Thank you ariesjo. Yes im an Aries woman.. After being with this aries man a few times I realized I had serious intimacy issues. He wanted to cuddle and I wanted to do my own thing and didn't want to be bothered. No one has ever wanted to cudlle or be close to me before so I didn't know how to take it freaked me out. he then put his hand on my leg I didn't know what to do so I put mine on top of his.. I've been in and out of many abusive relationships, guys treating me as a their poession/object, i was raped by an acquaintance and molested as a child by a female babysitter. I have a hard time trusting men and women in general the aries man is no exception I don't start off trusting people they have to earn my trust. All I'm able to do with men is have sex and move on until next time it's a vicious circle that is unsatisfying except for in that moment. As of now this aries man he's the only one I feel comfortable being with that's why I keep going back to him. I see a lot myself in him and it's allowing me to find out who I am deep inside embedded somewhere I had never once looked. It may not be in the stars for us to be together but I have learned some about myself just being in his presence. I know he Cares as I care for him but I don't think its anything more then on a friendship level. I figured out why I don't open up to him as I would like to its becasuse I don't think he would care he's never told me he didn't care I just feel that way. why would he want to know and why should I open up if there is a possibility I could get hurt in the end. Being emotionless is easier all around that way I could just leave and move on without thought.
I'm an Aries woman of 28. I met this aries man he was 32 at the time. He was with his mom who is a good friend of mine at church . I overlooked him because I thought he was 19 and rather young. A few weeks later my friend his mom asked me if I wanted his number I told her I was in a relationship. About a month or so later I asked his mom if he wanted my number still and to have him text me because I wanted to feel him out after i had left my boyfriend I didn't want it to be all about one thing.The next day we talked on the phone for a few hours because I liked the direction the conversation was going. That night his mom picked me up I spent 2 weeks at their place he made me breakfast in bed and took me out to dinner every night and in between we were in bed together or he was at work and I went to school. He got me a job babysitting his neice and nephews and with his mom. After the two weeks were up he backed away no calls nothing so I decided to move on. I started dating another guy a sagitarius for 2.5 years then my mom passed away a few days later he and I were soposted to get Married he left me at the alter when I called I could hear him and another girl. 3 weeks later my dad passed I called my friend who brought me back to her house her aries son arrived to see me crying and held me, held my hands, kissed my cheeks, wipped my tears away it was sweet. For the last 5 months he and I have been hooking up every so often he said he didn't want a relationship I said ok knowing I wasn't ready to be in one right away either. The last few times it seems as though he's making love to me slow and intimate. The first time it scared me and I freaked out he kissed my forehead and I immediately relaxed. The last time it was aggressive yet very intimate and sensual. He let me do things he never before let me do and held me afterwards which was new. He asked me afterwards if I was seeing or talking to anyone else I told him no I'm not I'm just trying to get my life together. I can be physical with him but opening myself to him has proven to be the hardest thing for me to do and I don't understand why that is. Yet conversation on the other hand as far as what whatever he brings up goes rather well. He has pissed me off a few times and said some mean things but it was straight forward and I respected that and bit my to tounge because I knew he was right I just let it roll off my back. I let him take control of whatever we have going on and the direction of conversation. Mostly what I wanted to know is if he is catching feelings for me because this is going on much longer then the first time or is he just seeing me as his possession or is this nothing more then physical?
I met this Taurus man at church he noticed me before I noticed him. I caught him looking at me a few times then a few weeks later he asked me for my number. We had deep intelligent conversations from our lives past, present and what we want for our futures, philosophy,psychology, science ect.. we talked 2 days out of the week for a few weeks. We also hung out after church and talked outside of the church. One Sunday my car broke down so a friend of mine dropped me off on the way to work . The Taurus man offered to drive me home he hugged me twice. Later that night he told me he was going to kiss me but he wanted to respect that I wanted to take things slow after getting out of a horrible relationship. He told me he has told his family of me and his friends and he enjoys talking to me and spending time with me. He has also said he would like to pursue a relationship with me but wants to be friends and build a foundation of friendship first I respect that because I want the same. 2 weeks after he tried to kiss me he hasn't called, hasn't anwsered my texts, he doesn't want to talk any more after churc or hang out although he will hug me and smile at me as he walks by or during service. Last week he brought with him a guy friend of his to church he gave me a hug with his friend around then they started to joke around with each other he told me he'd see me next week and then he left. I'm rather confused because what he's telling me is different then his actions. His actions say he's not intrestred in the least but he states otherwise. Should I just walk away from this one or be patient and wait it out?