why do scoprios like virgos.

im just curious i want to understand why this is so Scorpios urk me i cant stand them i wonder is because of my chart placements being mostly an airy virgo then earthly with a fire moon.


also i think Scorpios are to secretive for me just my exp with the Scorpios i ran into worst friends to have i can see y i dont have any around me guess im to honest and blunt.

virgossssssssss rulesssssssssssss lmao.


Scorpios dont feel offended this is my personal opinion i'm sure other virgos like you guys.

Posted by PandorasBox
^ haha! im curious aswell

lol.

Its not bc you have air placements I have mostly all earth placements with a scorpio rising and I still can't stand them ether. From what I see the virgos that like scorpios are the ones that like to be bossed around. I know you, me, caj and 25 don't like to be boss around thats why it won't work with us.

Because Virgo's are easily controlled .. the secret is that Virgos are so handicapped emotionally, that they erroneously believe that their sexuality is the only part of emotions that ever enter the equation. In case non of you Virgos have noticed, you put high priority in life based on your sexuality, and consider it how you feel.

Scorpios have to have emotional control over their partners .. and since they are sexual beings ... they actually like having a person they can mold, they can tell how the other is suppose to feel .. by using sex.

They like us because we keep them "wet" lol

I wont let anyone to control me, xcept' if they are in the best position to that towards me...if they think that they can control me totally, well maybe in their dreams because they let their emotions to guide them, but they dont see what is inside my mind...My analytical mind always in equal.Not just one sided.get it😛...to LV, if you like to be likable by scorpios, act like a mystery man...hahaha Jk..

Posted by Cajunspirit
They like us because we keep them "wet" lol

lmao....i believe that water and earth are the best combo...Scorpios has the ability to dig virgos emotions & passions..

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


im just curious i want to understand why this is so Scorpios urk me i cant stand them i wonder is because of my chart placements being mostly an airy virgo then earthly with a fire moon.


also i think Scorpios are to secretive for me just my exp with the Scorpios i ran into worst friends to have i can see y i dont have any around me guess im to honest and blunt.

virgossssssssss rulesssssssssssss lmao.


Scorpios dont feel offended this is my personal opinion i'm sure other virgos like you guys.

LV...I'm not offended in the least. What I mention is about me and not to generalize what other Scorpios may be like.

I've never wanted to be that person who was the know-it-all or the bragger and mainly, I just don't think most of what I've done is worth mentioning, so I would much rather listen to the other person. If I'm asked something directly, I'll answer, but for the most part I don't freely offer up the information. I've noticed that I get the reaction, "I didn't know that about you!?!"

I am an introvert who can function as an extrovert when necessary. In a work environment, I am proactive, take charge kind of person, very approachable and will approach anyone, if it's required to get my work done. However, when it comes to a personal one on one relationship, that's when my introvert nature takes over, in full force. I'm very reserved. From a distance, it appears as an air of "I'm better than you," but that is definitely not the case. I am shy and secretively (lol) wish the person would break the ice first. I've heard the comment "I thought you were stuck up, but you're really a cool, down to earth person." Stuck up...me!?!

Because of these comments, I've worked very hard to try and not have that air about me, but I have to constantly talk to myself...smile, join the group, etc. Recently, I stepped completely out of my comfort zone and approached a guy that I was starting to develop a crush on. I held my breath as I handed him a piece of paper I had written my phone number on, he smiled and I walked away, not saying a word...why, because I was holding my breath and had I stood there for 10 seconds longer I would have passed out on the floor...I was that nervous! When I reached my car I jumped for joy that I didn't chicken out.

Well, this guy turned out to be my virgo interest. What was the appeal? I noti

Posted by ellessque
The very specific points that draw me to virgo -
1. You are natural gentlemen
2. A thread about infidelity on the virgo board is extremely rare
3. You are responsible in your life and take care of yourself and the ones you care about
4. You are not over emotional and try to rationalize your feelings (a scorpio will mirror that and become a better person because of it)
5. You seem to have a natural sex drive that could be compatible with a scorpio. We may be a bit over the top....but you seem to be accepting and not afraid of it.
6. A virgo with libra placements are really easy for a scorpio to talk to. It's almost therapeutic in a sense. You allow us to just "be" and the facade can come off. That is very difficult for a scorpio to find. It reduces the amount of "game playing" that is required with other signs to get them to trust you.
7. You are constantly looking at ways to improve yourself and have no problem telling your partner the same. We like brutal honesty and if I'm doing something that is not so great....I need someone with the balls to tell me. You cannot even imagine the number of people in my life that are afraid to be brutally honest.
8. I know that behind the constructive criticism is someone who truly cares and they aren't just trying to pick away at my self-esteem.

Elle...I agree with all of your reasons. I would like to add...

#4...the mirroring is so true...shows how in tuned we are to the one we respect, care about, etc.
#5...and they are willing to please...I am going to give my all in a relationship and knowing that my partner is willing to do what will make me happier gets me all giddy inside...wow.

dang...my comment got cut off...

instead of trying to recall all of what I said...you can basically cut and paste what Elle said to the end of my post as my own.

Posted by ellessque
"scorpios are the ones that like to be bossed around"

this is very true. the difference between virgos and others signs is virgo can do it in a respectable manner. There is a fine line between being bossed around in a caring manner and someone who does it for their own kicks. I like to be put in my place from time to time but I also need to respect the person who is doing it, otherwise it is meaningless and the whole emotional manipulation begins for us. Virgo can always back up actions with facts and they don't do it just to do it.

I'm not going to comment on the control issue because I'm not really into the whole control thing. As a scorpio myself, I know there isn't anyone that is going to believe me when I say that so there is no point arguing about it.

I'm fairly new experiencing a virgo, however, I have to be honest...I purposely chose a virgo when I entered the dating scene. That may sound shallow and downright crazy but after looking at all the personality traits, it really appeared that it would fit mine like a glove. The only other sign that came remotely close was capricorn. Capricorn would have suited too but there are just too many mental obstacles to manuveur before you truly can get to know them.

Virgos, as much as you may deny, are an open book. I need that open book.

Scorpios mirror the person they are with, that is just fact. If you are honest, straightforward and play no games.....we will naturally be the same. So, an evolved virgo would be the best match for a scorpio at any level of there evolution.

I second this as well...thanks for doing all the leg work Elle 😄.

I don't want to be the boss in a relationship, which is why I seek a partner who will not just give me complete control or allow me to just take it. Perhaps that's part of the appeal...a virgo man will do what he needs to do for himself, with or without someone's permission...therefore, maintaining control of his own life...etc, but he's very respectfully about it.

Posted by ellessque
*making pancakes for 69virgo* 😛

@ImaBlvr - you described me perfectly. I am very much the same. I'm really not the stuck up aloof prissy bitch that everyone may think I am. Virgo can seem to get past that appearance. I'm very introverted in nature and can pull out the extrovert when needed, especially in a work environment when my livelihood is on the line.

I've also noticed with my new virgo that he sees the fact that I'm reserved and aloof, takes note of it and "talks me down off that ledge" so I AM more open. He never automatically assumes I'm "hiding" something or being crazy mysterious....I'm just being me and sometimes I don't have words to express myself.

We had a great conversation lastnight about my reserved nature. I told him that I need someone to help me loosen up and be more social and open.....he said he would help me with that if I would help him to identify more positive things about himself because he has a habit of beating himself up all the time and had to work on retraining his thought processes. Nobody has every offered to help me work on one of my negative traits before. That was refreshing. Most are afraid to bring it to my attention because face-to-face I can appear to be a real tough woman who thinks she's perfect and don't need to work on anything.

Elle...I don't know why, but I just wanna give you a big hug and kiss (nothing freaky 69Virgo). Just knowing that someone else, TRULY understands! Mr. Virgo said almost the exact same thing about me..."your shy/you're reserved." Inside I jumped for joy...he gets me...he can see that I'm not being stuck up."

I'm opening up more and more to him...I do feel at ease with him, because I don't have that need to explain myself. I've shared how other men aren't themselves around me, because they think I'm a certain way, when I'm really just a silly, fun loving person who just needs that one person who can help me release that my inner being.

I am for self improvement and the more I learn about myself, become more self aware I can make changes/adjustments within myself where needed. I feel Virgos are the same...I'm not about changing you or you changing me, but I'm all for growth.

My scorp ex said the same thing about me. I like scorp because there is something magical about them. The attraction is just plain undeniable and they're bendable. But after awhile, he kinda blends in to my life. It feels overcrowding at times. Because virgo needs their alone time. For example if I'm out of his sight or knowledge for a day, he'd panic. They're very loving, but I personally feels I need someone who takes charge of their lives and doesn't depend on my mood/schedule/plans to live his. I also don't like how scorp plays the emotional victim, although they don't mean it, it just makes me feel like i'm the bad guy all the time for being blunt - or who I am in general! And at first I could understand it, I could work on it, but scorps I know do it because they genuinely feel hurt/need that amount of care/love/attention/understanding. It can be draining.

Posted by 69virgo
Alot of other signs like to be praised all the time about how great they are but virgos can just look in yours eyes and see that were special too you...real talk..

You said it.

I forgot this last reason why scorpios like us and this is true virgos make scorpios cum like no other. I say this because thats what scorpios say about us. A well back if some of you remember on the scorpio boards there was a post that said who was your best lover you ever had. Almost all the scorpio said virgos so when you put that into factor you can see why scorpios like virgos so much.

Posted by 69virgo
Alot of other signs like to be praised all the time about how great they are but virgos can just look in yours eyes and see that were special too you...real talk..

I like this very much :-)

From my experience with my scorp x-g/f,

I think part of the initial attraction my scorp had with me was just because she had no idea what to make of me lol. Sort of the whole "throw you off balance thing so it her interest".