Why tf do I want him back ??

I need everyone to tell me how dumb I am for wanting my lying cheating virgo sept19 guy back!! Lol it's been a week no contact at all I can't stop thinking about him he was my first everything. He just seemed to not let go of his pain from his old relationship which caused ours to be hell. He has horrible trust issues, but at the same time he was a good person at times too.

You want a return on your investment

Reread what you typed OP, you pretty much just self explained why you want him back.

Do you love yourself enough to let him go...?

You just feel attached to him. You obviously loved him and it's your heart that you're listening to right now. I'm sure your mind is telling you something different... When you're ready, you'll make the right decision. Until then, be brave. You're on a bumpy road right now.

You're comfortable & attached. You know what to do. This to shall pass (:

Because you're weak, and it's easier to give in to weakness than fight with strength for what's right.



to work on doing the right thing for yourself is hard ... and you'd rather choose to not do that, you choose to fall back into doing what is easy.



Because that's what cowards do ... and you're obviously a coward.



one only has to look at how many times, and how many threads you make about how you are incapable of doing what is right for you.



same shit different day

Only a person who has no values places themselves in situations in where they are treated as having no worth.

A person of worth, places themselves in situations of having value.



You put your energy into wanting to be treated worthless ... so that is exactly what you deserve.



Some day you might actually want to be more ... but, that is not this day ... this day, you are pining away for being trashed, and so that is exactly what is going to come to you.



It's typical of a Virgo. Nearly all of them come to dxp to talk about how much they enjoy being treated like pieces of shit and want more.

That's all this is. The only possible reason you could have to make a thread like this is to memorialize and be honored by people recognizing and encouraging your lack of self worth.

Why else would a person talk ask others to talk to her about how worthless she is?

Posted by Virgonique29
I need everyone to tell me how dumb I am for wanting my lying cheating virgo sept19 guy back!! Lol it's been a week no contact at all I can't stop thinking about him he was my first everything. He just seemed to not let go of his pain from his old relationship which caused ours to be hell. He has horrible trust issues, but at the same time he was a good person at times too.

You don't need him, you are just afraid of taking risk of meeting new people. You were comfortable with this guy, but comfort doesn't equal to fulfillment. Love yourself and be ready for someone new. Someone who doesn't cheat on you.