I want a woman who is experienced and knows what she wants... and also is willing to give me what I want. It’s hard to learn variety with minimum partners.

There is a complete over emphasis of sexual analytics.

No untreatable diseases is really my only set back because I don’t need to catch nothing from someone.

If she’s cheated on recent partners etc. is important for relationship communication and stability.

People make mistakes but they must learn from them.

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Lmao December is being quite tough on you! Cap’s are stubborn btw. Very! I found that me just turning around and leaving worked the best. I wasn’t putting up with the trying to make your mind up stuff. I tend to be more let’s see if it evolves type & if it’s heading somewhere than alright then. Funny I was planning on a move too.. but then the Cap happened. It took me a long time to decide to cancel the move - almost a year. But it was my decision & a break up too. See he fell for me, but couldn’t handle my planning to move & thought of i’d just leave him.

Don’t think the Cap would be a good one to be hanging out in the meantime before your move unless your open to possible change.

This was supposed to be a great month for me astrologically! In all areas!

It’s not! Last month sucked too!

@Gc02

Very hypocritical to say a guy that goes to a strip club is off limits like he’s sleeping with girls, when you are the one dancing in some form of nudity in one. It’s literally biting the hand that feeds you.

I travel and check out nightlife and some strip clubs are rated best for food and sports packages. Not even about the girl.

Perverse guys are pretty much men in general. Don’t date a guy that is disrespectful to women.

If I could make a minimum of 200 a day with a cap of 2k? I’d do it for dancing. Not sex though.

One girl I know became escort getting 1500 an hour. That life messed her up. Drugs, jail, addiction. Side note she had huge natural boobs that defied gravity and other logic... if I was super into boobs I’d probably stare at them all day and tip too.

I’ve dated a dancer. She was a sweet girl. I met her at the club I went to when I was traveling on business.we had similar interest and became friends... then casual fwb.

She was definitely in top 2 at club. I used to hang with her and her girls. She hated most of them had one or two friends there.

Most all of them, including my friend have poor relationship skills and have some form of repressed pain from childhood. I can’t tell you one I met that was together.

They make serious money sometimes depending on area. If a lot of military are around big days for them sometimes. My friend made 2300 in a night, but most days she made like 150-200 dollars.

She always had to drink to go topless and she was embarrassed and ashamed, but sells out for school and travel and easy living. She’s scared to death her family will find out. Funny thing is she’s not stupid she has a masters and said she wants to use her looks as long as she can. To live as easy as she can.

Is what it is.

@saggurl88

No mercury retrograde is kicking my arse! I haven’t had sex in two weeks but I got women all around me and on top of that no birthday sex. Grrrrr.

Aqua in sex shop last night trying vibrators over her clothes at midnight like she’s trying to get off. After she brought it(I chipped in a little as I wasn’t thinking clearly at that point) I told her make sure she comes once for me. She said she’d send me something for proof. She had asked me to come over but I relented to show I’m classy 😎.

I probably should have because I paid for dinner and that was supposed to be her taking me out for my birthday. Smh. We ended up going to Costco for gas, then Victoria secret, yard house for dinner, and then the sex toy shop.

I figured really it’s a first date 🤷🏾‍♂️ I’ll put soft press on her later on for neglecting my birthday.

Smh. I still ain’t got video. I texted her as I just woke up and she ain’t hit me back yet. Show me the tape!

@mariah18

I think scorps point was more engrained in the fact that Cap always talks about how much she likes me, then isn’t actually doing anything about it.

Star Wars reference “do it do not there is no try”

I don’t know how Cap saying kissing and dancing is a show of her really liking me. I was tickled at that. Random drunk people do that.

I am moving end of next year anyway to California from east coast so I’m not looking for anything serious anyway. Just good friends or one friend that I can pass time with. If something develops it does, but it’s not on my wish list at moment.

Scorp didn’t drunkly say anything in front of a bunch of people. There was an alcove they were in.

I’m fine with cap being cautious. For the record I won her over months ago. She just at a confusing point in her life. Not mad at all. I’ve already come to conclusion she’s going to want to run things with little compromise and that’s not me. Everything seems to need to be her way.
A) I’m older and more experienced
B) I’m more accomplished
And
C) we enjoy each other’s Company
Fact is... you don’t know everything and just bc it’s your perception doesn’t make it right.

She’s too stubborn and without qualifications to be so.

In terms of sex or whatever y’all want to call it “intimacy” I don’t find sex at it’s basis to be anything more than a physical act that if you like the person makes it better.

Truth of the matter is. You can’t pressure someone to have sex, just like you can’t pressure the other person to abstain from sex. So either you compromise or keep it friendly.

She said she didn’t want to waste my time. But she wants my attention which is wasting my time.

@Mariah18

Ok... had a fun time with Aqua tonight very open and different from Cap... hit up a sex store on way from dinner. maybe it was the martinis but she was pretty open about sex. she brought a vibrator... but made it clear she would send me a video of her using it. its fine. had a good time.

back to my birthday night.

I pick Cap up. she's deck out and looking good in a sweater dress and thigh high suede boots for the party at the club. We do a birthday dinner alone. laugh joke kiss some touching. its going great. had pretty nice expectations.

we get to the club, a bunch of her modeling girlfriends are there. no dudes. Her cousin owns the club so we have bottles comped and a section in VIPs. (she promised him eye candy for men in club) so we are doing shots and drinking. guys are coming up trying to talk to girls and trying to get me to give them an introduction. not your wing man brah

so anyway her Scorp girlfriend shows up with her boyfriend and they start immediately taking advantage of alcohol. I'm like yo take it easy which one of yall driving. She said oh we took an uber from his place and was complaining about how expensive it was., but she wanted to party with me for my birthday. didn't think nothing of it.

Me and Cap having a good time. good dancing kissing. I'm sobering up, she's partying with me and taking shots with scorp gf and hitting the hookah. getting ready for last call. scorp girl comes up and goes "hey you mind dropping me and my bf off at his place before you and cap go and bang the rest of the night." I ask where he lives. its like about 10 min from my house so I said cool.

Cap came and scorp said. hey he said he'd drop us off before ya'll have sex tonight.

cap shoots back. we aren't planning on having sex tonight. so scorp looks at me and says why aren't you fking her tonight. I shrug and said its the first I heard of it.

then cap tells her, we haven't had sex yet. scorp went off on her in VIP. omg you are such a prude. how you all over him and talk about him last two months and not f him on his birthday.

I go back to the hookah, thanking the fact that its coming from her Gf and not her.

fast forward the four of us are in the car and cap is being all affectionate rubbing my arm, kissing me and all this. so i'm thinking im going to get some tonight finally.

drop the scorp and her boyfriend off. scorp is smoking cigarette outside my car and tells cap to join her. I crack the window slightly lol

cap tells scorp she doesn't want to escalate our friendship and hurt my feelings because she's not sure what she wants to be in state much longer much less start a relationship

scorp tells her its just sex and she aint had none in 6 months and it might get her head together. she told her "i just have to be sure, its only been about 2 months and it hasn't been on her mind."

scorp tells her. "If you don't f him someone else will and you will be hurt that he's gone...and it would be her fault because she is shocked I've stayed around this long without it, because she wouldn't"

they hug and she gets back in car. I can tell she's thinking so I just cut the silence and say look I'll just take you home no worries.

Cap turns and says you know I like you a lot right. We kiss and dance together, you've met all my friends and my sister, I just need to be sure before I get deeply involved with someone.

I laugh and say I like you and would like to have sex with you, I haven't acted or treated you different over the last 2 months, but its frustrating.

then cap says "PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE" lmfao....it brought me back to you dxp people.

I had a mini internal melt down and regained my composure...and said believe me I have been patient. I don't talk to someone for 2 months like this.

she goes. 2 months isn't a long time. you know me I like to plan everything. I'm working two jobs trying to figure things out. I really like you. I'm just not sure if i'm staying here much less trying to waste your time in a relationship

so... yeah I drop her off she kisses me for a good 30 seconds and asked me to come up to her job tonight, wished me happy birthday again and said bye.

yeah back burner on this one... I'm glad her girlfriend said something to start it because I've been holding my tongue.

Where is the Sag sun/ Aries Moon though.... old thread was incomplete!

lol.... it did go left didn't it.

I'm very knowledgeable about them. I'm not used to working this hard with this cap, when I know and you act like you want it. I've been splitting my attention, so its no big deal, because she's interested and not giving it up.

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Posted by hellosaggy
I'm easily past the 400's I don't have an exact number. I used to keep a journal... not proud of it.

I've slowed down a lot. This year has only been 12.

Being young back then and making money was not a good combination. I was easily ONS 2 - 3 girls a week for a few years. I shouldn't spent the money I was blowing on bit coin. oh well live and learn.

I was in a big college city, driving a leased expensive car, and making 6 figures a month. there was literally no effort put in just picking through gold diggers for who I wanted to mess with. They didn't like me for me... they didn't know me. until they spend a day with me, realize I'm fun and can do stuff. and hit and quit or turned them into a fling.

Males in the Gem-Sag axis, from my experience, rack up serious numbers. I knew a Gemini who told me he was around 250. College baseball athlete, then played in the minors for a few years for I think 5 different teams. They travelled to different cities, I guess fucked his way through each of them.

and I think that's why we have a hard time settling down because we know there are plenty of options out there. My twin brother is the exact opposite of me. I think he's in low teens or something. he likes LTRs

Welp, as long as you had your fun. lol. Plus, I think thats what your 20s are for... to go out there and sample everything life has to offer in every aspect.

That's interesting about your twin though. Do you share the same ascendants?

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yup same exact ascents ... i'm dominated by venus and jupiter.... he's mars dominant though.

C .. .Nice Job @Mariah18

a juicy tidbit. her scorpio GF told her she's a prude and said if I sleep with someone else its on her lol.

I'll tell yall the drama later LMAO

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Posted by hellosaggy
I'm easily past the 400's I don't have an exact number. I used to keep a journal... not proud of it.

I've slowed down a lot. This year has only been 12.

Being young back then and making money was not a good combination. I was easily ONS 2 - 3 girls a week for a few years. I shouldn't spent the money I was blowing on bit coin. oh well live and learn.

I was in a big college city, driving a leased expensive car, and making 6 figures a month. there was literally no effort put in just picking through gold diggers for who I wanted to mess with. They didn't like me for me... they didn't know me. until they spend a day with me, realize I'm fun and can do stuff. and hit and quit or turned them into a fling.

Males in the Gem-Sag axis, from my experience, rack up serious numbers. I knew a Gemini who told me he was around 250. College baseball athlete, then played in the minors for a few years for I think 5 different teams. They travelled to different cities, I guess fucked his way through each of them.

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and I think that's why we have a hard time settling down because we know there are plenty of options out there. My twin brother is the exact opposite of me. I think he's in low teens or something. he likes LTRs

yeah...I'm honestly actually over the casual sex and "oh she's hot I need to bang her" phase.... I still have a problem with people in my business and enjoy my privacy and living alone until I want company... I'll keep doing it, but I don't really enjoy the hunt anymore

I have this stupid thing about learning new women. I constantly meet them and text back and forth, it get sexual and then I end up having sex with them. I really don't know how to be friends with women, unless I'm not attracted to them.

TBH, what I've noticed is juggling women makes them chase. when i lock in on one I like, I get clingy myself and it never goes anywhere. *shrugs*

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Posted by hellosaggy
@juliiette, I went back and explained what happened lol

what, i forgot.

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I edited my post to explain why it was that high.

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Posted by hellosaggy
I'm easily past the 400's I don't have an exact number. I used to keep a journal... not proud of it.

I've slowed down a lot. This year has only been 12.

Being young back then and making money was not a good combination. I was easily ONS 2 - 3 girls a week for a few years. I shouldn't spent the money I was blowing on bit coin. oh well live and learn.

400's



disgusting

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See. can't be honest around here. I don't have no diseases (well since my last test a month ago... haven't really had sex since the test either. I got another one I will do another after new years), or kids... I know about lol.

I know a girl that caught herpes from a boyfriend that cheated on her. he took her virginity.

I guess that's Sag luck lol...escaped the lusting 20's physically unscathed

@juliiette, I went back and explained what happened lol

I'm easily past the 400's I don't have an exact number. I used to keep a journal... not proud of it.

I've slowed down a lot. This year has only been 12.

Being young back then and making money was not a good combination. I was easily ONS 2 - 3 girls a week for a few years. I shouldn't spent the money I was blowing on bit coin. oh well live and learn.

I was in a big college city, driving a leased expensive car, and making 6 figures a month. there was literally no effort put in just picking through gold diggers for who I wanted to mess with. They didn't like me for me... they didn't know me. until they spend a day with me, realize I'm fun and can do stuff. and hit and quit or turned them into a fling.