Need advice on Taurus man

I was getting pushy, pressuring my Taurus man. I started feeling needy and he could sense it. We had been having discussions about sex and our relationship a bit and things had been very enjoyable. Then I drunk called him one night kind of emotional. He said he didn’t want to do this and deal with it... so he basically ended things over the phone. It has been two weeks no contact. I miss him, but I want to apologize and at least be friends. I was going to give myself 3 weeks before reaching out, but I saw him last night. We didn’t make eye contact... I just knew he was in the bar where I was in a meeting. I left without even looking his way. He saw me and knew I was there. I want to reach out and at least establish friendship.... but I am scared he will be cold and reject my efforts. Should I wait a while for him or should I reach out and apologize? I do not want to push him away any more. Please... I need some input here.

If I were in your shoes... apologies go a long way. I’d put it out there, with zero expectations about how he responds.

You know that he will take his sweet time to get back to you or come around... that’s the thing about us Bulls! And the more we’re prodded, the more annoyed we get.

That’s why I say no expectations...

Keep your head up!

Should I try to apologize in person or text? I could run into him- I know his routine well. I could go to his house, but that feels too pushy and presumptuous. Texting is one way we communicate but sometimes tone doesn’t translate. I could send a letter or card. I want him to know I am sincere. He went through a bad divorce years ago and he feels deceived and is very skeptical if women in general. I really do care about him and feel badly about pressuring him and pushing.... I have been on the other side if that and know how it feels. Seeing him recently made me miss him. I happen to be a Taurus too and we both seem to dig in our heels, but I am less stubborn and open. Thanks.

Posted by TauruswomanTaurusman

Should I try to apologize in person or text? I could run into him- I know his routine well. I could go to his house, but that feels too pushy and presumptuous. Texting is one way we communicate but sometimes tone doesn’t translate. I could send a letter or card. I want him to know I am sincere. He went through a bad divorce years ago and he feels deceived and is very skeptical if women in general. I really do care about him and feel badly about pressuring him and pushing.... I have been on the other side if that and know how it feels. Seeing him recently made me miss him. I happen to be a Taurus too and we both seem to dig in our heels, but I am less stubborn and open. Thanks.

Call him and arrange a meeting to apologize.

Stop texting about important things.

Nuances get lost in translation.

If he wont meet apologize on the phone.

If he doesnt pick up, well you tired and move on.

No need to text and play this back and forth game.

Posted by sgtkilljoy

If I were in your shoes... apologies go a long way. I’d put it out there, with zero expectations about how he responds.

You know that he will take his sweet time to get back to you or come around... that’s the thing about us Bulls! And the more we’re prodded, the more annoyed we get.

That’s why I say no expectations...

Keep your head up!

I agree with this. Put the first foot out there and don't be so stubborn. He is stubborn too. If the foot gets chopped off, then at least you have your answer.

Also, i made ALOT of misteps with my bull in the begining.

I got clingy and insecure. Looking back it was so unattractive.

But he stuck with me even when i tried to breakup with him becasue "I" felt pathetic, he said "listen you have given me 1000 easy way outs, but im in this and not going. You're the only one trying to break up"

I had to apologize tho and sincerely.

But taurus seem to stick to their guns when they say things.

Well! I was at the local pub where we would meet. I was in a meeting and he came in and I avoided eye contact by staying focused on my meeting. Then I left. Tonight I was in a meeting again and he came in. I made eye contact. He came over had chatted for a bit with me and my campaign manager. He asked me how I was and I asked him. Things were friendly and we laughed a lot. Although when we looked at each other it was somewhat awkward.

I had been worried he would brush me off. I didn’t apologize yet. It has been 18 days with no contact till tonight. I want him back. I want him to know I am sorry and that I miss him. I am a bull and so is he. I think he still has feelings. But not sure if I should just keep giving him space.

Well! I was at the local pub where we would meet. I was in a meeting and he came in and I avoided eye contact by staying focused on my meeting. Then I left. After I left he asked my campaign manager where I was. Tonight I was in a meeting again and he came in. I made eye contact. He came over had chatted for a bit with me and my campaign manager. He asked me how I was and I asked him. Things were friendly and we laughed a lot. Although when we looked into each other’s eyes it was somewhat awkward.

I had been worried he would brush me off. I didn’t apologize yet. It has been 18 days with no contact till tonight. I want him back. I want him to know I am sorry and that I miss him. I am a bull and so is he. I think he still has feelings. But not sure if I should just keep giving him space.