Thank you for that. It makes a lot of sense, not just this time, but all the times he’s totally overreacted and broken up with me “for good”, only to come back 1-3 days later, remorseful and wanting to make it right.
I recently made a career move, and the new job requires travel. It seems as though this overreacting really cranked up at the same time.
Thank you for that. It actually makes a lot of sense. I started a new job recently that requires travel, and these overreactions have been non-stop since the week before I started the job. I’m just so tired of fighting it. I try to gently talk him down, remind him that we made promises to always talk in person or at least on the phone about any misunderstandings. He won’t ever back down. He just goes for the jugular and won’t let go until HE wants to.