Win the Heart of Libra/Scorpio Cusp Man

Hi everyone, so I've tried finding this topic on mighty Google and on this forum also but can't seem to.

I've gathered that this cusp is dramatic and critical, needs a lot of appreciation yet don't want to be smothered (like most men really).

I've had this on and off "texting relationship" with a man of the libra/scorpio cusp after a very brief fling as he didn't want a relationship when we met. I've cut him loose, he went back, then i kind of agreed to an arrangement of just fooling around, but we never went on with it as it wasn't for me.

Recently after another dramatic "never want to hear from you again" i was the one to make contact as girl's got needs and the chemistry is undeniable. So far no one mentioned this being anything more than potential FWBs, but we've started texting a bit more and i've realised how much fun we had in general before and how we always seem to try again (it's been over a year).

What i'd like to see (apart from the judgement) is what do these men value the most, how do you get into their heart and how to tell if they actually like you? I've read about libras and scoprios separately but it's a little confusing to try and marry up.

Thanks in advance!