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I’ve never shamed a woman that’s fallen for me/in bed with me. I’m just not down for relationships until I know someone is worth cutting others off for.

Yeah and nothing wrong with that. It's not like I want a relationship with all the guys I have had sex with.
But I am wondering what/how men think about the women they play?

if they are playing, they feel like they are getting over and its a power position.

like I have an open relationship with the Aqua I'm dating. she's openly dating another girl, while I am secretly dating other women, but those women know I'm dating a lesbian, sometimes they can deal, sometimes they can't. I don't pretend because I can't bring them to my home due to the living situation.

before, when I was jumping around. I did it for purely selfish reasons, I like the variety, sometimes you play on the emotions, to keep them accessible. I don't think men feel women are "stupid" for trusting us. its ignoring the morality of lying to someone's face, that you are supposed to - and pretend - to care about. That's more so on the man than the woman though.

why do you have to do it secretly though if she does it openly?

just curious, found that odd...

she doesn't like hearing about other women, even though she has a legit girl she's been dating for 8 month now... if someone told her I was sleeping with other women, she would be hurt, but she knows I'm not cheating.

that's confusing

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lol. I know it is. People wonder why we aren't "Together", it just works for us. She was married to a woman, and probably likes vagina more than I do.

We are more so really good FWB, but living together just gives the appearance of being a couple. we kind of agreed to respect the space here, nobody is trying to sleep in another person's wet spot.

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I’ve never shamed a woman that’s fallen for me/in bed with me. I’m just not down for relationships until I know someone is worth cutting others off for.

Yeah and nothing wrong with that. It's not like I want a relationship with all the guys I have had sex with.
But I am wondering what/how men think about the women they play?

if they are playing, they feel like they are getting over and its a power position.

like I have an open relationship with the Aqua I'm dating. she's openly dating another girl, while I am secretly dating other women, but those women know I'm dating a lesbian, sometimes they can deal, sometimes they can't. I don't pretend because I can't bring them to my home due to the living situation.

before, when I was jumping around. I did it for purely selfish reasons, I like the variety, sometimes you play on the emotions, to keep them accessible. I don't think men feel women are "stupid" for trusting us. its ignoring the morality of lying to someone's face, that you are supposed to - and pretend - to care about. That's more so on the man than the woman though.

why do you have to do it secretly though if she does it openly?

just curious, found that odd...

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she doesn't like hearing about other women, even though she has a legit girl she's been dating for 8 month now... if someone told her I was sleeping with other women, she would be hurt, but she knows I'm not cheating.

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men and women have been manipulating people for sex or whatever else they are after since the beginning of time.

MOST of the time its men wanting sex from a hot girl, unless she's a step above in the socioeconomic ladder.

women typically give up the goods to men higher up on the looks and/or socioeconomic ladder.

it is what it is. its life and its not fair and its what you make of it.

Now mature adults lay out what they want on the table and manage expectations. that's what you need to find,

lol @ women that feel men don't want a relationship in fear of failing. men don't want a relationship in fear of missing out on the next chick that's better than you that comes around. if a man felt you were amazing, he would stay until he found out otherwise. women have to stop believing bullshit just because it makes them feel better.

no man will turn down wifing a woman that's amazing. he might be scared to lose her but he aint going to mess it up by not at least committing to some level of a relationship.

Sex isn't enough to keep me, but bad sex is enough for me NOT to be with you. you have to have other partnership qualities than getting me off, but you better drain me in a variety of ways.

Wow. That's a cute trick how you let yourself off the hook for terrible behavior by claiming that's just life. At least you're honest (to us).

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what is terrible behavior? and just because you feel its terrible behavior because you pretend to be the morality police, doesn't make it so.

I'm honest with everybody. The aqua made it clear she doesn't want to know how I entertain myself while she's off with her lesbian partner. so I don't tell her. we set rules for our open relationship. when she leaves to spend a day or two with her girlfriend, she might come back saying she missed me, or give me a sex story or two. I don't offer up anything.

if we have been having sex all these years you are someone we feel comfortable being around in the situation we are in. Seems to be no pressure, which is what we love, but you would need to show more signs of being someone we could consider being a partner with. I lose interest after a couple of rolls in the hay, so if I keep you around you have some of my interest. A key to long term with sags are friendships. if we aren't friends, we definitely aren't anything else.

@VenusAquarius

I applaud your open-mindedness as always. this is where experience comes in.

men and women have been manipulating people for sex or whatever else they are after since the beginning of time.

MOST of the time its men wanting sex from a hot girl, unless she's a step above in the socioeconomic ladder.

women typically give up the goods to men higher up on the looks and/or socioeconomic ladder.

it is what it is. its life and its not fair and its what you make of it.

Now mature adults lay out what they want on the table and manage expectations. that's what you need to find,

lol @ women that feel men don't want a relationship in fear of failing. men don't want a relationship in fear of missing out on the next chick that's better than you that comes around. if a man felt you were amazing, he would stay until he found out otherwise. women have to stop believing bullshit just because it makes them feel better.

no man will turn down wifing a woman that's amazing. he might be scared to lose her but he aint going to mess it up by not at least committing to some level of a relationship.

Sex isn't enough to keep me, but bad sex is enough for me NOT to be with you. you have to have other partnership qualities than getting me off, but you better drain me in a variety of ways.

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Posted by hellosaggy
I’ve never shamed a woman that’s fallen for me/in bed with me. I’m just not down for relationships until I know someone is worth cutting others off for.

Yeah and nothing wrong with that. It's not like I want a relationship with all the guys I have had sex with.
But I am wondering what/how men think about the women they play?

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if they are playing, they feel like they are getting over and its a power position.

like I have an open relationship with the Aqua I'm dating. she's openly dating another girl, while I am secretly dating other women, but those women know I'm dating a lesbian, sometimes they can deal, sometimes they can't. I don't pretend because I can't bring them to my home due to the living situation.

before, when I was jumping around. I did it for purely selfish reasons, I like the variety, sometimes you play on the emotions, to keep them accessible. I don't think men feel women are "stupid" for trusting us. its ignoring the morality of lying to someone's face, that you are supposed to - and pretend - to care about. That's more so on the man than the woman though.

I’ve never shamed a woman that’s fallen for me/in bed with me. I’m just not down for relationships until I know someone is worth cutting others off for.

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If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?

A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me

How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.

I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....

but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking

I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.

Have you tried receiving anal sex?

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I’ve had finger probing... um... I said it’s not a deal breaker. I just have known the ones down for it are my kind of nasty 😬

English French, some russian and some spanish....

I speak woman fluently.... roaarrr. yeah baby yeah

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But I get younger men wanting to fuck me all the time
N this is not what I want

it goes back to what @elvisstalinwoods said..... young girls have gotten progressively whack in the bedroom. they think just because they are cute a guy will line up for them, and the weak/"thankful" men will.

nothing worse than an above average chick being either a terrible lay or a shitty person... and sometimes its both.

But they assume I’ll be a great lay

Yea.... every older woman I've ever been with has been a good lay, and actually aren't as selfish. more confident in/out of bedroom. they just might have some other baggage (same as any older person)... kids, etc.

you have years more experience sexually.

First time I pulled out a girl and then ate her and put it back... she lost her damn mind lol. these youngsters don't know anything.

😂😂 So if a guy goes for older women, it’s all about sex! Tell you what it’s just you’ve had more experience, and the older you get you just don’t care about all the “shoulds” in life anymore. I’ve had really young guys (20’s) talk about older women being sensual vs younger women. It’s interesting. I was never with them either cuz I’d rather find a guy my age or 8 years younger tops to get the whole package! They tell me I’m too worried about age 😂😂 plus guys in their 40’s and early 50’s can still get it up but they know what to do!!!!!! 🤷‍♀️ mutual experience is a great thing!

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yeah. experience is key.... young ones don't have it..... I like sensual and porn nasty.... so I would hope the young ones at least have one.... most times they don't thought.... not to mention, my favorite line "well my old boyfriend liked how I did it..." ... I read a story online about how American are now having less sex than in last 20 years.

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But I get younger men wanting to fuck me all the time
N this is not what I want

it goes back to what @elvisstalinwoods said..... young girls have gotten progressively whack in the bedroom. they think just because they are cute a guy will line up for them, and the weak/"thankful" men will.

nothing worse than an above average chick being either a terrible lay or a shitty person... and sometimes its both.

it seems from your posts that you are not a representitive thou, you know you are dating shyte people when both of you are bored of each other even before you get into bed

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They aren't bored of me. I'm just a borderline panty bandit.

I think mutuables are the most powerful... and fire, so Sagittarius...

Being powerful is about being able to change, lead, and have a strong moral compass.

I'm absolutely not attracted to Zendaya.... Ariana is my swing. if she just chooses to be her Italian self without the heavy tanning. I thought she was latina for a minute... she's cray cray though, and I kind of like that as well.


I really was in-like with my scorpio.... I think cardinals are better though for the simple point they are willing to budge on beliefs. these fixed signs have some serious addiction issues.

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But I get younger men wanting to fuck me all the time
N this is not what I want

it goes back to what @elvisstalinwoods said..... young girls have gotten progressively whack in the bedroom. they think just because they are cute a guy will line up for them, and the weak/"thankful" men will.

nothing worse than an above average chick being either a terrible lay or a shitty person... and sometimes its both.

But they assume I’ll be a great lay

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Yea.... every older woman I've ever been with has been a good lay, and actually aren't as selfish. more confident in/out of bedroom. they just might have some other baggage (same as any older person)... kids, etc.

you have years more experience sexually.

First time I pulled out a girl and then ate her and put it back... she lost her damn mind lol. these youngsters don't know anything.

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If a straight guy is obsessed with anal sex and refrains from vaginal sex, is that normal?

A guy can obsess about anal sex and be straight, but if he is actually avoiding your vagina all together for long periods of time then it would raise a question mark for me

How would you take this up with the guy? He dates women if they agree to anal. This is a deal breaker thing for him.

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I can say that I need a woman that is down for most things.... its absolutely no fun being limited in bed. so I'm supposed to only have sex with you (monogamous relationship)... and I can't get BJs or anal.... so we only have vaginal sex.... or you are "disgusted" by semen so don't cum anywhere in/near you....

but you are nice and can cook? nah, I'll keep looking

I've not had anal for years... its not a deal breaker, but typically your anal queens are down for other things as well.

Posted by Impulsv
But I get younger men wanting to fuck me all the time
N this is not what I want

it goes back to what @elvisstalinwoods said..... young girls have gotten progressively whack in the bedroom. they think just because they are cute a guy will line up for them, and the weak/"thankful" men will.

nothing worse than an above average chick being either a terrible lay or a shitty person... and sometimes its both.

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I can say I dicked down a 20 year old a few months back.... she got crazy addicted. sex to me was boring... she was stiff as a board. couldn't ride for shit, bj sucked (in a bad way).... I threw her around and she was dick drunk and went to sleep the few times we did it.

I couldn't with her though.....

Tbh a lot of chicks in their early 20s nowadays are fucking selfish and lazy.
They think getting dolled up for 3hrs to be Instagram perfect should have them fucking praised and make you nut instantly. You do all the work til they need juice and a dick nap and you're still there with no nut and pissed off to have wasted 30 bucks on an uber for a chick that can't even throat right.

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its kind of going back to the June cleavers of the 50s/60s... where the housewife just spread her legs and was a pillow princess (or that's all that was expected)....

as much as women want romance, and to be appreciated... men want someone who's just as attentive in bedroom.

I'm done doing all/most of the work.. inside and outside the bedroom, and then I'm expected to be "your man".. lmao... when it's 75/85 % me doing the work... we ain't partners.

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mmm. I like fast, strong women.... that take risk. I'm a fire sun/moon.....

WHen I do love its based on my scorpio venus.... my libra mars, makes me a flexible lover. so I don't have any hard fast rule.

My best friend says he doesn't know my type because I date a plethora of women... I just need good sex and loyalty.

Interesting. Sounds like what you’re attracted to is a blend on your sun/moon/Venus.

Do you pursue with your mars?

I actually really don't pursue. Normally, its some drunk girl coming on to me, or a friend of a friend, or we link up through her watching me joke and entertain with friends, and then it goes from there.

I can't even remember the last girl I pursued, or cold introduced, went up and introduced myself.

Do you think that has anything to do with your Libra mars or no?

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mmmm... i dunno. Sags are about honesty/loyalty in general.... I know Libras are all into being fair. I think that's why Libras and Sags get along so well.

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mmm. I like fast, strong women.... that take risk. I'm a fire sun/moon.....

WHen I do love its based on my scorpio venus.... my libra mars, makes me a flexible lover. so I don't have any hard fast rule.

My best friend says he doesn't know my type because I date a plethora of women... I just need good sex and loyalty.

Interesting. Sounds like what you’re attracted to is a blend on your sun/moon/Venus.

Do you pursue with your mars?

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I actually really don't pursue. Normally, its some drunk girl coming on to me, or a friend of a friend, or we link up through her watching me joke and entertain with friends, and then it goes from there.

I can't even remember the last girl I pursued, or cold introduced, went up and introduced myself.