for the girl, but at the same time we feel that we are not good enough for the women. then its we run away scared, its no lie we virgos are runners because we fear that we will fail.

Giving up and running away is failure, IMO. However, knowing when to quit is strength.

Posted by aquabeauty
See you are doing her the same way I'm being treated now. And every time I allow him to come back into my life.

I'm not desperate, lonely and none of that other stuff people might say.

I look at him as a friend that could lead to more but the leaving and not saying anything is ticking me off. I feel that everyone have problems. And I ms Houdini I can leave and shut people out myself so I understand. But I think I'm out this time. How nice and understanding should a person be

Preach on lol

@unlimitedinfiniti thanks for saying what's on the other side. Most times you hear that it's because of the other person.
Have some faith that it will work out and hope you get your girl🙂

So, say the virgo cut things off, dissappeared, a couple days ago. But rides through your ally, theres absolutely no reason to drive by( right by my house) is that his way of saying something?

You are in an fwb relationship and now here you are talking about commitment.

::: shakes head :::

Posted by RomancingA
Virgo's are looking for stability.

bingo....

that and security

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti

..... we actually wear our hearts on our sleeve.

What utter bullshit !!!

Posted by aquabeauty
Sorry it got posted I'm between yours

im not exactly sure what you mean by up hill and down hill

I'm sorry aquabeauty i don't know how long you have been with this man but it could go on like this for years check out my post after years of torment. Silly me a girl can only wait so long after that it's mental health issues and you are not the same. if you do not take risks then you have not lived Virgo men need to learn to grow together nobody is perfect. We can guide each other if there are qualities that have made me want to spend time with you and vice versa then we can grow stop disapearing. I will read on have not been here for a while.

Posted by unlimitedinfiniti
lol I know we are very complicated but we think about everything there is to think of in s short amount of time. kids, wedding etc. we think about it if we really have feelings for the girl, but at the same time we feel that we are not good enough for the women. then its we run away scared, its no lie we virgos are runners because we fear that we will fail.

With your running away will you constantly make up excuses for yourself? Or do you own up to it?

own up to what if I don't want to be with her then thats my decision. I will live with it and have no regrets about it. I'm quite sure she feels the exact same.

I Mean if a conversation comes up about the disappearing act will you be honest about why?

aqua beauty I deal with the disappearing act with focusing on my self and my own self development while he is sorting out his. I have learn t the art of out of sight out of mind for my own sanity even though it is not in my nature and the beauty of no contact.