Capricorn girl not interested?

Hello caps!

Im struggling a little bit on reading a capricorn lady I met 3 months ago and I need help.

We only dated 3 times and everything was pretty good. I invited her to the most luxurious restaurants/bars in my country and gently declined her offerings to split the bill (since well, she’s finishing her studies with a half job and im a very successful man) We have a lot in common and there was a lot of “from here to 20 years” chat, from ambitions to dreams (we didn't have sex and i didn't ask for it, only french kisses and hugs)

Now what’s making me struggle is:

1 - She’s “dating” someone (not a boyfriend yet, just someone she met on Happn 4 months ago and is not conformed with)

2 - Between every date there was a gigantic gap of silence if I didn't text her (seriously, there’s no way she will initiate, between the 2nd and 3rd date we spent 1 month without saying anything to each other because I never texted). If I text her, she will respond immediately.

3 - In one of the texts I sent (about how much I liked kissing her) she deviated the conversation.

4 - She canceled 2 of the dates and reprogrammed them for later with the excuse of “im on my finals” (which sounds like bs to me since finals don't last 3 months in my country) one of them was 2 days ago when I invited her to my apartment.

Any help? Im pretty confused.

Is this normal on Caps? Should I text her more often? (i don't want to look clingy or bother her while she’s studying/working)

Thanks and sorry if there’s any spelling mistakes.

For me I wont even go out with someone I dont like. I will be explicit in telling the other person, and go as far as upsetting a business associate. If she replies, goes for dates, I think she might just be considering how she feels.

Texting her more would be nice, at the rate u text if I were her I will be thinking u might see me out of convenience....

I am personally uncomfortable talking about kissing etc. I wouldn't know how to respond and would have changed the subject as well.

1) show her that you're the better man for her. Show her that you're the one who's more interested.

2. Initiate more, she's probably not the type to initiate and believes it's the mans job.

3. The kissing...she took it in a good way, she was just shy about it. That's why she deviated bcuz she didn't know how to respond. I guarantee you though, she loved hearing that. 🙂

4. The apartment... ok so she probably wasn't that confortable.going to your apartment alone just yet. Invite some of your friends there as well, so she can get to know you better. Perhaps after all the friends have left and she's gotten to know more about you, invite her to watch a movie and offer some cuddle time.

Stab in the dark.

She wants you to court her without all the sex talk?

She probably believes that the man should do the initiating. That shows her that youre really interested, that youre invested.

Dates shouldnt be at a dude's house. She probably finds that sleazy.

I agree with her. Im a Venus in Capricorn.

Alright then! will text more often. thank you all for your answers, will keep you posted if anything new happens