Do you find 'astro houses' really weird?

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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.
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another example is my gemini aunt. she is a second houser. it is related to our personal finances, material possessions, and the concept of value. i'm telling you, huge amounts of money comes in and out of her hands. be this due to her own hard work, talent or at the expense of someone else, she will always always find a way to get her hands on them.

but she's weird.

i mean, there's something deeply weird about her and money. our family thinks it's a mental illness. for example, she gets into a relationship with a pisces man who i'd like to mention is LOADED. they've been together some years and our family thinks that she's finally a 'normal person.' they have a house and cats together. but one day, this guy calls us in a panic and claims she stole from him, locked him in their bedroom and disappeared. wtf? this pisces tells us she seems to be whispering to someone over the phone like in a trance before all that happened. again wtf?

our elders were like: "it's her mental illness and she was born during a natural catastrophe so the gods must've cursed her."

and i'm like: "nah, it's her second house."

but when i do dumb things, i make bad choices 🙄🙄
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Posted by Bumboklaat

Houses are about 50 or 40% of the significance of a chart

I have mainly 4th house placements with sun in 5th saving me then 2nd and 8th houses

Also have to look at AC/MC relation as not all people have them squared(typical) and youll see some end up with skewed x looking axis(AC/MC both in feminine or masculine)

another thing, i can be in a position of power in a professional/public setting. but in my personal life, i find myself very subservient. it's almost like my image can come off like a mix of unfriendly/stuck up (intimidating?). then people get to know me and i find myself getting taken advantage of coz they find out it's just passive energy. hate them all ngl.
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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.

I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression

1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses

What house is your sun in?
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"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."

BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.
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Virgo's charm is they are so self-absorbed. There's a containment there which makes people want to be close to you but also there's a coldness about you guys it's like you don't care about anyone except that one person who you obsess about 🤔 then you cause yourself some drama and talk about how complicated your life is and how weird you are and then you carry on being self-absorbed. You live in your own little world and it's intriguing and memorable to others


if it's not gonna be useful to me then i feel like it's not 'necessary' to care. this is why sometimes i'm more recipient to things forced on me or forceful personalities coz i'm not gonna move much left to my own devices. one of my co-workers always thought i was stuck up but months went by and all i do is ask about work and he figured i just go there to work. these people dumb. it's a WORKPLACE what else you gonna do?
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Virgo's charm is they are so self-absorbed. There's a containment there which makes people want to be close to you but also there's a coldness about you guys it's like you don't care about anyone except that one person who you obsess about 🤔 then you cause yourself some drama and talk about how complicated your life is and how weird you are and then you carry on being self-absorbed. You live in your own little world and it's intriguing and memorable to others

if it's not gonna be useful to me then i feel like it's not 'necessary' to care. this is why sometimes i'm more recipient to things forced on me or forceful personalities coz i'm not gonna move much left to my own devices. one of my co-workers always thought i was stuck up but months went by and all i do is ask about work and he figured i just go there to work. these people dumb. it's a WORKPLACE what else you gonna do?

I know but you think differently, that's what makes you (Virgos) kind of adorable but then I have to remind myself not to get attached to someone who just moves on from one thing to another with no feelings whatsoever 😂

I'm not talking about you, as such, just a couple of Virgo women I know. They're both very attractive but they have this sort of childish mentality like how a child will be busy doing one thing and then move onto something else and completely forget the thing before, leaving people hanging sometimes, it can be cold to be on the end of. It's like they put everything in boxes
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even throughout all the drama in my life, most people do often mistake me for being cold. and aren't geminis survivalists? as mutables, we gotta keep it moving.

but kinda reminds me of this virgo kid in my apartment. he excitedly wants to buy some toy and won't shut up, tells me he's going to change his shirt and we can go to the store. almost half an hour later, i find this kid dressed and playing with the kitten from next door. i'm cool with it coz i can get flakey asf too.
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Virgo's charm is they are so self-absorbed. There's a containment there which makes people want to be close to you but also there's a coldness about you guys it's like you don't care about anyone except that one person who you obsess about 🤔 then you cause yourself some drama and talk about how complicated your life is and how weird you are and then you carry on being self-absorbed. You live in your own little world and it's intriguing and memorable to others

if it's not gonna be useful to me then i feel like it's not 'necessary' to care. this is why sometimes i'm more recipient to things forced on me or forceful personalities coz i'm not gonna move much left to my own devices. one of my co-workers always thought i was stuck up but months went by and all i do is ask about work and he figured i just go there to work. these people dumb. it's a WORKPLACE what else you gonna do?

I know but you think differently, that's what makes you (Virgos) kind of adorable but then I have to remind myself not to get attached to someone who just moves on from one thing to another with no feelings whatsoever 😂

I'm not talking about you, as such, just a couple of Virgo women I know. They're both very attractive but they have this sort of childish mentality like how a child will be busy doing one thing and then move onto something else and completely forget the thing before, leaving people hanging sometimes, it can be cold to be on the end of. It's like they put everything in boxes

even throughout all the drama in my life, most people do often mistake me for being cold. and aren't geminis survivalists? as mutables, we gotta keep it moving.

but kinda reminds me of this virgo kid in my apartment. he excitedly wants to buy some toy and won't shut up, tells me he's going to change his shirt and we can go to the store. almost half an hour later, i find this kid dressed and playing with the kitten from next door. i'm cool with it coz i can get flakey asf too.

I think the difference is that Gems have feelings all the time, it's just we're used to ignoring them because we know they come and go, one way and then the other, almost constantly.

Whereas you're like "why would I have feelings if they're not useful to me?"

That's pretty funny to me

I can choose not to acknowledge feelings but you just don't have them until you do and then it's like you're thrown around by them and have all the drama
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i try not to give unnecessary things a chance to even start. but i've always suspected that part of the 'coldness' is coz i know it'd be very hard for me to handle these things later on. and as you can see, often i'm right.
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I’m a first houser and 12th house sun too.

I actually am very understanding, and a good listener. I do think about everything through the viewpoint of myself. It’s what I know. So I’ll explain things through how I know, experience typically. That’s a little irritating to some people I find. But, others actually are able to get it. Yes also a lot of self doubt ( and yes childhood played a big part), Everything seemed to be my fault until I made myself stronger. Including my 2nd marriage, until I did the work & the truth came out.

12th house yes so much soul searching, to learn to grow, to be better for a lot of reasons. Also to help relieve the doubts of the first house. And perhaps cuz it was hidden, this didn’t come out until later in life, when things had fallen apart and I found myself needing to climb out of a hole. Yes I take all the blame.. masochistic I suppose., but am learning to let the blame fall where it belongs.
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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.

I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression

1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses

What house is your sun in?

"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."

BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.
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Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.

It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.

In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.

1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.

With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.

That bring said what's your question or concern?
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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.

I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression

1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses

What house is your sun in?

"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."

BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.

Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.

It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.

In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.

1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.

With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.

That bring said what's your question or concern?
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i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.
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I don’t feel like I relate to my houses

I’ve got 4 planets in both the 11th and 6th house.

I have no friends, in fact easily disposing of the ones who are shady, users, liars, etc. I live a very solitary life these days. I don’t like large groups of people, seek others approval, or have a massive friend group to drawn strength from

I have no interest in the service of others, health, or daily routines. The 6th house seems boring and pointless as fuck. Sorry Virgos

i think virgo is the hermit in tarot
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Posted by Bumboklaat

Houses are about 50 or 40% of the significance of a chart

I have mainly 4th house placements with sun in 5th saving me then 2nd and 8th houses

Also have to look at AC/MC relation as not all people have them squared(typical) and youll see some end up with skewed x looking axis(AC/MC both in feminine or masculine)


Is it a bad thing that I only have planets in the 1st 5 houses 🧐?
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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.

I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression

1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses

What house is your sun in?

"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."

BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.

Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.

It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.

In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.

1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.

With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.

That bring said what's your question or concern?



i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.
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I have NN in first house so I've researched it extensively. I've got serious questions for you to think about.

What if I said to you that the impressions people get from you may not be the problem, rather the fact you don't want to meet thoughts expectations?

What if people see that potential in you but you just don't.

Think about it. How did you do in that position given to you? Was it a train wreck or did you get the job done?
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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.

I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression

1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses

What house is your sun in?

"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."

BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.

Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.

It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.

In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.

1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.

With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.

That bring said what's your question or concern?

i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.

I have NN in first house so I've researched it extensively. I've got serious questions for you to think about.

What if I said to you that the impressions people get from you may not be the problem, rather the fact you don't want to meet thoughts expectations?

What if people see that potential in you but you just don't.

Think about it. How did you do in that position given to you? Was it a train wreck or did you get the job done?
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i did okay but mostly coz i tend to just let everyone do whatever they want, but i help them out and make sure no one would be left behind but i'm not very good at asserting myself with the discipline aspect coz they get too loud sometimes. but good thing 2 others were elected too so i'm not alone (i'm 2nd in ranking among 3).

this is the most work expected of me from my experience. it's embarrassing to slack when people voted for you.

maybe you're right. i always think i'm too distant but this is not the first time i've been elected. i've read first house being about the self is also about appearance/image/identity so there must be something weird about me in this aspect.

often i probably don't know for sure how people see me. there have been times when i have alienated people at past workplaces but also times like this when i'm popular for some reason. it's very weird.
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so i'm a first houser which is associated with the long shadow of childhood, self-absorption and a 'larger than life' vibe which is common to all fire houses. there's a focus on the self which is absolutely true for me. nobody can talk about their personal circumstances more than me. but it says here too your 'issues' will come from your dominant house.

much as i like to think my childhood was perfect, it affected a lot of my future relationships negatively. it blinded me from recognizing sinking ships. my self-absorption made me appear distant at work and alienates most co-workers. but oddly enough, people tend to remember me. i've been elected various times in positions of leadership and i suspect that it's not out of any personal virtue (i'm usually lazy and unmotivated), but simply coz people tend to remember me. hell i made a throwaway reddit account a time or two just to test my theories out and people always recognize me. naturally, i don't remember people often coz you guessed it, i was too immersed in myself and my issues.

one of my co-workers was gossiping about someone and all i can think about was if i should dye my hair rose gold or pink.

my point is, it's like it gives you all the qualities of that house but it mostly works AGAINST you.

I get along with 1st housers (especially sun) cause theyre direct and simple in expression

1st 5th and 9th are the fire houses

What house is your sun in?

"The Sun is in hiding in your 12th house, and I will wager you will not feel like being a party animal. You will most likely find yourself doing a great deal of soul searching, as this is the house of doubts and worries, the 12th house of the chart is a germination period. The 12th house Sun will make you more reclusive."

BUT both my mercury (thoughts) and mars (actions) are on there which i think makes me straightforward in expression but my personality not so much coz virgo and sun just can't be 'at home' in the 12th.

Not quite. 12th house is the karmic house. It's where things get fished out to you for your shit or others through you without you being aware of it.

It's like if you were a bank teller and the robber forgot to tell you to step away from the counter in the plan do naturally you would be the one to hit the panic button. Or forgot to cover a tattoo completely and being good at details you catch it while most wouldn't.

In general unless you F'up, 12th house isn't about you.

1st house is about impressions. How you come off by default without any information.

With expressions of the archetypes being a spectrum, be careful what interpretations you absorb. It's best to read many interpitations and use it for self reflect rather than gospel.

That bring said what's your question or concern?

i feel like house dominants are more like challenges? are they? astro writers seem to agree that we will be preoccupied with them, calls them issues. but not really outright challenges or problems.

I have NN in first house so I've researched it extensively. I've got serious questions for you to think about.

What if I said to you that the impressions people get from you may not be the problem, rather the fact you don't want to meet thoughts expectations?

What if people see that potential in you but you just don't.

Think about it. How did you do in that position given to you? Was it a train wreck or did you get the job done?

i did okay but mostly coz i tend to just let everyone do whatever they want, but i help them out and make sure no one would be left behind but i'm not very good at asserting myself with the discipline aspect coz they get too loud sometimes. but good thing 2 others were elected too so i'm not alone (i'm 2nd in ranking among 3).

this is the most work expected of me from my experience. it's embarrassing to slack when people voted for you.

maybe you're right. i always think i'm too distant but this is not the first time i've been elected. i've read first house being about the self is also about appearance/image/identity so there must be something weird about me in this aspect.

often i probably don't know for sure how people see me. there have been times when i have alienated people at past workplaces but also times like this when i'm popular for some reason. it's very weird.
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Did you know there are different management/leadership style s?

"help them out and make sure no one would be left behind"

Sounds like to me, you may lean towards the organizer style . Not saying you shouldn't work on improving in other areas, there is always room for improvement right?

It's just organizer may come more natural to you. Which is a critical skill for management/leadership. After all you can't do everything yourself and rely on others doing there part more often than not.