@smol_asian
8 Years
When a virgo likes someone how do they act?
My roommate and I are both Virgos and we like someone we're either very obvious about it or play it off like we don't actually like you. If a Virgo puts in their two cents, or somehow appears whenever you need help that's a sign we like you. Or we offer to do things for you or buy you things.
I think he likes you, we tend to test waters with people and pull back to reassess. If a Virgo likes you they will come back. We only withdraw back because we like to access things. We analyze EVERYTHING.
Thank you. What do you guys analyze exactly? lol. like how you feel or whether the person's good enough or what??
My roommate and I are both Virgos and we like someone we're either very obvious about it or play it off like we don't actually like you. If a Virgo puts in their two cents, or somehow appears whenever you need help that's a sign we like you. Or we offer to do things for you or buy you things.
I think he likes you, we tend to test waters with people and pull back to reassess. If a Virgo likes you they will come back. We only withdraw back because we like to access things. We analyze EVERYTHING.
Thank you. What do you guys analyze exactly? lol. like how you feel or whether the person's good enough or what??
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What don't we analyze lmao. Typically it takes awhile for us to open up to someone fully, so we want to make sure if you're the one we want to share that with. Not so much if they're "good", enough but someone we can be ourselves with. Considering that Virgos are extremely hard on themselves.
Most virgo men I've met were shy. Except the one I dated was extremely forward. Walked right up to me and asked me out lol must of had some fire placements
This Virgo guy likes you. If he is doing something for you or offering to help you, he likes you. We tend to withdraw because we are assessing the feelings we have or we are second guess everything! We go through everything we said or did. UGH, it sucks to second guess everything. We tend to screw up something good because we are consistently in our heads, OVERTHINKING every effing thing. Don't come on to strong but show some kind of interest. What ever you do please reassure him you're interested. I know it's confusing but that's a Virgo for you. lol
Aww you guys are an interesting group.. And I would try to keep showing interest but after he withdrew it kinda threw me and now I dont wanna bother him so I'm keeping a distance, cause what if he doesnt like me and then i'm just bothering him ya know??
Why do y'all withdraw to assess? I over analyze everything but I'm still here going through it in life while in my head it's a to z analysis, i dont avoid nobody? lol
This Virgo guy likes you. If he is doing something for you or offering to help you, he likes you. We tend to withdraw because we are assessing the feelings we have or we are second guess everything! We go through everything we said or did. UGH, it sucks to second guess everything. We tend to screw up something good because we are consistently in our heads, OVERTHINKING every effing thing. Don't come on to strong but show some kind of interest. What ever you do please reassure him you're interested. I know it's confusing but that's a Virgo for you. lol
Aww you guys are an interesting group.. And I would try to keep showing interest but after he withdrew it kinda threw me and now I dont wanna bother him so I'm keeping a distance, cause what if he doesnt like me and then i'm just bothering him ya know??
Why do y'all withdraw to assess? I over analyze everything but I'm still here going through it in life while in my head it's a to z analysis, i dont avoid nobody? lol
we might also be doubting if you like us back
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aww 😢. see i'm worried about that cause i'm also shy but I try to show I listen to him and remember details about him and enjoy being around him, without being too out there.... thing is he was very friendly and would always say hi to me etc. and then out of nowhere just walks by looking down at the ground like he doesnt know me and I'm like —
We can be odd and confusing and it can be frustrating for people we like or like us.
From my perspective I withdraw when the person has said or done something knowingly or unknowingly or didn't notice something I attended for them notice. It's like adapted form of protection from hurt. If I try to convince myself I wasn't hurt then I'll be fine, but when I see you I feel it. Virgo can go into deep depths of their emotions but only few are allowed to see. Aqua has mastered art of gone with the Wind but We Virgos are masters of shutting off but not fully shutting down. Imagine how Pisces are able to live 2 lives in one mind. Virgo can live in their emotions but it ends up reflecting in the physical, and so ends up showing up as we are trying to avoid you. Plus they hate negative attention being to dramatic can bring.
Long story short just say "hi too him and smile.
We can be odd and confusing and it can be frustrating for people we like or like us.
From my perspective I withdraw when the person has said or done something knowingly or unknowingly or didn't notice something I attended for them notice. It's like adapted form of protection from hurt. If I try to convince myself I wasn't hurt then I'll be fine, but when I see you I feel it. Virgo can go into deep depths of their emotions but only few are allowed to see. Aqua has mastered art of gone with the Wind but We Virgos are masters of shutting off but shutting down. Imagine how Pisces are able to 2 lives in the mind. Virgo can live in their emotions. Plus they hate negative attention being to dramatic can bring.
Long story short just say "hi too him and smile.
Thank you for the clarification! Yeah I understand that....I dont know what I could've done though... I actually ended up complimenting him last time we spoke and I felt like I was positive towards him to the point where I wondered if he could tell I was interested cause I felt it was obvious... so I dont know what he could've misread?? lol. Virgos are so difficult sometimes lol!
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My roommate and I are both Virgos and we like someone we're either very obvious about it or play it off like we don't actually like you. If a Virgo puts in their two cents, or somehow appears whenever you need help that's a sign we like you. Or we offer to do things for you or buy you things.
I think he likes you, we tend to test waters with people and pull back to reassess. If a Virgo likes you they will come back. We only withdraw back because we like to access things. We analyze EVERYTHING.