I was wondering when a virgo has feelings does he mean it? I've been talking to him since January, n we finally met in may, and June. The last time I seen him, we were like a new couple in love. I seen him falling asleep so I grabbed him and held him, n he brushed my arm back and forth, then he layed me on his stomach n wrapped his arms around me, then we started kissing. We kissed like 10 minutes. No tounge action, then he layed on my lap and I told him I have feelings n he said awww you better, and he said he does too. We're not official yet. But as I was leaving I asked for a hug, we hugged twice. He gives the best hugs. I was going for the waist, he moved my arms to his neck. We hugged n He kissed my neck then on the lips n said I enjoyed you n said see you later sexy. My feelings were stronger after that. 2 weeks later, I texted him n I asked if we could be more than friends, he said are you ready for that, i said yes. He thought for a min, n said I don't think I'm ready for that. So I said ok well is it possible, he said maybe. 2 more weeks later, I start to question if he is serious cuz we don't talk like we use to before we met. But ever since he got this new job he's never really there to talk. He is online on the chat app I met him on but when I text him he barely responds. He checks on me every now and then but we are lacking in communication. I really don't think he is aware of how I feel about this, if I did ask him why he is so distant, he would say huh? Soo idk. He has a very bad memory. I just want to know if he is serious or stringing me along. He has agreed to wait for sex, n says if I don't like it when we do it we can stop, cuz I said I'm not giving in so easily. Is he really here for me, should I just be patient? I'm crazy about him n when he text me it makes my day! What do I do? I'm still new too this also, n kinda plays the hot and cold game. Thanks oh n I'm a Gemini btw
when a virgo has feelings

It's imperative you give him space. Keep playing the hot and cold game.

Totally not surprised here. This is typical Virgo behaviour - hot & cold and very confusing. They also tend to let distractions (usually work) take them away from their personal life. Just give him his space and let him come to you. If he is serious about you then he will step up his game.
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