See I think I am being authentic by being flexible..... what we do is prioritize. if you are in the number 1 category you are set..... any other number you don't have a priority... we will see you if and when we see you...
its why scorpio women pressure me because they want you to be the same way all the time. They make it out to be that we aren't dependable... and they get jealous thinking you are treating the other person "better", but really you are just treating them how they like to be treated.
She's high functioning. Not well-adjusted, she has a hard time being alone... me too to be honest, i learned a lot the last year about myself. I MIGHT have caused some confusion coming back and demanding her love again when she has a boyfriend. Who knows where her emotions are.
I just want to be prepared to deal with whatever she does, if she does anything. She's the first woman I've had feelings for after our break up. cutting her off today was tough.
I walked away with my text. I just want to anticipate future action on her part to be prepared. I don't like being caught off guard. This is the first woman I still have feelings for after a break up, in the past I didn't care enough about them.
hey. it was funny. lol. I still remember it even thought it was like 8 years ago. she had been texting me she wanted me to just grab her as soon as she entered the door. I was like yeah...
Then I thought, she was sad and moody all day before that. I figured she just wanted the D for distraction.... I just hugged her and kissed her and wrapped her up in a blanket with me... we fell asleep on the couch because the movie was long af
I've noticed most of my past exs and flings still want something to do with me. I'm not saying I'm great or perfect. But especially after they break up they Call or text me to see what my status is.
What is it about us that make people circle the wagons?
I know me personally. I always gave the person what I saw they needed, and not always what they wanted. So its like when the light blub goes off they realize I was good for them.
I had this one scorpio... she was highly sexed, and I am too, but I sensed there was something wrong with her. I threw her on the couch and instead of going at it, got a blanket and just hugged her and watched a movie with her.
She wanted sex(I did too).. but I gave her comfort. she says that's the one thing she will always remember about me.
we are mutable.... it makes us chameleons... its not that we are liars... we reflect what we need to reflect for others... I can be fiery, shy, aggressive, passive, funny, introverted, deep, flighty.... and my sag makes me a philosopher and love to travel and unfortunately hard to commit.
its unmolded power. I have an aries moon, and scorpio ascent and scorpio in my pluto and venus. Libra in my mars
I feel like every element except earth. I have zero earth in my chart. it makes me everything but grounded.
I didn't know about him until I got relocated back, she and I had been talking everyday I was gone. I came back for her, she said she was in a relationship, I told her I want her and if I can't be with her goodbye.
two days later she's emailing and calling saying hello, asking me about my life like she doesn't know. about game of thrones (wtf really)... telling me I look amazing and she's happy I am doing good. so we've just been chatting.
I figured it was part boredom on her part, part interest... I came back for her so I tried to see if our history would pull her back. We went out last week and had fund, I didn't push for anything we flirted a little and gave a good long hug good bye.
4 days later she's picking him up from airport. never mentioned he was coming back. I had called her while they were driving.
anyway I said well, good luck to you and hung the phone up. she proceeded today to call me twice and text me saying she still wants to keep talking.
I said no I can't be your buddy.... she said above all else we are friends even if you don't want to speak to me.
Ok. My ex (together for 2.5 years physically, then did 6 months LD before we broke up a year ago)has a boyfriend, he's been gone for the last 3 months they got together 8 months ago. (she didn't tell me about him until I got back)
when she told me I said, well I wish you would have said something sooner! but I guess this is goodbye. She started texting and calling 1 - 2 days since we met that first time. We've been talking the last 2 months. literally just communicating some flirting, picture exchanges...
She and I have been communicating and trying to figure out how and if we want to fit into each other's lives. We still have chemistry.. the only reason we broke up was because of the distance.
Now she's with the new guy. He just got back yesterday(I found out by accident calling her to say hi), we went out and talked last week.
She told me she wants to keep talking, even though he's back.
I told her its not a good idea, you know I have feelings for you and I can't talk to you, to respect your decision.
She replied "well even if you decide to stop talking to me, Above all else you and I are friends."
what move should I expect next on her part, just so I'm prepared? I am just trying to stay out of drama, but I do love her, which is why I came back
I am a good guy I swear... I just in the past was a douche when it came to dropping people when I wasn't sure... I always told myself to figure it out. My thought process was they know what they want (me)... I don't know what I want yet... so I'll give her what she wants until I know she's everything I want. It's not fair because you never know when or if you are going to figure it out.
@Rindaroo I was being honest. and its funny because I was blunt with it and got chewed out for it. I'm actually a pretty-straight forward person.