What is it that we need the most of in life

I'm writting this because I have read alot of things that everyone has written and some of them just makes we want to cry and others makes me want to shake the person that wrote them.. We are people of need no matter what our signs are.
We want love and understanding, honestly, safeness and just finding someone that we can call the love of our life. In the real world we know that isn't as easy as it sounds. So what do we need to do to reach our goals in life?

I totally agree Roxi that is what most of us want.. But how do we go by getting it? do we just give into what everyone else wants for us or do we become our own person and find it out.. It's hard to know what to do when it comes to a realationship. We talk about it we ask for advise but are we really wanting to hear what people have to say?

i agree with you on that one Roxi, I have always tired to give myself where it does the most good. Sometimes it seems that in life we give so much of ourselves that we do loose who we are. But I know we have to know who we are as people and not let someone take us to that dark hole inside ourself. I look at all people with faults because we do have them. We try to choose that person that we love, on the basics of what we have been through in life and what we will not take. And if that person makes us feel safe.
But do we really don't have the answers to everything that's going on in our life. We ask question and seek answers. Is there any point in our lives as humans that we know the answers ourself?

I need freedom, passion, new experiences, lots of causes to fight for, intellectual expansion, and forgiveness; everything else can be learned along the way, as experience has a funny way of giving us what we aren't initially equip. with. disappearing up your own arse though......that's a hell of a trip roxijam!! lol 😛

You know everyone needs freedom but sometimes Virgos needs more than enough freedom they don't call you when, or anything the guys want you to do all the calling . Hell If you're going to be in a realtionship with someone you need to be with that person and share those things that are important.

Yes, that is all we really want is love and it's sooo hard to find.. No matter how many of these forums we read, no matter how many Ideas and tips we get , somethings just isn't right when it comes to the word LOVE...

roxi, you are so funny, you crack me up, you have me laughing now! before i was crying on the other board... ha! anyway, it's fun reading your witty repartee!