I told Taurus Man Not To Speak To Me Again...

Long story short, he's been slow fading for months. I brought it up to him a few times, and he assured me nothing had changed. Still, the communication was off/ nonexistent. I finally got fed up and I sent him some angry texts. I told him things have been off and it's annoying acting like nothing happened and if I have to act that way, I might as well remove myself. He responded saying " I'm so sorry, I really am. Things have been off". I then told him that since he's been acting weird, to keep that same energy when he sees me. I also told him when he sees me not to talk to me.

I'm just so annoyed/hurt over him slow fading and acting like he didn't know what I was talking about when I've been bringing this up. For the past few months, I've been mirroring him. I never reached out. When he texted me I was dry and took forever to respond. I finally got to the realization that it was taking too much energy to do these things when they weren't what I wanted to do. It really felt like he was trying to get me to end things/remove myself.

I guess my question is, how do Taurus men react when they know you're mad at them/they hurt you?

He wasn't interested and was just back burning you like most men that aren't interested do.

A taurus man can talk or text to a person endlessly, when they are interested. He just wasn't.

Does you both being dry in text and taking hours to respond sound like interest?

What is to be mad about if you were being petty and this was the outcome? Seems to fit what you were trying to say. Why are you upset about it?

Mirroring people only works when you initially meet. You should not be mirroring months later or if you're in a relationship. Stop texting and ask in person what's going on.

As far as I can see, you boxed yourself in being petty when he did reach out. Both of you pretty much cancelled each other out by figuring neither was interested.

Tf does "things have been off" mean.. something happened we're not privy to because you reacted in a petty way. Rather than just wishing him well and moving on.

Posted by LuckyLibra7
Mirroring people only works when you initially meet. You should not be mirroring months later or if you're in a relationship. Stop texting and ask in person what's going on.


As far as I can see, you boxed yourself in being petty when he did reach out. Both of you pretty much cancelled each other out by figuring neither was interested.


Tf does "things have been off" mean.. something happened we're not privy to because you reacted in a petty way. Rather than just wishing him well and moving on.

Well I had asked him what was wrong back in February. He was vague and said he had been working a lot and trying to put some things in place for when I was in his town (he lives in a country that my family lies in, I'm in the US).

When I say things have been off, I mean communication. He went from offering to pay for my plane ticket (we live in different countries, he lives where my family is and I'll be there in a few weeks) and telling me he misses me everyday, to not reaching out or taking hours to respond.

Posted by saggurl88
He wasn't interested and was just back burning you like most men that aren't interested do.

A taurus man can talk or text to a person endlessly, when they are interested. He just wasn't.


Does you both being dry in text and taking hours to respond sound like interest?


What is to be mad about if you were being petty and this was the outcome? Seems to fit what you were trying to say. Why are you upset about it?

I'm upset/my feelings are hurt because I communicated with him and asked him what's going on. I told him he was switching up and he kept saying to me nothing changed and nothing could make him switch up on me.

“I guess my question is, how do Taurus men react when they know you're mad at them/they hurt you“

That should not matter to you.

Posted by StubbornSagittarius
Well he was ghosting you and expecting you to take the hint and respond accordingly but you kept insisting. That's why he apologize with acknowledgement thay he was doing it in fact. How do they act? Well he did let you go, didn't he? Not sure what you expect from him now since he already is gone

I wasn't insisting. I didn't reach out to him and when he did contact me, I was dry with him. I don't expect anything, I was just wondering what might be going on on his end.

He responded and said "that's extreme" lol

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Posted by LuckyLibra7
Mirroring people only works when you initially meet. You should not be mirroring months later or if you're in a relationship. Stop texting and ask in person what's going on.

As far as I can see, you boxed yourself in being petty when he did reach out. Both of you pretty much cancelled each other out by figuring neither was interested.

Tf does "things have been off" mean.. something happened we're not privy to because you reacted in a petty way. Rather than just wishing him well and moving on.

Well I had asked him what was wrong back in February. He was vague and said he had been working a lot and trying to put some things in place for when I was in his town (he lives in a country that my family lies in, I'm in the US).


When I say things have been off, I mean communication. He went from offering to pay for my plane ticket (we live in different countries, he lives where my family is and I'll be there in a few weeks) and telling me he misses me everyday, to not reaching out or taking hours to respond.

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And here we find the root of the issue.

More time spent on the phone than in person. Can't speak on if he found someone else, but the bottom-line is that he pulled back a little and you reacted by being dry causing the person to question their feelings. I didn't read he was dry with you.

Find someone local.. Long distance is for married couples with the spouse away at work or couples who have things in place to soon reunite.

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Mirroring people only works when you initially meet. You should not be mirroring months later or if you're in a relationship. Stop texting and ask in person what's going on.

As far as I can see, you boxed yourself in being petty when he did reach out. Both of you pretty much cancelled each other out by figuring neither was interested.

Tf does "things have been off" mean.. something happened we're not privy to because you reacted in a petty way. Rather than just wishing him well and moving on.

Well I had asked him what was wrong back in February. He was vague and said he had been working a lot and trying to put some things in place for when I was in his town (he lives in a country that my family lies in, I'm in the US).

When I say things have been off, I mean communication. He went from offering to pay for my plane ticket (we live in different countries, he lives where my family is and I'll be there in a few weeks) and telling me he misses me everyday, to not reaching out or taking hours to respond.
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And here we find the root of the issue.


More time spent on the phone than in person. Can't speak on if he found someone else, but the bottom-line is that he pulled back a little and you reacted by being dry causing the person to question their feelings. I didn't read he was dry with you.


Find someone local.. Long distance is for married couples with the spouse away at work or couples who have things in place to soon reunite.

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I was only dry with him cause he was dry with me. Dry convo's and responding hours later.

If you expect him to read your mind, it won't happen. Esp if he's being distant. Taurus rarely chase after people unless it's the honeymoon phase and they know they want your ... 😸😸😸

Not sure what's going on. Does he have any Gem placements?

Posted by RollergirlOrc
If you expect him to read your mind, it won't happen. Esp if he's being distant. Taurus rarely chase after people unless it's the honeymoon phase and they know they want your ... 😸😸😸

Not sure what's going on. Does he have any Gem placements?

He has Venus in gemini. I didn't expect him to read my mind. I legit communicated and let him know this was confusing me and hurting my feelings.

It's been months of this and I got frustrated with everything cause it felt like he was being phony. One day he sent me a voice note saying he was checking in so I didn't feel like he abandoned me. Like boy what? And he was saying he's counting down until I'm there and blah blah blah.

Like why say all that when your actions literally scream the opposite? This also upset me.

He responded with the face palm emoji and said "I respect your wishes"

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Posted by LuckyLibra7
Mirroring people only works when you initially meet. You should not be mirroring months later or if you're in a relationship. Stop texting and ask in person what's going on.

As far as I can see, you boxed yourself in being petty when he did reach out. Both of you pretty much cancelled each other out by figuring neither was interested.

Tf does "things have been off" mean.. something happened we're not privy to because you reacted in a petty way. Rather than just wishing him well and moving on.

Well I had asked him what was wrong back in February. He was vague and said he had been working a lot and trying to put some things in place for when I was in his town (he lives in a country that my family lies in, I'm in the US).

When I say things have been off, I mean communication. He went from offering to pay for my plane ticket (we live in different countries, he lives where my family is and I'll be there in a few weeks) and telling me he misses me everyday, to not reaching out or taking hours to respond.
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And here we find the root of the issue.

More time spent on the phone than in person. Can't speak on if he found someone else, but the bottom-line is that he pulled back a little and you reacted by being dry causing the person to question their feelings. I didn't read he was dry with you.

Find someone local.. Long distance is for married couples with the spouse away at work or couples who have things in place to soon reunite.
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I was only dry with him cause he was dry with me. Dry convo's and responding hours later.

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If you don't care, why should we? It sounds like you still texting him and being petty.

Posted by Nabilah92
He responded with the face palm emoji and said "I respect your wishes"

This sounds like you played right into his hand. Notice he's not trying to fight to keep in contact with you. Stop texting him now.

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Posted by saggurl88
He wasn't interested and was just back burning you like most men that aren't interested do.

A taurus man can talk or text to a person endlessly, when they are interested. He just wasn't.

Does you both being dry in text and taking hours to respond sound like interest?

What is to be mad about if you were being petty and this was the outcome? Seems to fit what you were trying to say. Why are you upset about it?

I'm upset/my feelings are hurt because I communicated with him and asked him what's going on. I told him he was switching up and he kept saying to me nothing changed and nothing could make him switch up on me.

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Probably cause he was too much of a "nice guy" or coward to let you know his interest level. He showed you by doing a slow fade, just cause you called him out doesn't mean he has to let you know his intentions.

Move on and forget about this guy.

Men who aren't interested don't care about a womans feelings when they get called out for doing nothing and barely contacting you. They expect you to get the hint.

Pour into someone who is showing interest. Try and self sooth to get over him. He's not gonna be of much help.

He initially said he respects my wishes, and I didn't respond. About 15 minutes later, he said " you don't understand , you probably will when you're here"

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Posted by Nabilah92
He responded with the face palm emoji and said "I respect your wishes"

This sounds like you played right into his hand. Notice he's not trying to fight to keep in contact with you. Stop texting him now.
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Exactly, that's what he wanted all along. There's no point in trying to force that guy into communication that he clearly doesn't want to continue

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I'm not forcing any communication 🙂 I stopped responding a few messages ago. He texted again after me not responding. Def not forcing anything, I'd rather mop the ocean first lol

Same ol taurus man stories

Posted by Nabilah92
He initially said he respects my wishes, and I didn't respond. About 15 minutes later, he said " you don't understand , you probably will when you're here"

When he tries to give you the D, that's when you will understand what he was trying to do. Hahaha!

So you have plans to go visit him, eh—





Women need to learn the difference! 😉

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Posted by Nabilah92
He initially said he respects my wishes, and I didn't respond. About 15 minutes later, he said " you don't understand , you probably will when you're here"

When he tries to give you the D, that's when you will understand what he was trying to do. Hahaha!


So you have plans to go visit him, eh—






Women need to learn the difference!

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No, I don't have plans to visit him. I am going to visit my family, he lives in the same country.

He ruined any chance of getting any ass from me, I'm pissed and turned off. I don't reward bad behavior 🙂

Posted by Nabilah92
Long story short, he's been slow fading for months. I brought it up to him a few times, and he assured me nothing had changed. Still, the communication was off/ nonexistent. I finally got fed up and I sent him some angry texts. I told him things have been off and it's annoying acting like nothing happened and if I have to act that way, I might as well remove myself. He responded saying " I'm so sorry, I really am. Things have been off". I then told him that since he's been acting weird, to keep that same energy when he sees me. I also told him when he sees me not to talk to me.


I'm just so annoyed/hurt over him slow fading and acting like he didn't know what I was talking about when I've been bringing this up. For the past few months, I've been mirroring him. I never reached out. When he texted me I was dry and took forever to respond. I finally got to the realization that it was taking too much energy to do these things when they weren't what I wanted to do. It really felt like he was trying to get me to end things/remove myself.


I guess my question is, how do Taurus men react when they know you're mad at them/they hurt you?

In general? If he really cares AND interested, he will think about it, what he wants, and sort his shit out.

Yes that can take time.

Either way good on you. That was the right thing for you and the situation.

I know what it's like to have your intuition denied. I've been on both ends of that. It causes people a lot of stress and they push back and act out. Lol even The sweetest person will person explode eventually 😏

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Posted by Nabilah92
He responded with the face palm emoji and said "I respect your wishes"

This sounds like you played right into his hand. Notice he's not trying to fight to keep in contact with you. Stop texting him now.
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Exactly, that's what he wanted all along. There's no point in trying to force that guy into communication that he clearly doesn't want to continue
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I'm not forcing any communication I stopped responding a few messages ago. He texted again after me not responding. Def not forcing anything, I'd rather mop the ocean first lol

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Mop the ocean! LOL, not that's funny.

I'm actually realllllly excited to show him that he no longer has that access to me.

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Posted by Nabilah92
He responded with the face palm emoji and said "I respect your wishes"

This sounds like you played right into his hand. Notice he's not trying to fight to keep in contact with you. Stop texting him now.
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Exactly, that's what he wanted all along. There's no point in trying to force that guy into communication that he clearly doesn't want to continue
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I'm not forcing any communication I stopped responding a few messages ago. He texted again after me not responding. Def not forcing anything, I'd rather mop the ocean first lol

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Mop the ocean! LOL, not that's funny.

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That's how extreme I feel lol I hate when people got me f**ked up!

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Posted by Nabilah92
Long story short, he's been slow fading for months. I brought it up to him a few times, and he assured me nothing had changed. Still, the communication was off/ nonexistent. I finally got fed up and I sent him some angry texts. I told him things have been off and it's annoying acting like nothing happened and if I have to act that way, I might as well remove myself. He responded saying " I'm so sorry, I really am. Things have been off". I then told him that since he's been acting weird, to keep that same energy when he sees me. I also told him when he sees me not to talk to me.

I'm just so annoyed/hurt over him slow fading and acting like he didn't know what I was talking about when I've been bringing this up. For the past few months, I've been mirroring him. I never reached out. When he texted me I was dry and took forever to respond. I finally got to the realization that it was taking too much energy to do these things when they weren't what I wanted to do. It really felt like he was trying to get me to end things/remove myself.

I guess my question is, how do Taurus men react when they know you're mad at them/they hurt you?

In general? If he really cares AND interested, he will think about it, what he wants, and sort his shit out.

Yes that can take time.


Either way good on you. That was the right thing for you and the situation.


I know what it's like to have your intuition denied. I've been on both ends of that. It causes people a lot of stress and they push back and act out. Lol even The sweetest person will person explode eventually 😏

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Idk what happened to my quote but THIS! You get it lol. As a Pisces rising, I always know. Even when I don’t know, my intuition tells me. It angers me when someone tries to tell me that I’m imagining what I’m seeing/ intuitively picking up. I have no regrets sending angry texts, he’s lucky I don’t go off the deep end and cuss him tf out.

Thank you for your comment, I have no doubts I did the right thing. It just doesn’t feel right to accept less than the bare minimum from anyone.

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Posted by Nabilah92
Long story short, he's been slow fading for months. I brought it up to him a few times, and he assured me nothing had changed. Still, the communication was off/ nonexistent. I finally got fed up and I sent him some angry texts. I told him things have been off and it's annoying acting like nothing happened and if I have to act that way, I might as well remove myself. He responded saying " I'm so sorry, I really am. Things have been off". I then told him that since he's been acting weird, to keep that same energy when he sees me. I also told him when he sees me not to talk to me.

I'm just so annoyed/hurt over him slow fading and acting like he didn't know what I was talking about when I've been bringing this up. For the past few months, I've been mirroring him. I never reached out. When he texted me I was dry and took forever to respond. I finally got to the realization that it was taking too much energy to do these things when they weren't what I wanted to do. It really felt like he was trying to get me to end things/remove myself.

I guess my question is, how do Taurus men react when they know you're mad at them/they hurt you?

In general? If he really cares AND interested, he will think about it, what he wants, and sort his shit out.

Yes that can take time.

Either way good on you. That was the right thing for you and the situation.

I know what it's like to have your intuition denied. I've been on both ends of that. It causes people a lot of stress and they push back and act out. Lol even The sweetest person will person explode eventually 😏
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Idk what happened to my quote but THIS! You get it lol. As a Pisces rising, I always know. Even when I don’t know, my intuition tells me. It angers me when someone tries to tell me that I’m imagining what I’m seeing/ intuitively picking up. I have no regrets sending angry texts, he’s lucky I don’t go off the deep end and cuss him tf out.


Thank you for your comment, I have no doubts I did the right thing. It just doesn’t feel right to accept less than the bare minimum from anyone.

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It's important in relationships to communicate these things. Call it what you want, your needs, wants, desires in a relationship with others.

Iol the bare minimum part?

It's frustrating when you ask and ask to talk about it and...ya

Doesn't matter what kind a relationship it is. If their is a issue strong enough to undermine and effect the relationship, you make the effort to do something about it to keep said desired relationship. Just remember to show the same courtesy 🙂

Once again, I've been a little shit on some of this one both sides myself. You love and learn.

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Posted by Nabilah92
Long story short, he's been slow fading for months. I brought it up to him a few times, and he assured me nothing had changed. Still, the communication was off/ nonexistent. I finally got fed up and I sent him some angry texts. I told him things have been off and it's annoying acting like nothing happened and if I have to act that way, I might as well remove myself. He responded saying " I'm so sorry, I really am. Things have been off". I then told him that since he's been acting weird, to keep that same energy when he sees me. I also told him when he sees me not to talk to me.

I'm just so annoyed/hurt over him slow fading and acting like he didn't know what I was talking about when I've been bringing this up. For the past few months, I've been mirroring him. I never reached out. When he texted me I was dry and took forever to respond. I finally got to the realization that it was taking too much energy to do these things when they weren't what I wanted to do. It really felt like he was trying to get me to end things/remove myself.

I guess my question is, how do Taurus men react when they know you're mad at them/they hurt you?

In general? If he really cares AND interested, he will think about it, what he wants, and sort his shit out.

Yes that can take time.

Either way good on you. That was the right thing for you and the situation.

I know what it's like to have your intuition denied. I've been on both ends of that. It causes people a lot of stress and they push back and act out. Lol even The sweetest person will person explode eventually 😏
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Idk what happened to my quote but THIS! You get it lol. As a Pisces rising, I always know. Even when I don’t know, my intuition tells me. It angers me when someone tries to tell me that I’m imagining what I’m seeing/ intuitively picking up. I have no regrets sending angry texts, he’s lucky I don’t go off the deep end and cuss him tf out.

Thank you for your comment, I have no doubts I did the right thing. It just doesn’t feel right to accept less than the bare minimum from anyone.
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It's important in relationships to communicate these things. Call it what you want, your needs, wants, desires in a relationship with others.

Iol the bare minimum part?

It's frustrating when you ask and ask to talk about it and...ya

Doesn't matter what kind a relationship it is. If their is a issue strong enough to undermine and effect the relationship, you make the effort to do something about it to keep said desired relationship. Just remember to show the same courtesy 🙂

Once again, I've been a little shit on some of this one both sides myself. You love and learn.

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Oh for sure! They always say to go silent blah blah blah, but I don't agree. I too have been bad at communication, but I don't string people along. But you def love and learn!

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Posted by Saturn_Returns
Who cares! Just move on.

SHE DOESNT CARE (we know she does)

SHE WONT TALK TO HIM (even he knows she will)

SHE WONT GIVE HIM ASS (she will give him pussy)

…but I supposed we won’t hear about THAT! 😂

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Don't come on the post projecting because that's what you would do/have done in the past love 🙂

Posted by MrNobody
You sure have a lot of patience for being a back burner by him.

I lost my patience lol that's why I sent the message that I sent 🙂

Serious question, what do people gain by coming on these forums and acting like cunts?

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Posted by Saturn_Returns
Who cares! Just move on.

SHE DOESNT CARE (we know she does)

SHE WONT TALK TO HIM (even he knows she will)

SHE WONT GIVE HIM ASS (she will give him pussy)

…but I supposed we won’t hear about THAT! 😂

Don't come on the post projecting because that's what you would do/have done in the past love 🙂

And was I wrong? I don’t think so…
I don’t remember at all. So whatever you say - it’s whatever…you sound ridiculous

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Wrong….about what? Lol I mean, it’s your opinion. But wtf are you talking about? Girl bye.

He’s probably a workaholic. In which case you’re better off. How he feels? Probably a little hurt or probably nothing. Might miss you or might be sitting on the couch in front of the tv, like a dumb, primitive man. Think of it that way. It’ll make moving on easier for you.