What is space to an Aquarian

Hi I'm dating an Aquarius with moon in Libra, Venus in Aquarius and mars in Scorpio i don't know his asc. I'm a Scorpio also with moon in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius and mars in Leo also i have asc in Leo. I don't really know if we are a good match or not. of course sexually its great but i wonder if i can give him the space he needs. i like space too but not for extended periods of time. in matters of space for an Aquarian do they need DAYS alone? How do i know the difference, like how do i know if the space is just space or if he is losing interest. i always have to be the one to call first and when ever i ask is he happy and am i what he wants in a woman he says, "yea baby why wouldn't you be". but he never tells me how he feels unless he thinks i am liking another man. We were friends for a year before we got together as a couple and in that time i started dating another guy and that's when he just came alive with attention and talking even jealousy. which made me feel like i was important to him. now that we are together it seems to be more distance. My fear is that to keep him hooked i cant be his woman, we can only be friends so that i can keep him jealous enough to pay me attention. I'm a very loyal person when in love so this is not what i want, cause i love him i only want to be with him but im afaid i have to play mind games or do i. am i over reacting as Scorpio's sometimes do. i feel i am destined to be with an Aquarius cause it rules my 7th house, my sun is conjunct my uranus, and my Eros an Phyche (astroids) are in Aquarius too. I've been hurt and this time around i have to keep both eyes open and both feet on the ground to avoid the same mistakes over. O he is 28 and im 34. so some avice from other aquarius especially men would help or those who have delt with a sun Aquarius, mars Scorpio person before. thank you all

Using jealousy to get attention = games. Once you start resorting to games = the beginning to the end of the relationship.

thank you everyone it was not what i wanted to hear but i know it was honest and i value that more. we communicate everyday cause i call. i was thinking about not calling for a few days to see if does and if he doesnt then im going to let him go i dont want nor afford to be hurt. or how can i just ask him —?

well you have to be a very strong woman to put up with that type of aquarius man.
you're braver than most. It's better to find an easy peazy type of man. Easy access and will cling to you as if they can't let your leg go. I salute you. Sounds pretty scary what you're undertaking.

Posted by MissFirewater
thank you everyone it was not what i wanted to hear but i know it was honest and i value that more. we communicate everyday cause i call. i was thinking about not calling for a few days to see if does and if he doesnt then im going to let him go i dont want nor afford to be hurt. or how can i just ask him —?

oh never mind. He's got a leo asc and libra moon. should be a little easier.

was kind of scared seeing the aqua sun and scorp mars combo. O_O

Dont play games just be yourself.

*ops i mean the moon is easier, and your leo planets can pull him in.

thank you tiziani and lisabethur8 it was well recieved 🙂

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Posted by MissFirewater
thank you everyone it was not what i wanted to hear but i know it was honest and i value that more. we communicate everyday cause i call. i was thinking about not calling for a few days to see if does and if he doesnt then im going to let him go i dont want nor afford to be hurt. or how can i just ask him —?

oh never mind. He's got a leo asc and libra moon. should be a little easier.

was kind of scared seeing the aqua sun and scorp mars combo. O_O

Dont play games just be yourself.

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So what would aqua sun and scorpio mars be like? Just curious. I know someone with these placements.

If I care about someone, I'm all in. I will ask for space to do the things I like to do but you will never have to wonder.

No time for someone who keeps you guessing. Someone who cares about you will not do that.

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Posted by MissFirewater
thank you everyone it was not what i wanted to hear but i know it was honest and i value that more. we communicate everyday cause i call. i was thinking about not calling for a few days to see if does and if he doesnt then im going to let him go i dont want nor afford to be hurt. or how can i just ask him —?

oh never mind. He's got a leo asc and libra moon. should be a little easier.

was kind of scared seeing the aqua sun and scorp mars combo. O_O

Dont play games just be yourself.

So what would aqua sun and scorpio mars be like? Just curious. I know someone with these placements.

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On a MALE?

>.>

I don't know him THAT well. lol!!
He just seems to focus on the sexual part of his relationships, according to how he talks about women.

well we have have been talking with him calling me too and He was receptive to what i had to say plus i like for shit to go my way. (mars in first house) and i dont hold my feelings in so i dont give nothing time to fester if i see it im on it and if its not dealt with i become uneasy jealous and suspicious. I told him how i felt in a nice way (been reading on better communication skills). But he always agrees to anything i say if i say it to him go goes , "yes baby i feel you" and tells me he loves me and consoles me then i feel all like i just made all this fuss for nothing and feel juvenile but he never undermines my feelings or anything so its so hard to stay mad at him #LoveThatAquariusCharm do you guys know what i mean. Im probably the only scorpio in the room so the intense emotion feeling s are not typically the average aquarius thing or is it? but even you guys know that you have this effect on people. not to mention my sun scorpio moon Libra and asc leo all usually by sign love aquarius men.

I always see scorpios and librans together as best friends and have always admired it

I think maybe you as a scorpio respond to his moon and his sexual energy as an aquarius lol??_.I don't think you should give him space??_.crush him with your massive scorpio vagina and give him something to think about??_.drown him in your juices so to speak and see how he well he breathes underwater, if he can't take it then you will definitely see the side in him that he's not showing, then you won't have to worry if he's into you or not

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I always see scorpios and librans together as best friends and have always admired it

I think maybe you as a scorpio respond to his moon and his sexual energy as an aquarius lol??_.I don't think you should give him space??_.crush him with your massive scorpio vagina and give him something to think about??_.drown him in your juices so to speak and see how he well he breathes underwater, if he can't take it then you will definitely see the side in him that he's not showing, then you won't have to worry if he's into you or not

it won't work...aquarians hate being dependent in any way. and as long as you don't fascinate his MIND, this is all it will be about...a vagina...i suppose women don't like that...water signs or not...

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eh maybe for YOU. but not for me. i'm co-dependent and married.

he's still a man, and sex is connected to the parts of the pleasure brain. you touch, feel, ect so take away those pleasure points then you have nothing but a man who had fallen off a horse and broke his spine.

Venus in aqua with a mars in scorpio is the worst. I mean how polar opposite. Must be hard.

Posted by GandalftheGrey
space is a chance for aquarius to watch porn without being disturbed or judged.

LOLOLOLOLOLOL

Posted by GandalftheGrey
space is a chance for aquarius to watch porn without being disturbed or judged.

+100000

Her: "Hey papi why u so distant I feels all lonely n stuff— :??("

Me: "Ain't no biggie sexy mami just need a lil space it's all." *jacks off to Tiffany Cappotelli's pics* (look her up man, hotz stuff!)