Taurus Man and Commitment

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Hey All!

So I have been dating my Taurus man for almost 4 months now. I was in a bit of a rush trying to get the title with my Taurus mate, but little did I know they move super slow. They definitely take their time and think things through before they make any decisions that will take them out their comfort zone. There were a few things I actually learned about him that I think are a Taurus thing like, he is is super stubborn but most of it is within reason. He also isn't that open about his emotions and feelings - He would rather show you how he feels. I love that but sometimes he makes it hard being that I am an emotional intense Scorpio woman who loves to hear how her boo feels about her 😂😊. I'm super glad I gave him time and space to get comfy with me (hard for Scorpios lol)... but he has legit become my Best Friends in within this time. We have gone to meeting up one on one, to me meeting and chilling with his close friends and immediate family. I also caught him in conversations telling others, "....My girl"...when referring to me (including other women). He has been going through a tough time financially so I know ANYBODY would be insecure about getting into a new relationship, and that is to be understood. Can I take his signs as he is super interested and we rocking, or is it just the Scorpio in me that just needs to hear the words? If so, how do I get him to open up enough?
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Posted by Shayboog11

Can I take his signs as he is super interested and we rocking, or is it just the Scorpio in me that just needs to hear the words? If so, how do I get him to open up enough?


all good signs...espec. friends/family, "my girl" etc....tough financial times I think impact a bull more so than most people I've met so you'll def. have to be patient/understanding if he's short on time while getting his shit together....financial stability is just a prerequisite for me...I like to operate freely without even having to worry or think about money ever, so if there isn't a solid base there, I'm fairly stagnant in all other areas until that's the case....
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Posted by Shayboog11 Can I take his signs as he is super interested and we rocking, or is it just the Scorpio in me that just needs to hear the words? If so, how do I get him to open up enough?

all good signs...espec. friends/family, "my girl" etc....tough financial times I think impact a bull more so than most people I've met so you'll def. have to be patient/understanding if he's short on time while getting his shit together....financial stability is just a prerequisite for me...I like to operate freely without even having to worry or think about money ever, so if there isn't a solid base there, I'm fairly stagnant in all other areas until that's the case....
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Bet! Thanks for that response. I feel like financial hardship is going to be hard for any man, but definitely for Taurus'. I just remember early on in our conversations he always felt like he never had someone who just stuck by him, including family. He never asks me for anything and he is always making moves to get things in motion but still makes times for me. So I have to be patient with him. I can't be the one to change his mind about experiences from the past, but I can show him that some women just want to be there for the person he is. Thanks again, I feel better about my decision. 😊

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Posted by Shayboog11 Can I take his signs as he is super interested and we rocking, or is it just the Scorpio in me that just needs to hear the words? If so, how do I get him to open up enough?

all good signs...espec. friends/family, "my girl" etc....tough financial times I think impact a bull more so than most people I've met so you'll def. have to be patient/understanding if he's short on time while getting his shit together....financial stability is just a prerequisite for me...I like to operate freely without even having to worry or think about money ever, so if there isn't a solid base there, I'm fairly stagnant in all other areas until that's the case....

Bet! Thanks for that response. I feel like financial hardship is going to be hard for any man, but definitely for Taurus'. I just remember early on in our conversations he always felt like he never had someone who just stuck by him, including family. He never asks me for anything and he is always making moves to get things in motion but still makes times for me. So I have to be patient with him. I can't be the one to change his mind about experiences from the past, but I can show him that some women just want to be there for the person he is. Thanks again, I feel better about my decision. 😊
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yeah, I learned early on never to rely on anyone....I don't ask anyone for a thing ever honestly, not even small favors. I hate the feeling of any sort of dependence, or being let down. np and good luck....I've found scorps read in betw. the lines very well with us...
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yeah, I learned early on never to rely on anyone....I don't ask anyone for a thing ever honestly, not even small favors. I hate the feeling of any sort of dependence, or being let down. np and good luck....I've found scorps read in betw. the lines very well with us...

Yea, the energy is definitely different when it comes to Taurus/Scoprio. We get to use our intuition more with you all 😂
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Anytime there is an issue financially going on with my Taurus I just fall back and let him come to me when he has it all figured out. Just have an honest conversation with him and see where you stand relationship wise AFTER he handles his financial situation first. A Taurus man can sometimes lead you on without doing so intentionally. They love the feeling of a relationship at times without the title. I made it very clear I wanted a committed relationship and he too was on the same page.
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Anytime there is an issue financially going on with my Taurus I just fall back and let him come to me when he has it all figured out. Just have an honest conversation with him and see where you stand relationship wise AFTER he handles his financial situation first. A Taurus man can sometimes lead you on without doing so intentionally. They love the feeling of a relationship at times without the title. I made it very clear I wanted a committed relationship and he too was on the same page.


Ok, that is fair. He has been turning things around for himself. Not as fast as he would like, but it is happening and it is evident. so I can wait until AFTER he feels more comfy financially. Until then, I will just keep building a great friendship/connection. Thank you for the bomb advice. 😁