Hi Virgo People!

Hey, I have a question for you.

There is a virgo I know from a professional setting.

He's really quiet. I end up having to talk to him on some occasions during work.

When I try to be friendly he just like answers my questions and goes back to being quiet coldly.

It's sort of awkward and there feels like there is tension and it's a weird place to be.

Obviously we don't have to be best friends and we are at work.

I guess I'm just wondering if there is a way he could warm up to me a bit? Or does he just not like me?

Thanks

It can depend.

He might legit just be awkward in any type of social situations. He might just be work focused.

Do you interact on the daily or every so often? If the latter...he may not see a reason to be over friendly to create a work bond....kinda like get in get out...see ya in another month when a report is due type mind set.

How long have you worked together for? If it's fairly recent...could be he just doesn't trust you yet.

Maybe ask him to help you with something....

We seem to not be able to resist this...idk why though 🤷 😜

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Do you mean ‘like’ or ‘like like’?

I don’t think this is a star sign thing. He sounds like me. He probably just takes his work seriously and will talk a bit but then just wants to get on with the job.

Have you tried talking to him on a break or st lunch or a social occasion?

Thanks, yeah I guess he is objectively attractive in a mysterious obtuse way but no I'm not interested. I'm more concerned with how he seems to not like me. He is friendly with everyone else.

He also gives me weird looks sometimes like he thinks I'm crazy or something.

I'm doing everything right at work so I don't know what his issue is.

Yes these incidences where I've tried to be friendly were at breaks or on my way out.

Like appropriate times but he's still really cold.

I try to think if I ever did anything to offend him but no I don't think so

Posted by LostinmyMind11

It can depend.

He might legit just be awkward in any type of social situations. He might just be work focused.

Do you interact on the daily or every so often? If the latter...he may not see a reason to be over friendly to create a work bond....kinda like get in get out...see ya in another month when a report is due type mind set.

How long have you worked together for? If it's fairly recent...could be he just doesn't trust you yet.

Maybe ask him to help you with something....

We seem to not be able to resist this...idk why though 🤷 😜

LOL maybe I'll try that.

Maybe he doesn't think I respect his opinion or something? I rarely ask for it but it's cause I just know my job.

Maybe he thinks I'm a know it all LOL ah man

Posted by Sagicorn

Virgos tend to not like getting involved in any way with people they work with and want to keep it professional. My Virgo is strongly against socializing with co-workers. He's not that uptight with them at work though but he don't want to socialize with anyone outside work. But in general they're also very fun people at work places who always bring laughter and fun to work as well so maybe he doesn't know you that well yet and is just being guarded

Or it's this. But like I said he's really friendly with other people. Maybe he doesn't know me yeah.

Be a Libra! Lmao...then you can fart and shit with door open!

And he was so not shy meeting her parents...(me and my husband)

Lol

Like not shy at all!!! And we’ve met him at his work!

So not all Virgman created equal!

He either likes you or he dosent like you lol

All earth sign are chatterbox once they get comfy

Posted by Sag898

Posted by LostinmyMind11

It can depend.

He might legit just be awkward in any type of social situations. He might just be work focused.

Do you interact on the daily or every so often? If the latter...he may not see a reason to be over friendly to create a work bond....kinda like get in get out...see ya in another month when a report is due type mind set.

How long have you worked together for? If it's fairly recent...could be he just doesn't trust you yet.

Maybe ask him to help you with something....

We seem to not be able to resist this...idk why though 🤷 😜

LOL maybe I'll try that.

Maybe he doesn't think I respect his opinion or something? I rarely ask for it but it's cause I just know my job.

Maybe he thinks I'm a know it all LOL ah man

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Now you're starting to sound like one of us lol. You can use that to your advantage 😜

No but seriously...if you wanna make things less weird...I'd ask for help or his opinion on something...doesn't mean you have to actually use it but kinda a Virgo ice breaker haha

Posted by 777

He either likes you or he dosent like you lol

All earth sign are chatterbox once they get comfy

Where the fuck you come from?? 😂

I'm just trolling a newbie (hell you might be a regular under a different name). Don't mind me and carry on 😁

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by 777

He either likes you or he dosent like you lol

All earth sign are chatterbox once they get comfy

Where the fuck you come from?? 😂

I'm just trolling a newbie (hell you might be a regular under a different name). Don't mind me and carry on 😁

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Hey,

yea i just recently found out about this site while google searching astro stuff. This place is so cool. Im definitly going to reccomend it to others

Posted by 777

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by 777

He either likes you or he dosent like you lol

All earth sign are chatterbox once they get comfy

Where the fuck you come from?? 😂

I'm just trolling a newbie (hell you might be a regular under a different name). Don't mind me and carry on 😁

Hey,

yea i just recently found out about this site while google searching astro stuff. This place is so cool. Im definitly going to reccomend it to others

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Oh you're def new...I'd give it a couple months before you claim how cool this place is or tell others. We are a bunch of rejects here. 😂. I'm just teasing 😁

Jk Duncan....I love you (don't ban me)

Posted by Sag898

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Do you mean ‘like’ or ‘like like’?

I don’t think this is a star sign thing. He sounds like me. He probably just takes his work seriously and will talk a bit but then just wants to get on with the job.

Have you tried talking to him on a break or st lunch or a social occasion?

Thanks, yeah I guess he is objectively attractive in a mysterious obtuse way but no I'm not interested. I'm more concerned with how he seems to not like me. He is friendly with everyone else.

He also gives me weird looks sometimes like he thinks I'm crazy or something.

I'm doing everything right at work so I don't know what his issue is.

Yes these incidences where I've tried to be friendly were at breaks or on my way out.

Like appropriate times but he's still really cold.

I try to think if I ever did anything to offend him but no I don't think so

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it sounds like he's not into socializing at all.

i'd just leave him alone. if you get the vibe that he's not interested in you approaching him, just let it be.

as him being virgo... well Mercury ruled and all.. he's probably heard all about you. lol ;p

or just observes you. And still not interested in socializing. Probably knows you have a boyfriend (the Leo)

so just observes you, like ...why is she talking to me? lol ;p

That's how it starts....

Thanks all 🙂

Posted by Sag898

Hey, I have a question for you.

There is a virgo I know from a professional setting.

He's really quiet. I end up having to talk to him on some occasions during work.

When I try to be friendly he just like answers my questions and goes back to being quiet coldly.

It's sort of awkward and there feels like there is tension and it's a weird place to be.

Obviously we don't have to be best friends and we are at work.

I guess I'm just wondering if there is a way he could warm up to me a bit? Or does he just not like me?

Thanks

Or maybe he likes you.

Posted by Sag898

Hey, I have a question for you.

There is a virgo I know from a professional setting.

He's really quiet. I end up having to talk to him on some occasions during work.

When I try to be friendly he just like answers my questions and goes back to being quiet coldly.

It's sort of awkward and there feels like there is tension and it's a weird place to be.

Obviously we don't have to be best friends and we are at work.

I guess I'm just wondering if there is a way he could warm up to me a bit? Or does he just not like me?

Thanks

Maybe he like testing your emotions? I mean what virgo does not like a sag woman? I have yet to see one who does not like a sag.

I do like to get social but i have learned in my past that people would often use my kindness for weakness.

I have become very careful who i interact with because anything you say can be used against you my honesty didn't always help me in a good way it would bring me in trouble.

Virgo's in general are very selective doesn't mean they are introverted they are just selective with what kind of people they hang out with because we care so much once we love you and have you as a friend we tend to get hurt too easily.

That's why i do it differently instead of talking to one person i ask the whole group if they would like to drink something but so i can see who is open and who is not and who likes me or not even then i just carefully watch people i do interact but on a distant.

Can also be that if a virgo can not really read you they have a hard time opening up i myself like to read people first before i get very personal. About the professional part if i am gonna be honest i can laugh with many but i trust nobody i do need fun at work but not too much or else it will distract me.