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Posted by Bumboklaat
Houses are about 50 or 40% of the significance of a chart
I have mainly 4th house placements with sun in 5th saving me then 2nd and 8th houses
Also have to look at AC/MC relation as not all people have them squared(typical) and youll see some end up with skewed x looking axis(AC/MC both in feminine or masculine)

Posted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPP
so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.
much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression
1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses
What house is your sun in?click to expand

Posted by Wizardz2
Virgo's charm is they are so self-absorbed. There's a containment there which makes people want to be close to you but also there's a coldness about you guys it's like you don't care about anyone except that one person who you obsess about 🤔 then you cause yourself some drama and talk about how complicated your life is and how weird you are and then you carry on being self-absorbed. You live in your own little world and it's intriguing and memorable to others


Posted by Timone
Astro.com and café astrology give me different houses. Which one is correct? 🤔

Posted by Wizardz2Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Wizardz2
Virgo's charm is they are so self-absorbed. There's a containment there which makes people want to be close to you but also there's a coldness about you guys it's like you don't care about anyone except that one person who you obsess about 🤔 then you cause yourself some drama and talk about how complicated your life is and how weird you are and then you carry on being self-absorbed. You live in your own little world and it's intriguing and memorable to others
if it's not gonna be useful to me then i feel like it's not 'necessary' to care. this is why sometimes i'm more recipient to things forced on me or forceful personalities coz i'm not gonna move much left to my own devices. one of my co-workers always thought i was stuck up but months went by and all i do is ask about work and he figured i just go there to work. these people dumb. it's a WORKPLACE what else you gonna do?
I know but you think differently, that's what makes you (Virgos) kind of adorable but then I have to remind myself not to get attached to someone who just moves on from one thing to another with no feelings whatsoever 😂
I'm not talking about you, as such, just a couple of Virgo women I know. They're both very attractive but they have this sort of childish mentality like how a child will be busy doing one thing and then move onto something else and completely forget the thing before, leaving people hanging sometimes, it can be cold to be on the end of. It's like they put everything in boxesclick to expand

Posted by Wizardz2Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Wizardz2Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Wizardz2
Virgo's charm is they are so self-absorbed. There's a containment there which makes people want to be close to you but also there's a coldness about you guys it's like you don't care about anyone except that one person who you obsess about 🤔 then you cause yourself some drama and talk about how complicated your life is and how weird you are and then you carry on being self-absorbed. You live in your own little world and it's intriguing and memorable to others
if it's not gonna be useful to me then i feel like it's not 'necessary' to care. this is why sometimes i'm more recipient to things forced on me or forceful personalities coz i'm not gonna move much left to my own devices. one of my co-workers always thought i was stuck up but months went by and all i do is ask about work and he figured i just go there to work. these people dumb. it's a WORKPLACE what else you gonna do?
I know but you think differently, that's what makes you (Virgos) kind of adorable but then I have to remind myself not to get attached to someone who just moves on from one thing to another with no feelings whatsoever 😂
I'm not talking about you, as such, just a couple of Virgo women I know. They're both very attractive but they have this sort of childish mentality like how a child will be busy doing one thing and then move onto something else and completely forget the thing before, leaving people hanging sometimes, it can be cold to be on the end of. It's like they put everything in boxes
even throughout all the drama in my life, most people do often mistake me for being cold. and aren't geminis survivalists? as mutables, we gotta keep it moving.
but kinda reminds me of this virgo kid in my apartment. he excitedly wants to buy some toy and won't shut up, tells me he's going to change his shirt and we can go to the store. almost half an hour later, i find this kid dressed and playing with the kitten from next door. i'm cool with it coz i can get flakey asf too.
I think the difference is that Gems have feelings all the time, it's just we're used to ignoring them because we know they come and go, one way and then the other, almost constantly.
Whereas you're like "why would I have feelings if they're not useful to me?"
That's pretty funny to me
I can choose not to acknowledge feelings but you just don't have them until you do and then it's like you're thrown around by them and have all the dramaclick to expand



Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Timone
Astro.com and café astrology give me different houses. Which one is correct? 🤔
let's ask @MyStarsShineclick to expand


Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPP
so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.
much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression
1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses
What house is your sun in?
"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."
BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.click to expand

Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPP
so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.
much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression
1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses
What house is your sun in?
"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."
BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.
Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.
It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.
In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.
1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.
With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.
That bring said what's your question or concern?click to expand

Posted by nanobotz
I don’t feel like I relate to my houses
I’ve got 4 planets in both the 11th and 6th house.
I have no friends, in fact easily disposing of the ones who are shady, users, liars, etc. I live a very solitary life these days. I don’t like large groups of people, seek others approval, or have a massive friend group to drawn strength from
I have no interest in the service of others, health, or daily routines. The 6th house seems boring and pointless as fuck. Sorry Virgos

Posted by WarAngel
I'm loaded in my 8th house, does that mean I think with my dick first?

Posted by Bumboklaat
Houses are about 50 or 40% of the significance of a chart
I have mainly 4th house placements with sun in 5th saving me then 2nd and 8th houses
Also have to look at AC/MC relation as not all people have them squared(typical) and youll see some end up with skewed x looking axis(AC/MC both in feminine or masculine)

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPP
so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.
much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression
1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses
What house is your sun in?
"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."
BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.
Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.
It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.
In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.
1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.
With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.
That bring said what's your question or concern?
i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.click to expand

Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPP
so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.
much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression
1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses
What house is your sun in?
"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."
BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.
Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.
It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.
In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.
1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.
With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.
That bring said what's your question or concern?
i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.
I have NN in first house so I've researched it extensively. I've got serious questions for you to think about.
What if I said to you that the impressions people get from you may not be the problem, rather the fact you don't want to meet thoughts expectations?
What if people see that potential in you but you just don't.
Think about it. How did you do in that position given to you? Was it a train wreck or did you get the job done?click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BumboklaatPosted by virgoOPPP
so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.
much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression
1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses
What house is your sun in?
"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."
BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.
Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.
It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.
In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.
1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.
With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.
That bring said what's your question or concern?
i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.
I have NN in first house so I've researched it extensively. I've got serious questions for you to think about.
What if I said to you that the impressions people get from you may not be the problem, rather the fact you don't want to meet thoughts expectations?
What if people see that potential in you but you just don't.
Think about it. How did you do in that position given to you? Was it a train wreck or did you get the job done?
i did okay but mostly coz i tend to just let everyone do whatever they want, but i help them out and make sure no one would be left behind but i'm not very good at asserting myself with the discipline aspect coz they get too loud sometimes. but good thing 2 others were elected too so i'm not alone (i'm 2nd in ranking among 3).
this is the most work expected of me from my experience. it's embarrassing to slack when people voted for you.
maybe you're right. i always think i'm too distant but this is not the first time i've been elected. i've read first house being about the self is also about appearance/image/identity so there must be something weird about me in this aspect.
often i probably don't know for sure how people see me. there have been times when i have alienated people at past workplaces but also times like this when i'm popular for some reason. it's very weird.click to expand
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much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.
one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.
my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.