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Venus in Aquarius
What Venus in Aquarius Means for Romantic Relationships
Venus in Aquarius indicates a love style that values independence, friendship, and intellectual connection. Relationships are often unconventional and require freedom and mental stimulation. People with this placement seek partners who respect their individuality and share their progressive outlook. Understanding this can improve relationship dynamics and compatibility.
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The only venus aqua I know is pan sexual with the last partner being a LDR with a transgender person.
Posted by HappyCapper
The only venus aqua I know is pan sexual with the last partner being a LDR with a transgender person.
That's interesting
Posted by HappyCapper
The only venus aqua I know is pan sexual with the last partner being a LDR with a transgender person.That's interesting
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It is. I know how it sounds, but it's actually true.
Posted by HappyCapper
The only venus aqua I know is pan sexual with the last partner being a LDR with a transgender person.That's interesting
It is. I know how it sounds, but it's actually true.
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I believe you (:
My mom, bro and I are Venus in Aqua. We are picky as hell. We are superficial in that looks are a must. We must find our partner physically attractive. We have no problem being single until we find what we are looking for. I was single for 8 yrs after my ex because it took me this long to finally find that next guy that appealed to me. My mom is single as well after the lame Virgo she dated and will wait until someone of caliber shows up.
Posted by aquarius09
My mom, bro and I are Venus in Aqua. We are picky as hell. We are superficial in that looks are a must. We must find our partner physically attractive. We have no problem being single until we find what we are looking for. I was single for 8 yrs after my ex because it took me this long to finally find that next guy that appealed to me. My mom is single as well after the lame Virgo she dated and will wait until someone of caliber shows up.
Sounds exactly like myself. I like to connect mentally but I must first be physically attracted to the person. I'm so damn picky.
My ex was a Pisces with a Venus in Aquarius. He was really detached in the beginning, and then he became obsessive and clingy as the years passed. I couldn't take it anymore. He also constantly lied about small stupid things. He was a total doormat. I could tell him to jump off a bridge and he would do it. He used to flirt with women behind my back, and when I would call him out in it, he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. When I broke it off, he didn't try to chase after me or anything. He just let it go very easily. Thank God lol
Posted by thefierybull
My ex was a Pisces with a Venus in Aquarius. He was really detached in the beginning, and then he became obsessive and clingy as the years passed. I couldn't take it anymore. He also constantly lied about small stupid things. He was a total doormat. I could tell him to jump off a bridge and he would do it. He used to flirt with women behind my back, and when I would call him out in it, he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. When I broke it off, he didn't try to chase after me or anything. He just let it go very easily. Thank God lol
I can be detached too. Not clingy... I can get obsessive in my thoughts but not with the actual person if that makes sense lol
I can relate to feeling okay with being single until you have met the right person, however I would not say I am completely superficial or picky. For me feeling that special spark is the make it or break it for me. If I don't feel that, then I can't be with that person. I have friends (Leos) who will say "stick it out and just give it try" but I can tell almost immediately whether I want to be with someone or not (which can awaken my Aries moon).
When I do find someone that I feel that special spark with, I am very head over heels in love, passionate and affecrionate. The steroetype for Aqua Venus is that we are aloof or detached but I am not like that at all.
I am not fearful of committment or feel a great urge to feel free, BUT I also dont feel I need to be in a relationship. I am a romantic, so I do love being in love, pda is fine with me and I like to live up to my feminine aspect in relationships, so I enjoy a man who takes the lead.
Affectionate* sorry
Posted by malloryor
I can relate to feeling okay with being single until you have met the right person, however I would not say I am completely superficial or picky. For me feeling that special spark is the make it or break it for me. If I don't feel that, then I can't be with that person. I have friends (Leos) who will say "stick it out and just give it try" but I can tell almost immediately whether I want to be with someone or not (which can awaken my Aries moon).When I do find someone that I feel that special spark with, I am very head over heels in love, passionate and affecrionate. The steroetype for Aqua Venus is that we are aloof or detached but I am not like that at all.
I am not fearful of committment or feel a great urge to feel free, BUT I also dont feel I need to be in a relationship. I am a romantic, so I do love being in love, pda is fine with me and I like to live up to my feminine aspect in relationships, so I enjoy a man who takes the lead.
That's the word-spark . I need the spark or I know it's not going anywhere. I can pretty much immediately tell if "the spark" is there or not. I'm a closet romantic but don't like the overly mooshy stuff. I do find myself being detached at times. I need my personal space in romantic relationships. I don't like clingy types.
Oh & I LOVE my freedom.
Posted by thefierybull
My ex was a Pisces with a Venus in Aquarius. He was really detached in the beginning, and then he became obsessive and clingy as the years passed. I couldn't take it anymore. He also constantly lied about small stupid things. He was a total doormat. I could tell him to jump off a bridge and he would do it. He used to flirt with women behind my back, and when I would call him out in it, he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. When I broke it off, he didn't try to chase after me or anything. He just let it go very easily. Thank God lolI can be detached too. Not clingy... I can get obsessive in my thoughts but not with the actual person if that makes sense lol
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I'm not even really sure why he was so clingy. Majority of his placements were air placements. I was the one who begged for space, and he was the one who smothered me and would guilt trip me when I wanted space.
Posted by thefierybull
My ex was a Pisces with a Venus in Aquarius. He was really detached in the beginning, and then he became obsessive and clingy as the years passed. I couldn't take it anymore. He also constantly lied about small stupid things. He was a total doormat. I could tell him to jump off a bridge and he would do it. He used to flirt with women behind my back, and when I would call him out in it, he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. When I broke it off, he didn't try to chase after me or anything. He just let it go very easily. Thank God lolI can be detached too. Not clingy... I can get obsessive in my thoughts but not with the actual person if that makes sense lol
I'm not even really sure why he was so clingy. Majority of his placements were air placements. I was the one who begged for space, and he was the one who smothered me and would guilt trip me when I wanted space.
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Lol. maybe he doesnt know how he feels
My dad! 😄
Mom and dad are great buddies 🙂
Romance and stuff like that irritates him and he makes mockery of such things :p
Posted by thefierybull
My ex was a Pisces with a Venus in Aquarius. He was really detached in the beginning, and then he became obsessive and clingy as the years passed. I couldn't take it anymore. He also constantly lied about small stupid things. He was a total doormat. I could tell him to jump off a bridge and he would do it. He used to flirt with women behind my back, and when I would call him out in it, he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. When I broke it off, he didn't try to chase after me or anything. He just let it go very easily. Thank God lol
what was the rest of his chart? and his houses/aspects?
maybe his aqua venus sat in a water house.
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
that's very much my Capricorn mother in law, she just doesn't care about relationships.
but she has revealed that she has wished in the past for another man to be in her life, but she has never pursued it. she just hoped it would come to her, because she is not the type to pursue it.
in her later years she is comfortable with what she has acquired for herself, wealth and all the material things and her family that she loves.
she is aquarius venus/aquarius Jupiter.
Ive kissed lots of frogs, so, ye I suppose you can say I'm picky
Kissed lots of frogs meaning wrong men for me Š (just so no one takes it literally lol!)
Doh, read it wrong! I'm a Venus Aries, Aquarius moon. Got them mixed up! Apologies ðŸ‘
Posted by piscespoppy
Doh, read it wrong! I'm a Venus Aries, Aquarius moon. Got them mixed up! Apologies ðŸ‘
lol oh that's cool.
aquarius moon has a lot to do with your personal relationships.
EDIT - ohhh you kissed a lot of frogs??
that maybe your aries venus/sag mars going on.
it's the more "brave" and "risky" energies where they are not hesitant to try out kissing more frogs.
Aquarius venus women are
lol@ the aquairus mercury.
you are lucky. that's a GENIUS merc. lol and even better if it trines some of your planets.
Ellen Muth's mercury is very noticeable. Monotone, robotic, but guess what? She is in the GENIUS/MENSA group of high I.Q. individuals.
could it be her mercury aqua trining her stellium Libra planets?
she is dominant pisces with 4 planet personal planets there.
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
this makes me think venus in aquas arent that bad.. good job
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
I'd say this is Venus in Aqua perfectly described. I am the exact same way!
Posted by Nemilicious
Manipulation is something i abhor deeply and will not bow down to nor practice. I do not understand how entitled some people think they are. They can fuck right off my radar with that.
Yep! We don't suffer fools in silence or kindness.
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
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yup. All of this is true except I'm not as trusting going into any type of relationship like I use to be. I still am more trusting than most ppl at the beginning of any type of relationship until something is done to make me not trust you.
Posted by piscespoppy
Doh, read it wrong! I'm a Venus Aries, Aquarius moon. Got them mixed up! Apologies ðŸ‘
Haha no worries (:
Posted by Palerio
Aquarius venus women are
Oo La La
Posted by Vixen2
I have Aquarius venus & mercury. I've had 3 long term relationships. I'm a terrible at "dating"...I'm terrible at being "detached"...unless I don't love you anymore. I am highly attracted to smart and quirky men.
I'm very attracted to smart/quirky men myself. I can be detached in a relationship but still there if that makes sense. I'm in my own bubble but it doesn't mean I don't care
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
this makes me think venus in aquas arent that bad.. good job
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We really aren't that bad! Haha
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
I'd say this is Venus in Aqua perfectly described. I am the exact same way!
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Right?! She hit the nail on the head
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
I'd say this is Venus in Aqua perfectly described. I am the exact same way!
In general i think this placement has a bad reputation. Cold, aloof, frigid ...alas, how untrue. I find drama in relationships unbearable and toxic. Does not mean i will call it quits if we have an argument or ten fights for that matter. But i will pull the plug as soon as i know it is leading into a deep dark abyss. Not going there, sorry. Life has much more to offer than ego trips.
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I can get real cold if I am forced into being that way. No dark abyss for me either. Been there, done that. See ya later ! Lol
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Aspergers of affection
SPACE....
the new frontier...
i'm not attracted to "quirky" men at all.
I tried asking my husband next to me,
hey hubs, what type of personality are you—?
cause you don't seem quirky at all.
"i'm supposed to be, according to those tests, intuitive feely judgy whatever"
I added the whatever. lol
I don't want to ask him again.
but he's not quirky. just obsessive, compulsive whatever. lol
Posted by lisabethur8
I tried asking my husband next to me,hey hubs, what type of personality are you—?
cause you don't seem quirky at all.
"i'm supposed to be, according to those tests, intuitive feely judgy whatever"
I added the whatever. lol
I don't want to ask him again.
but he's not quirky. just obsessive, compulsive whatever. lol
That may be taken as quirky to some people lol
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Aspergers of affection
Are you an aqua Venus ?
Posted by lisabethur8
I tried asking my husband next to me,hey hubs, what type of personality are you—?
cause you don't seem quirky at all.
"i'm supposed to be, according to those tests, intuitive feely judgy whatever"
I added the whatever. lol
I don't want to ask him again.
but he's not quirky. just obsessive, compulsive whatever. lol
That may be taken as quirky to some people lol
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lol
perspective. yup.
Posted by Nemilicious
Manipulation is something i abhor deeply and will not bow down to nor practice. I do not understand how entitled some people think they are. They can fuck right off my radar with that.
Totally
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
this makes me think venus in aquas arent that bad.. good job
We really aren't that bad! Haha
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I just didnt really understand how this venus works. I couldnt really figure it out through people, so i looked online, and that didnt really make sense either. Like how you can love differences..? Do you just like the thought of equality rather than the person themselves? Then why date them? Venus is in aquarius...which means friendship.. soooo you like friends.. and would date a best friend..that you would like to fuck as well? I didnt really get it until I read this post. Now it makes a lot more sense and I can respect that
Posted by piscespoppy
Doh, read it wrong! I'm a Venus Aries, Aquarius moon. Got them mixed up! Apologies ðŸ‘lol oh that's cool.
aquarius moon has a lot to do with your personal relationships.
EDIT - ohhh you kissed a lot of frogs??
that maybe your aries venus/sag mars going on.
it's the more "brave" and "risky" energies where they are not hesitant to try out kissing more frogs.
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ye bit of a nightmare actually lol! High
Don't know where the 'high' bit came from !
Posted by Nemilicious
Venus in aqua here.My relationship patterns so far have been, that i attract dominant and controlling males. Which has always led to me breaking it off. I cannot cope with jealosy and people who want to bend and possess me. Never been jealous as i do not compete or compare myself to other people eg exes or other women. I trust 100% and loyalty is a pre-requirment, i guess some men cannot cope being treated like adults.
I would say that first and foremost i am true to myself and my values and if it does not work and matters are not compatible, i have no qualms in moving on.I do not chase or beg either and have no problems leading and living my own life. Romantic relationships are not a top priority in my life.
this makes me think venus in aquas arent that bad.. good job
We really aren't that bad! Haha
I just didnt really understand how this venus works. I couldnt really figure it out through people, so i looked online, and that didnt really make sense either. Like how you can love differences..? Do you just like the thought of equality rather than the person themselves? Then why date them? Venus is in aquarius...which means friendship.. soooo you like friends.. and would date a best friend..that you would like to fuck as well? I didnt really get it until I read this post. Now it makes a lot more sense and I can respect that
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Yes I want a best friend in a relationship I can sleep with too. Differences in people interest me in general. In a love relationship, it's almost like I have to be entertained a lot to keep my interest. I seem to find a lot of people I click with on a friendship basis but it's difficult to find friendship and romance combined. I get bored too easily lol
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Aspergers of affectionAre you an aqua Venus ?
I am. People either get me or they don't. Dating is weird. The feeling each other out part. Some people... we just click. To everyone else, I'm awkward AF.
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I feel you on this. If I feel myself getting awkward I usually retreat to loner status until I want to make an appearance again haha
Posted by Nemilicious
Manipulation is something i abhor deeply and will not bow down to nor practice. I do not understand how entitled some people think they are. They can fuck right off my radar with that.
Venus in Aquarius, I can not take head games. My mind doesn't work that way so it's hard for me to just understand why someone would do such a thing.
I can't stand the bad intentions either.... Like why are you around if it's not for a good cause?
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Aspergers of affectionAre you an aqua Venus ?
I am. People either get me or they don't. Dating is weird. The feeling each other out part. Some people... we just click. To everyone else, I'm awkward AF.
I feel you on this. If I feel myself getting awkward I usually retreat to loner status until I want to make an appearance again haha
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Me too... If it's not the initial sparks flying and stuff, I immediately might come off aloof. I genuinely don't like you lol. Like a little teasing and stuff is good, but if it's not there I'll basically not say too much.
I want someone who is like my best friend, like not just talking to me because I look good or have a lot of people trying to talk to me for the ego boost.... I need someone genuine, honesty, and charming... Easy on the eyes.
Posted by lisabethur8
I tried asking my husband next to me,hey hubs, what type of personality are you—?
cause you don't seem quirky at all.
"i'm supposed to be, according to those tests, intuitive feely judgy whatever"
I added the whatever. lol
I don't want to ask him again.
but he's not quirky. just obsessive, compulsive whatever. lol
That may be taken as quirky to some people lol
lol
perspective. yup.
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I'm compulsive, and obsessive also.. So this is true.
Posted by cheekyfaerie
Aspergers of affectionAre you an aqua Venus ?
I am. People either get me or they don't. Dating is weird. The feeling each other out part. Some people... we just click. To everyone else, I'm awkward AF.
I feel you on this. If I feel myself getting awkward I usually retreat to loner status until I want to make an appearance again haha
Me too... If it's not the initial sparks flying and stuff, I immediately might come off aloof. I genuinely don't like you lol. Like a little teasing and stuff is good, but if it's not there I'll basically not say too much.
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I come off aloof as well if there are zero sparks. I'll still talk but I'm not all the way there
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Does anyone else on here have a Venus in Aquarius? If so, I would like to hear about your romantic relationships.