Tom Cruise
Elijah Wood
Bruno Mars
Daniel Radcliffe
Joe Rogan
Mark Wahlberg
Joaquin Phoenix

All short… you wouldn’t look at any of them because of their height??

You are limiting yourselves of options when you create lists. Take each person for what they are.

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we normally don't crush for too long....not because we're flighty or anything like that but because aries doesn't like stagnant energy or situations....if nothing is happening, if nothing is moving forward with the crush in question. an aries guy might just move on....

The 1st question was bought on because a guy I hung out with about 12 years ago just seems to still be trying to pop into my world every now and again. At the time, he had introduced me to people as “this is G she will be my wife “???

Which got me thinking about the 2nd question and the most recent Aries I met… hmmm 🤔 I wonder if he might call me up one day if he finds himself unattached…, all this thinking bought on by a couple late night drinks and wishful thinking

Do you not?

I know without dating someone that I think they are husband material.

1: No
2: Yes

Ohhhhh lol, I don’t know how the “been” got in my heading??

Should be: How long do Aries crush in general?

No relationship, just crush but nothing happened.

Yes to the second

If you thought this was wife material..
But, It didn’t work out,(for whatever reason) how long are you crushing?

If, it peaked your interest but it didn’t work out (Because of circumstances) How long are you crushing?

I’ll buy you that 😝😍

Yes

What’s your hesitation? If I’m hesitant I’ll do a pros and cons list and then make a decision on whether I want to take a risk and change my life around.

I’m a risk taker and I frequently move and change up, I love the exciting new.

You have to make this decision but something seems to want you there.

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We have a body wash with mint in it, it’s tingling and especially if you use it down there but the shower rinses it straight away so it’s a good tingle.

A friend of mine while travelling Europe had thrush so knowing that garlic was a natural antibiotic cut some up and put it in 🤣🤣🤣 she was on fire!!!!!!
Raw garlic burns when you eat it and it has the same effect on your tender parts. 🤣🤣🤣

Cheap has a way of biting you in the front bum sometimes 😜

Holly!!! I didn’t KNOW! But knowingly put garlic in…well…meatballs and sausage might help 🤷‍♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Haha, your story was a good wake up giggle to kick off my day. Ty

Reminded me of hers, don’t ever go there. She was burning for so long and painfully so, she ran a bath to try and soothe herself 😂 I can just imagine her sitting in 2 inches of cold water trying to relieve 🤣🤣🤣

We have a body wash with mint in it, it’s tingling and especially if you use it down there but the shower rinses it straight away so it’s a good tingle.

A friend of mine while travelling Europe had thrush so knowing that garlic was a natural antibiotic cut some up and put it in 🤣🤣🤣 she was on fire!!!!!!
Raw garlic burns when you eat it and it has the same effect on your tender parts. 🤣🤣🤣

Cheap has a way of biting you in the front bum sometimes 😜

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Some of you wanted updates about my Pisces vs Scorpio guy situation so here it is.

- Had sex with the Pisces twice but can say I feel used because he's healing from a breakup from a few months ago still. Also I feel like he judges me a lot more or misunderstands me more/we think a little too differently. He's a great, helpful friend though.

- Taurus guy has entered and keeps bothering me about having a threesome with him. But I've told him I'm not interested in him like that. Don't know what's his reply yet.

- Scorpio has the higher ground here. We're very similar in opinions especially when it comes to spirituality. He doesn't judge me (or as obvious as the Pisces anyway) and doesn't doesn't my views within spirituality either which is super important to me and something the Pisces failed at. Scorp and I also have the exact same ideal dream date. A picnic in nature/somewhere scenic. And he said "I like the way your mind thinks". And that compliment blows past most physical compliments I've ever received. I hardly get complimented for my mind and intellect :')
We're both incredibly love and care about our fashion and the way we dress/present ourselves too. We both love abandoned and apocalyptic looking places, planning to go to some together. We make each other laugh a lot and send silly photos of our faces with filters and stuff to each other which is important to me because I like someone who can be both serious and silly, which is something Pisces doesn't like to do. Scorpio said "I really like your personality, your mind and you're genuinely beautiful". My heart is melting lol but I'm still gonna stand my ground because for me, actions matter more than flowery words.


He's the only one who's seen me in one of my huffy puffy, stressed out and argumentative moods with someone and it's a mood I don't really like showing to potential love interests. So I thought that would put him off, but he isn't. That means everything to me.

Scorpio has Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus in Scorpio, but Mars in Libra. So I'm curious about what I'm dealing with here.

Frankly, Scorpio has bought me a drink and paid for it without telling me and offered to buy me a meal. And now on Sunday, we're planning to walk through a forest, go back to his where he'll cook dinner (I'm gonna help) and tie dye shirts together. Pisces is still too hung up from his breakup I think because I've gone home hungry from his place every time. No it's not their responsibility to feed me, but I was his guest, I feel it's a kindness to at least offer your guest and friend something to drink or eat when they're at your home. That's what I was taught anyway.

What are your astrological placements?

Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon, Gemini Rising, Libra Mercury, Libra Venus and Leo Mars. The confident, bright aura of my Leo Mars attracts a lot of people 💀

Libra Venus + Leo Mars = ho.

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Wrong…Definitely not in my case!

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Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you don’t thrill them in bed or they just don’t see a future with you or they’ve seen someone else that they want to pursue.

The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.

Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The “real truth” = hurt

You don’t have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and you’re not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say “I’m not feeling this anymore.” Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
“I rather not go into it.” It’s not that hard for diplomatic Libras.

Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like you’re way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyer’s remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that you’re more into them than you are. This is why saying “this isn’t working” doesn’t work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didn’t behave this way.

Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesn’t make it so and you can’t force anyone to live by your standards.

Sounds like you’ve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!

Sounds like you’ve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I don’t need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.

Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone else’s standards because they “think” they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone “owes” them.

You’re in for a rude awakening!

I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.

It’s not “my or anyone else’s standards.” That’s what you don’t seem to comprehend and your lack of manners have no bearing on me, lest I dare impose “my standards” on you. I’m talking about a universal expectation of manners, which will be found in every culture or social milieu. You’re just trying to justify shit behaviour as “these are YOUR standards.”

Anyways, I don’t argue with defenders of poor behaviour. I just wish their behaviour on them because nothing teaches them faster than getting their own medicine. May you get ghosted after you’ve been led on for months since nobody owes you manners or anything for that matter 😆🥂

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All I read here is your bitterness, honey get over it, live life. Until you learn to ease up you’ll always bring this content upon yourself.

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Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you don’t thrill them in bed or they just don’t see a future with you or they’ve seen someone else that they want to pursue.

The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.

Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The “real truth” = hurt

You don’t have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and you’re not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say “I’m not feeling this anymore.” Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
“I rather not go into it.” It’s not that hard for diplomatic Libras.

Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like you’re way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyer’s remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that you’re more into them than you are. This is why saying “this isn’t working” doesn’t work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didn’t behave this way.

Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesn’t make it so and you can’t force anyone to live by your standards.

Sounds like you’ve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!

Sounds like you’ve been butthurt by my bitter truth about who you are and you being guilty of what your sign represents. I have Libra family, friends and acquaintance to know this usual behaviour. I don’t need to date a Libra to know this. Your attitude @ not owing someone basic courtesy speaks volumes about you.

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Not butt hurt at all, just not living up to anyone else’s standards because they “think” they have the right to tell others how to live and that everyone “owes” them.

You’re in for a rude awakening!

I can imagine if someone dared to impose their standards on you.

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Yeah but that might not be the truth, the truth that you want to hear May be, your too fat or too ugly or too boring, the truth could be you don’t thrill them in bed or they just don’t see a future with you or they’ve seen someone else that they want to pursue.

The simpler truth always makes someone question why? Maybe I can change, maybe if i was this or that or did these things they would see me differently.

Your truth that you say you want to hear = excuse
The “real truth” = hurt

You don’t have to get into the bitter details. If someone has given you their time and you’re not feeling it, then you owe it to them as basic human courtesy to say “I’m not feeling this anymore.” Not a lot of people beg to hear explicit details. Even when they do, you can say,
“I rather not go into it.” It’s not that hard for diplomatic Libras.

Any person who wants to justify ghosting does so because they are guilty of standard Libra behaviour: coming on strong/moving fast,
making your love interest feel like you’re way more into them than you really due to your rose colored vision. When reality strikes and you feel buyer’s remorse, you want to reel back and avoid the backlash that you rightfully deserve for misleading someone into believing that you’re more into them than you are. This is why saying “this isn’t working” doesn’t work for Libras. They look silly saying that given how strongly they come on. This is standard Libra behaviour. Never met a Libra man or woman who didn’t behave this way.

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Well I would say why does anyone owe you anything? That might be your perception but it doesn’t make it so and you can’t force anyone to live by your standards.

Sounds like you’ve been butt hurt by a Libra and you still need to get over it!

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Or is it?

Have you ever heard this lame bullshit excuse and did you believe it? Or maybe it was you who used it on someone?

I have used it in the past, but I didn’t mean it that it’s not them. It is them but I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.

And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.

I can only hope this mercury retro brings him back. He looks at my pictures almost every day and likes every single one. We are still “friends”.
But neither one of us makes the first move. It’s a stand off, of love and pride. Leo sun vs Leo moon. It’s terrible.

My point exactly on why people ghost!

I would want to know the answer to this myself .

I had some one ghost me after declaring his love for me in the past . Not just casually but declared with lot of deep passion words which felt real then and then boom gone ghosted . Never understood why do people do that.
Doesn’t that hurt feeling . It just hurts more than hearing fuck off.

If he had given you any reason, you would have still come back fighting to keep him with the whys??? Because it’s never 1 simple answer, right?

Too draining, too hard for some people.

I don’t do that actually. I leave people alone , and never bother them.

FYI he did come back and kept coming back with lame excuse. I never asked , never tried but it did hurt me deeply at that point .

Simple question to me is why declare your love to me and vanish without giving it a try. Vanish without meeting again after saying it . What could possibly go wrong without even meeting again after saying it and convincing me .

He didn’t want to answer any of your questions.

I didn’t ask

No because he left so you couldn’t …


But you would have!

I could have but I had too much pride .

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Going off your many questions here and trying to get answers, I do believe, you would have kept asking “why”??

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Or is it?

Have you ever heard this lame bullshit excuse and did you believe it? Or maybe it was you who used it on someone?

I have used it in the past, but I didn’t mean it that it’s not them. It is them but I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.

And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.

I can only hope this mercury retro brings him back. He looks at my pictures almost every day and likes every single one. We are still “friends”.
But neither one of us makes the first move. It’s a stand off, of love and pride. Leo sun vs Leo moon. It’s terrible.

My point exactly on why people ghost!

I would want to know the answer to this myself .

I had some one ghost me after declaring his love for me in the past . Not just casually but declared with lot of deep passion words which felt real then and then boom gone ghosted . Never understood why do people do that.
Doesn’t that hurt feeling . It just hurts more than hearing fuck off.

If he had given you any reason, you would have still come back fighting to keep him with the whys??? Because it’s never 1 simple answer, right?

Too draining, too hard for some people.

I don’t do that actually. I leave people alone , and never bother them.

FYI he did come back and kept coming back with lame excuse. I never asked , never tried but it did hurt me deeply at that point .

Simple question to me is why declare your love to me and vanish without giving it a try. Vanish without meeting again after saying it . What could possibly go wrong without even meeting again after saying it and convincing me .

He didn’t want to answer any of your questions.

I didn’t ask

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No because he left so you couldn’t …


But you would have!

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Posted by borednbeautiful
Or is it?

Have you ever heard this lame bullshit excuse and did you believe it? Or maybe it was you who used it on someone?

I have used it in the past, but I didn’t mean it that it’s not them. It is them but I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.

And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.

I can only hope this mercury retro brings him back. He looks at my pictures almost every day and likes every single one. We are still “friends”.
But neither one of us makes the first move. It’s a stand off, of love and pride. Leo sun vs Leo moon. It’s terrible.

My point exactly on why people ghost!

I would want to know the answer to this myself .

I had some one ghost me after declaring his love for me in the past . Not just casually but declared with lot of deep passion words which felt real then and then boom gone ghosted . Never understood why do people do that.
Doesn’t that hurt feeling . It just hurts more than hearing fuck off.

If he had given you any reason, you would have still come back fighting to keep him with the whys??? Because it’s never 1 simple answer, right?

Too draining, too hard for some people.

I don’t do that actually. I leave people alone , and never bother them.

FYI he did come back and kept coming back with lame excuse. I never asked , never tried but it did hurt me deeply at that point .

Simple question to me is why declare your love to me and vanish without giving it a try. Vanish without meeting again after saying it . What could possibly go wrong without even meeting again after saying it and convincing me .

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He didn’t want to answer any of your questions.

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Or is it?

Have you ever heard this lame bullshit excuse and did you believe it? Or maybe it was you who used it on someone?

I have used it in the past, but I didn’t mean it that it’s not them. It is them but I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.

And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.

I can only hope this mercury retro brings him back. He looks at my pictures almost every day and likes every single one. We are still “friends”.
But neither one of us makes the first move. It’s a stand off, of love and pride. Leo sun vs Leo moon. It’s terrible.

My point exactly on why people ghost!
Your heard the excuse and even told the excuse but you’re telling yourself the lie. @Mystarshine

He didn’t ghost me. But he might as well.
Emotionally ghosted me.

And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.

No he gave you an excuse so as not to hurt you and then you ask yourself why? Can I change what can I do to make him see me differently… you tell yourself the lie.

Just like you told someone an excuse because you didn’t want to speak the truth. Is there Anything he could have done to change your mind?

I genuinely wasn’t into those guys though. There was no chemistry, no feelings, no nothing.

We have all that and he still can’t commit? He never could commit to anyone. I was his only second relationship ever.

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He’s a noncommittal person. You’re not going to change that. Only he will “if” he feels a shift within himself.

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Posted by borednbeautiful
Or is it?

Have you ever heard this lame bullshit excuse and did you believe it? Or maybe it was you who used it on someone?

I have used it in the past, but I didn’t mean it that it’s not them. It is them but I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.

And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.

I can only hope this mercury retro brings him back. He looks at my pictures almost every day and likes every single one. We are still “friends”.
But neither one of us makes the first move. It’s a stand off, of love and pride. Leo sun vs Leo moon. It’s terrible.

My point exactly on why people ghost!

I would want to know the answer to this myself .

I had some one ghost me after declaring his love for me in the past . Not just casually but declared with lot of deep passion words which felt real then and then boom gone ghosted . Never understood why do people do that.
Doesn’t that hurt feeling . It just hurts more than hearing fuck off.

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If he had given you any reason, you would have still come back fighting to keep him with the whys??? Because it’s never 1 simple answer, right?

Too draining, too hard for some people.