thepurpleone
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Capricorn man losing interest or is he just busy with work?
Losing interest. There is no such thing as "busy with work".
Posted by thepurpleone
Im a Gemini Sun,Scorpio moon,Venus in Gemini and he is Capricorn Sun, Aries Moon, with Venus in Aquarius.
I have been talking a Capricorn man for about 3 months now.He has taken me out to dinner and tried to spend time with me in the last few months of us talking. He also works part time at the same company that I work at.If he knows that I am working, he will try to come up to my department and see me.
He also always ask if there is something he can get me while he is on break or if I am not feeling well, he tries to buy me something to help me get through my shift. He would always text me every other day or every 2 to 3 days. However, about 3 weeks ago, He started back his 2nd job which means he is now working 7 days a week, since he still has the part time job.
Fast forward, He now only text me on the weekend when he is working the part time job. He always initiates conversation, and he always replies to my text in less than a minute or two. He ask me how my day is going and ask if I am working that day, so he can walk up to see me. However, the last time we talked was over a week ago and he ended the conversation by saying he wanted to see me and wanted us to hang out again very soon.I was starting to worry about the drop in communication. Does it mean he is losing interest or is it because he just wants to save most of the conversation when we see each other in person?
How old is he?
Posted by starlordPosted by thepurpleone
Im a Gemini Sun,Scorpio moon,Venus in Gemini and he is Capricorn Sun, Aries Moon, with Venus in Aquarius.
I have been talking a Capricorn man for about 3 months now.He has taken me out to dinner and tried to spend time with me in the last few months of us talking. He also works part time at the same company that I work at.If he knows that I am working, he will try to come up to my department and see me.
He also always ask if there is something he can get me while he is on break or if I am not feeling well, he tries to buy me something to help me get through my shift. He would always text me every other day or every 2 to 3 days. However, about 3 weeks ago, He started back his 2nd job which means he is now working 7 days a week, since he still has the part time job.
Fast forward, He now only text me on the weekend when he is working the part time job. He always initiates conversation, and he always replies to my text in less than a minute or two. He ask me how my day is going and ask if I am working that day, so he can walk up to see me. However, the last time we talked was over a week ago and he ended the conversation by saying he wanted to see me and wanted us to hang out again very soon.I was starting to worry about the drop in communication. Does it mean he is losing interest or is it because he just wants to save most of the conversation when we see each other in person?
How old is he?click to expand
He is 30, and Im 25
fulfill your destiny as a gemini woman by cheating on cap man
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Is he making concrete plans to meet up? Or only talking about it in passing.
Do you ever text him first?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Is he making concrete plans to meet up? Or only talking about it in passing.
He makes concrete plans. He will ask me what day I am free and what time is best for me.Since, he is now working 7 days a week, I have only seen him at work lately. But, he told me he is going to have a few days off soon and wants us to hang out again.
Posted by thepurpleonePosted by LadyNeptune
Is he making concrete plans to meet up? Or only talking about it in passing.
He makes concrete plans. He will ask me what day I am free and what time is best for me.Since, he is now working 7 days a week, I have only seen him at work lately. But, he told me he is going to have a few days off soon and wants us to hang out again.click to expand
If he is making an effort to see you irl and giving you his time then you have nothing to worry about.
I'll take quality face to face time over a million bs texts throughout the week.
What is his mars?
I wouldn't worry so much. In these times its important to remember and trust the bond you guys developed. If this is true then whatever is true will flourish in itself through time. You can also text him and see how hes doing and freely share your love.
The games seem like a way to handle a cap but in the long run they'll quickly deduct that it's no genuine and stable.
My cap and I have had our fair share of ups and downs. I never played games or fell to a level to interject meanings then acted upon these assumptions. Always done things in its appropriate timing. 2 months ago it became appropriate to tell him the bitter sweet truth. He didnt contact me at all till last week Friday. He realized how important I am. He literally said "you are very important id like to see your face" Even though he didnt make it through and didnt furthur contact 3 days. I reached out anyways to show my concern. We now have a planned hang out this Saturday.
The point im getting at is..cap men tend to handle their hardships alone and emotions. They secretly want a partner to feel their vibes and courageously show them what they feel. He may be going through something but if you assume and play games when he is out of the funk he will remember . If you continue to act out based on truth and love. When he is out of the funk he'll remember that and greatly give back. I find a lot of women self sabotage themselves with their cap interest by doing so pushes them away.
my story is in going..been almost 11 months and no official i love yous or dates. Its controlled but disciplined. I rarely feel apart from him even in our dry spells. I just love him and it transcends labels.I know one day he'll eventually get there. He just needs help realizing it. Be that woman for him..steady in his time of weakness..as much as he will always do that for you when he is 150% in it.
Best of luck
I wouldn't worry so much. In these times its important to remember and trust the bond you guys developed. If this is true then whatever is true will flourish in itself through time. You can also text him and see how hes doing and freely share your love.
The games seem like a way to handle a cap but in the long run they'll quickly deduct that it's no genuine and stable.
My cap and I have had our fair share of ups and downs. I never played games or fell to a level to interject meanings then acted upon these assumptions. Always done things in its appropriate timing. 2 months ago it became appropriate to tell him the bitter sweet truth. He didnt contact me at all till last week Friday. He realized how important I am. He literally said "you are very important id like to see your face" Even though he didnt make it through and didnt furthur contact 3 days. I reached out anyways to show my concern. We now have a planned hang out this Saturday.
The point im getting at is..cap men tend to handle their hardships alone and emotions. They secretly want a partner to feel their vibes and courageously show them what they feel. He may be going through something but if you assume and play games when he is out of the funk he will remember . If you continue to act out based on truth and love. When he is out of the funk he'll remember that and greatly give back. I find a lot of women self sabotage themselves with their cap interest by doing so pushes them away.
my story is in going..been almost 11 months and no official i love yous or dates. Its controlled but disciplined. I rarely feel apart from him even in our dry spells. I just love him and it transcends labels.I know one day he'll eventually get there. He just needs help realizing it. Be that woman for him..steady in his time of weakness..as much as he will always do that for you when he is 150% in it.
Best of luck
How can you have a rship with someone who works 7 days a week?
Posted by candi3bb2
What is his mars?
I wouldn't worry so much. In these times its important to remember and trust the bond you guys developed. If this is true then whatever is true will flourish in itself through time. You can also text him and see how hes doing and freely share your love.
The games seem like a way to handle a cap but in the long run they'll quickly deduct that it's no genuine and stable.
My cap and I have had our fair share of ups and downs. I never played games or fell to a level to interject meanings then acted upon these assumptions. Always done things in its appropriate timing. 2 months ago it became appropriate to tell him the bitter sweet truth. He didnt contact me at all till last week Friday. He realized how important I am. He literally said "you are very important id like to see your face" Even though he didnt make it through and didnt furthur contact 3 days. I reached out anyways to show my concern. We now have a planned hang out this Saturday.
The point im getting at is..cap men tend to handle their hardships alone and emotions. They secretly want a partner to feel their vibes and courageously show them what they feel. He may be going through something but if you assume and play games when he is out of the funk he will remember . If you continue to act out based on truth and love. When he is out of the funk he'll remember that and greatly give back. I find a lot of women self sabotage themselves with their cap interest by doing so pushes them away.
my story is in going..been almost 11 months and no official i love yous or dates. Its controlled but disciplined. I rarely feel apart from him even in our dry spells. I just love him and it transcends labels.I know one day he'll eventually get there. He just needs help realizing it. Be that woman for him..steady in his time of weakness..as much as he will always do that for you when he is 150% in it.
Best of luck
His mars is in Scorpio.My mars is in Aries.Yesterday he text me and it had been over a week once again since I had talked to him. He always text me in the evening around 4 or 5 pm because he knows that I work evening shifts and that is the time I told him that I usually get up. While at work, I told him I had a severe headache and he went to the store for me and brought me up some headache medicine without me asking for it. Im trying to be patient and understanding because I know he is working alot right now, but I just wish I could see him more.
Posted by Capricorn91
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Do Caps have a life limit on conversations so it’ll run out at some point if he uses it much?
Posted by MyStarsShine
How can you have a rship with someone who works 7 days a week?
Well, when we first started talking to each other he was only working part time which was only 2 to 3 days out of the week. His full time job started back the middle of last month, so with the full time and part time job he is now working 7 days a week. His part time job is at the same company that I work for, but he said that he might let it go soon.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by thepurpleonePosted by LadyNeptune
Is he making concrete plans to meet up? Or only talking about it in passing.
He makes concrete plans. He will ask me what day I am free and what time is best for me.Since, he is now working 7 days a week, I have only seen him at work lately. But, he told me he is going to have a few days off soon and wants us to hang out again.
If he is making an effort to see you irl and giving you his time then you have nothing to worry about.
I'll take quality face to face time over a million bs texts throughout the week.click to expand
How about quality texting and quality calling?
And they have met in person. So...idk.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Do Caps have a life limit on conversations so it’ll run out at some point if he uses it much?click to expand
If me and him plan to meet in person, then he usually only sends short text a few days before saying things like, "I was just thinking of you, talk to you soon."
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
How can you have a rship with someone who works 7 days a week?
HE COMES TO HER WORK TO GLANCE AT HER.
I think...🤷♀️click to expand
.....through a glass partition maybe?
Posted by purplegemiPosted by candi3bb2
What is his mars?
I wouldn't worry so much. In these times its important to remember and trust the bond you guys developed. If this is true then whatever is true will flourish in itself through time. You can also text him and see how hes doing and freely share your love.
The games seem like a way to handle a cap but in the long run they'll quickly deduct that it's no genuine and stable.
My cap and I have had our fair share of ups and downs. I never played games or fell to a level to interject meanings then acted upon these assumptions. Always done things in its appropriate timing. 2 months ago it became appropriate to tell him the bitter sweet truth. He didnt contact me at all till last week Friday. He realized how important I am. He literally said "you are very important id like to see your face" Even though he didnt make it through and didnt furthur contact 3 days. I reached out anyways to show my concern. We now have a planned hang out this Saturday.
The point im getting at is..cap men tend to handle their hardships alone and emotions. They secretly want a partner to feel their vibes and courageously show them what they feel. He may be going through something but if you assume and play games when he is out of the funk he will remember . If you continue to act out based on truth and love. When he is out of the funk he'll remember that and greatly give back. I find a lot of women self sabotage themselves with their cap interest by doing so pushes them away.
my story is in going..been almost 11 months and no official i love yous or dates. Its controlled but disciplined. I rarely feel apart from him even in our dry spells. I just love him and it transcends labels.I know one day he'll eventually get there. He just needs help realizing it. Be that woman for him..steady in his time of weakness..as much as he will always do that for you when he is 150% in it.
Best of luck
His mars is in Scorpio.My mars is in Aries.Yesterday he text me and it had been over a week once again since I had talked to him. He always text me in the evening around 4 or 5 pm because he knows that I work evening shifts and that is the time I told him that I usually get up. While at work, I told him I had a severe headache and he went to the store for me and brought me up some headache medicine without me asking for it. Im trying to be patient and understanding because I know he is working alot right now, but I just wish I could see him more.click to expand
Cap doing something willingly without you nagging is the keeper.
I think he is madly in love with you.
Stop whining and be ready to be fucking bored to the rest of your long ass time rships.
Good luck!
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShine
How can you have a rship with someone who works 7 days a week?
HE COMES TO HER WORK TO GLANCE AT HER.
I think...🤷♀️
.....through a glass partition maybe?click to expand
Naaah...she said he WOIKING there. Part time.
And he is fetching meds...he might have that ankle bracelet consealed somehow.
This is actually a complicated story! Isn’t it?🙆♀️
Posted by candi3bb2
What is his mars?
I wouldn't worry so much. In these times its important to remember and trust the bond you guys developed. If this is true then whatever is true will flourish in itself through time. You can also text him and see how hes doing and freely share your love.
The games seem like a way to handle a cap but in the long run they'll quickly deduct that it's no genuine and stable.
My cap and I have had our fair share of ups and downs. I never played games or fell to a level to interject meanings then acted upon these assumptions. Always done things in its appropriate timing. 2 months ago it became appropriate to tell him the bitter sweet truth. He didnt contact me at all till last week Friday. He realized how important I am. He literally said "you are very important id like to see your face" Even though he didnt make it through and didnt furthur contact 3 days. I reached out anyways to show my concern. We now have a planned hang out this Saturday.
The point im getting at is..cap men tend to handle their hardships alone and emotions. They secretly want a partner to feel their vibes and courageously show them what they feel. He may be going through something but if you assume and play games when he is out of the funk he will remember . If you continue to act out based on truth and love. When he is out of the funk he'll remember that and greatly give back. I find a lot of women self sabotage themselves with their cap interest by doing so pushes them away.
my story is in going..been almost 11 months and no official i love yous or dates. Its controlled but disciplined. I rarely feel apart from him even in our dry spells. I just love him and it transcends labels.I know one day he'll eventually get there. He just needs help realizing it. Be that woman for him..steady in his time of weakness..as much as he will always do that for you when he is 150% in it.
Best of luck
This is so beautiful!
Sounds to me that he is interested but what do I know? 🤷♀️
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Do Caps have a life limit on conversations so it’ll run out at some point if he uses it much?click to expand
I believe it is for everyone. Especially for more introverted people and talking through msgs isn't all that fun especially when you know you are about to meet someone.
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Do Caps have a life limit on conversations so it’ll run out at some point if he uses it much?
I believe it is for everyone. Especially for more introverted people and talking through msgs isn't all that fun especially when you know you are about to meet someone.click to expand
Yeah...and when you married you don’t have to talk at all!!!
Wanting to meet someone and going to do it is exciting (unless it’s not) and simple stupid stuff as ‘can’t wait to see you’ is the stuff that NORMAL people do!
According to you after marriage proposal bride and groom have to meet at the wedding...NO!
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Do Caps have a life limit on conversations so it’ll run out at some point if he uses it much?
I believe it is for everyone. Especially for more introverted people and talking through msgs isn't all that fun especially when you know you are about to meet someone.
Yeah...and when you married you don’t have to talk at all!!!
Wanting to meet someone and going to do it is exciting (unless it’s not) and simple stupid stuff as ‘can’t wait to see you’ is the stuff that NORMAL people do!
According to you after marriage proposal bride and groom have to meet at the wedding...NO!click to expand
Well talking through msgs and in person is different, some people do like the physical presence more than just the talk. It creates better connection. Haha no I didn't mean that, some people don't talk much and for them it could seem that any time together is more important than just texting.
Posted by Capricorn91Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91Posted by GemitatiPosted by Capricorn91
He is interested in you and yes seems like he wants to talk more when you meet rather than drying the conversation through text before that which is good.
Do Caps have a life limit on conversations so it’ll run out at some point if he uses it much?
I believe it is for everyone. Especially for more introverted people and talking through msgs isn't all that fun especially when you know you are about to meet someone.
Yeah...and when you married you don’t have to talk at all!!!
Wanting to meet someone and going to do it is exciting (unless it’s not) and simple stupid stuff as ‘can’t wait to see you’ is the stuff that NORMAL people do!
According to you after marriage proposal bride and groom have to meet at the wedding...NO!
Well talking through msgs and in person is different, some people do like the physical presence more than just the talk. It creates better connection. Haha no I didn't mean that, some people don't talk much and for them it could seem that any time together is more important than just texting.click to expand
You haven’t gave it much thought have you?
How is having date makes communications as she knew it stop?
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