Taurus man's intentions

I have a question as a capricorn woman with scorpio moon about a Taurus man I am dealing for almost a year (70-80 days NC included)

We met in May 2025, but stopped talking after I didnt like something in his behaviour. It came out he created instagram to stalk me secretly back then. 2 months later I found his friendship request and accepted it without thinking much about it. He became glued to me somehow even though I was rejecting him. Then we started talking more often. Eventually in may he started being too jelaous and told me he doesnt love me and blocked me. Well it only took him 22 days to return. Then I rejected him but then I missed him and returned him. Things got more intense and he also became more consistent and more possessive. Then he blocked me during an argument. I removed him but he chased me again, I added him back eventually. However he was too secret and changing profile pics on platforms we werent talking. Then I confronted him about it, he tried to trigger me by adding people and he got meaner and meaner (he was never like this before) I left again but realized it was my mistake for pushing him too much. I came back after 50 days of NC. At first he was keeping a distance but he was still obsessively tracking me and getting jealous. Then he disappeared for 3 days, I confronted him again. He answered other people while delaying me. Then he came back trying to lovebomb me after 14 days of stalking me. We did talk but I didnt flirt back. He also stopped flirting, then he goes to play games with his old female friend (a married one) while STILL stalking my gameplay and keeping tabs on me. Then came back, invited me. I rejected him then he got mad and mean again, I tried to invite him. We played and I was flirty, telling him if i left him bewitched etc. He flatly said "no" then I asked if he loves me and he went silent. Then left the game. I understood that this seems to hurt him that I didnt invite him but I am also getting annoyed of his silent tantrums and mean behaviours. Lastly, after that he told me he couldnt sleep because of man issues. He never told me this openly before. But we are still not dating so I changed the subject and didnt wanna be a tool for his fantasies. Next day I texted good morning and he delayed me till midnight while talking to others. I just went silent. He excused something to talk with me but I was distant. Yesterday he was playing mind games with me. Leaving when I came, showing but not inviting but also spectating me....

Sorry this came very long. Im not native english speaker and tried to explain the situation the best.

I dont understand why he is obsessed with me, seems attracted but also doesnt let me go. I cant really say he is inconsistent because he became more consistent compared to before and even he doesnt text me, he still stalks me heavily. He even made changes for me in his behaviours a few times. But I realized he also spectates his other friends games..He also doesnt tell me about the female friends. He goes to play with them when they invite him. Still goes to play with them while stalking me. Sometimes using them to make me jealous. Doesnt tell me if some of them are women at all...Being too secret. Idk he even tried to keep his married female friend a secret for whatever reason...just like why?

I start to think if im not special or if im being played. What should I do to stop him doing these stupid mind games?

Also I read here, it seems like he disrespect me and I let him do it easily....I was able to hold my ground at first but it seems like whenever he thinks he can push me he does it. From what I read here, he doesnt respect me. Would it be possible to earn that respect back if I hold my grounds better after now on?

u should bang

Uuuggg… reading this gave me PTSD.

I had a similar situation as yours with a male Taurus. Years and YEARS will pass and the games will not end.

It seems to be how they behave with Scorpio suns & moons. I talked to another Taurus male and he had a similar experience with a Scorpio moon… said it was due to power struggles?!? I still don’t know what that means, but apparently they feel VERY reactive / sensitive towards something within that Scorpio energy that comes out 🤷🏻‍♀️.

You have to be the one to just cut the cord and stop reacting towards his silly games.

Nothing positive will ever come out of this… you will just be wasting your time and end up lowering your vibrational energy (which will make you feel shitty about yourself).

Do whatever it takes to cut him off… and you will feel MUCH better!!

Good luck!

Posted by SottoMare
Uuuggg… reading this gave me PTSD.

I had a similar situation as yours with a male Taurus. Years and YEARS will pass and the games will not end.

It seems to be how they behave with Scorpio suns & moons. I talked to another Taurus male and he had a similar experience with a Scorpio moon… said it was due to power struggles?!? I still don’t know what that means, but apparently they feel VERY reactive / sensitive towards something within that Scorpio energy that comes out 🤷🏻‍♀️.

You have to be the one to just cut the cord and stop reacting towards his silly games.

Nothing positive will ever come out of this… you will just be wasting your time and end up lowering your vibrational energy (which will make you feel shitty about yourself).

Do whatever it takes to cut him off… and you will feel MUCH better!!

Good luck!

Well no worries we just had a bad fight tonight and he insulted me cause I caught him doing sketchy stuff (called me dog) then blocked me. My bad was to kerp nagging on other platforms too and he blocked me there too. I removed him from everywhere...

It doesn't matter.

You bang or you don't. I learned your emotional state or psychology or whatever is independent of that...like this one Taurus is sleeping with a guy...o.k., she does that, I get it.

She's not sleeping with me either way.

So just enjoy the ride, I guess. She's not gonna stop sleeping with this guy no matter how much you ruminate over it or ask for advice, or yeah.

Probably you should look at yourself as to why you interact with this weird fake co-dependent type "drama". Like the Scorpio witch said - nothing good will ever come of it. It's a waste of time and energy so ask yourself why you choose to indulge in it

Posted by Wizardzz_
Probably you should look at yourself as to why you interact with this weird fake co-dependent type "drama". Like the Scorpio witch said - nothing good will ever come of it. It's a waste of time and energy so ask yourself why you choose to indulge in it

Yes, my guy.

This Taurus—the one I've been posting about—added Pinterest ideas for Christmas: turning paper towel or toilet paper rolls (she lives with this guy) into decorations

and making little picture frames for photographs.

What a joke! It's serious, I imagine, but what an unhappy little Taurus, not even showing appreciation for the love I give her.

And before you accuse me of being mean, just remember she made her bed, or this guy did with her, and they sleep in it!

Posted by HereforTaurusAgain

Posted by Wizardzz_

Probably you should look at yourself as to why you interact with this weird fake co-dependent type "drama". Like the Scorpio witch said - nothing good will ever come of it. It's a waste of time and energy so ask yourself why you choose to indulge in it

Yes, my guy.

This Taurus—the one I've been posting about—added Pinterest ideas for Christmas: turning paper towel or toilet paper rolls (she lives with this guy) into decorations

and making little picture frames for photographs.

What a joke! It's serious, I imagine, but what an unhappy little Taurus, not even showing appreciation for the love I give her.

And before you accuse me of being mean, just remember she made her bed, or this guy did with her, and they sleep in it!

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I think he wrote that for me not you lol but things can be related