Posted by PuzzlePieces
The one I’m dating pursued but very slowly getting to know you. I even told him I wasn’t sure where it was going, maybe friends because it was so slow. But, I still liked being around him & talking to him. He was patient, just kept reaching out. Like slowly building, and then one day it was just different.

I normally like fire mars lol

same her! i prefer fire mars. the guy I'm writing with is virgo mars for 2 months and I'm not sure If he is interested in me or not

just noticed that my sister got mars in virgo too! she want's to get to know each other for a while. she never pursues I think

Posted by brianafay
Mine pursued me in a a friendly non-threatening way. Not aggressive, but persistent.

I knew he liked me/wanted more, but he built trust/friendship first...made me feel comfortable

oh that sounds sweet. how did he pursue you?

i prefer the mars to be in a fire sign

do they pursue you or are they passive?
what is your experience?

one pursued me in the beginning and other one.. not so much

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Posted by iteza
yeah after 2 weeks he contacted me again. I've stressed him too much lol

AFTER 2 weeks?!?! 🙄

Typical Virgo timing. I've got mine down to 1 week. He can't stand not talking to me for longer then that.

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tell me your secret

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Posted by iteza
yeah after 2 weeks he contacted me again. I've stressed him too much lol

AFTER 2 weeks?!?! 🙄

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yeah...guess my Scorpio moon is too intense

yeah after 2 weeks he contacted me again. I've stressed him too much lol

Posted by DonnaLibra
Ignore him back. That always works with them.

good idea!

my LDR virgo is so confusing. everything was perfect and now he is reading my messages but won't reply for 4 days now.
is that a sign he wants to break up?

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Posted by Jules-ll
Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

Lol.. pretty sure ya can't blame ALL of his behaviour on his rising.. Lmao

And it honestly just sounds like he is forgetful and your expectations are out of whack. He forgot to bring the wine means he is forgetful. If he wasn't reliable he wouldn't call you when you wanted to video chat.. he did call but needed to shower.. that doesn't make him unreliable.. it means he wants a damn shower.

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so forgetting it 3 times i forgetful?

i would ask him

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Posted by Sassysailorscout
Ohhhh this is normal.

He's a VIRGO if he didn't like you

You would know !!! 😆 😆

If you wanna break up criticise him that should speed up the end.

Also send funnier stuff that interest him.n like articles and ish. I love assertive go getters I'm sure he does too. Just be the initiator if you can handle it.

He's your boyfriend !!! You can do what you want. Except whine.

Virgos hate that. love appreciation ." Thank you for calling I was hoping to ask your advice on xyz "

Oh and love freedom .

Cause some low key problems so he can fix them.
Hahahah my crazy is showing

How would you know.

Would they tell you?!

Yesssss I would like to think so !

Also calling your boyfriend unreliable rather than trying to figure what's causing this behavior and trying to help with it, is prob the wrong way to go.

He said tell him, he tell him.

If you can't do long distance and are unhappy and unwilling to communicate and work on the relationship, maybe break up.

He is whatever type if boyfriend you believe him to be.

Be careful what you think and say about him.

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thank you I think it became better now

my guy is virgo sun, moon, mars, mercury and venus.

At first he chased me and I really liked that. He's like a puppy.
But I ruined it beeing emotional and he stood me up.
He overthinks a lot (like me with a virgo asc). He is withdrawing texts so I mirror him.
Once I asked and he said he wants to write more but he is afraid he'll annoy me. I've thought the same lol.

I don't know how i should act with him

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Posted by virgoOPPP
cap sun/pisces moon 😍

i oddly don't feel anything for aries

don't know why

Sag/Virgo connection is where it's at. Go get you one. you wouldn't have had to wait 40 days for sex

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agreed I'm sag and have a capricorn stellium with a virgo bf

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Is this an online/long distance relationship?

it's a long distance relationship now.

How long were you dating/together before it became long distance?
If he moved and is starting a new job and getting settled into his new place a bit of flakyness is forgivable, he has a lot on his plate.
But if he’s starting to do the slow fade with the communication something could be up. Has he met someone new? Is the distance getting to him where he’s wanting to break things off?
You don’t know cause he won’t call you 😬

Unless there is a solid plan to get both of you living in the same place, ld doesn’t pan out ime.

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he writes a lot and sweet stuff.. we are on the phone but he says something but doesn't do it. that's the problem here

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Posted by Jules-ll
Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

I don't know, I have virgo sun/venus/mercury too but no gemini/3rd house stuff. Don't get your expectations up too high for an LDR...that wouldn't even be a possibility for me unless I'd been with someone a long time and it was a temporary separation.

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his stellium is in the 4th house.. and seems like he is ok with long distance since he had one before for 1 year

Posted by Jules-ll
Yeah, that's his rising not his virgo placements...

thanks! i hate gemini ..how to handle that

Posted by PhoenixStorm
Is he forgetful in general about other things? Is it a memory issue versus a reliability thing? Or do you think it’s intentional?

I really would like to know that

yeah the thing is.. he said i should be honest and tell him... but he does unreliable stuff all the time and of course I tell him..
But nothing changes. I don't know what to do. I hate gemini rising. Can't i have a normal relationship? Guess no with my 7th house in pisces