@ScorpioLush
13 Years
What's the Scorpio Virgo connection about.
SL: Please help me understand this crazy attraction.
First of all: Y'all have been dating for less than 2 months, right? From a VM point of view, that's not a relationship.
There are at least two VM + SW married couples on DXP right now -- myself, and VirgoMerlot -- married 7 years, and 5 years, respectively.
This is a 50% success rate couple. When it works (my case) it is The Very Best Relationship imaginable! When it doesn't, the break-up can be very painful for both. My Scorpio Daughter got her young heart broken by a VM. My younger Scorpio Brother married a VW the first time, and she left him after less than 2 years (got tired of being a Mommy to a grown man!).
In your case: If he's young, he's most likely being cautious. The mutual attraction between S & V can be too much of a good thing for us - we don't like powerful emotions all the time (it's too unsettling).
Should I stay or go.
Keep your options open. Let him make the next move; but in the meantime, if you meet another guy you like, don't hesitate to date him -- definitely don't pine away for a guy who may never work out!
Posted by Scorpiorabbit
Don't waste your time. If he truly loves you and wants you, he's not going to disappear.What if the woman disappears? I've loved and been committed to people and still pulled the Houdini act before.
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I've disappeared on the people I love...it was nothing against them. There were circumstances at the time :/ I still loved them!
And yes it feels pretty shitty when someone does the same thing but I do give them a chance to explain...if I can smell bullshit...im out!
I've always came back though..and explain myself (if they let me or want me to)..ive never just truely disappear on someone.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I've always came back though..and explain myself (if they let me or want me to)..ive never just truely disappear on someone.
I should just stop talking...I feel like I'm digging myself into a hole lol
I hope you understood what I meant?
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I'm a Scorpio woman and I have never dated a virgo. At the current moment I have a virgo that I am I treated in. The connection is so strong!! But he has just done the disappearing act. By now I would have moved on but it's something about him that pulls me closer. Please help me understand this crazy attraction. Should I stay or go.