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Posted by bmoon8
Why the Scorpio forum? Is this only for Scorpios? I have Pluto Opposition Mercury in my chart and relate. My Libra moon gets blamed on Dxpnet, lol! But that shit is in the 8th house conjunct Pluto. Pluto makes contact with all my personal planets except my Sun. I am not sure what my most overlooked aspect/astrological influence is? Saturn in 7th house in my chart probably is?


Posted by bmoon8Posted by bmoon8
I need to post the rest of that article. Let me reach out to Jeff on Sasstrology. I’ll be back.
Jeff always comes through.
Saturn represents structure and permanence. The downside of this is that Saturn can introduce fear or lack of confidence where it sits in your chart, turning this structure into rigidity. In the 7th House, this rigidity can cause you to avoid relationships or enter into them with emotional armor. And it’s tough to get past because it’s such a powerful planet. But there’s a way to deal with this.
Saturn signifies responsibility for your actions. Saturn is actually exalted (functions really well) in Libra, the natural ruler of the 7th House. Once you understand this, it becomes clear that the key to dealing with Saturn is to take responsibility for creating your own relationships. The 7th House represents your own, usually unacknowledged, qualities that you project onto someone else. If you think about what you admire in a partner, it’s not too big a leap to understand that these are the qualities that you would like to see in yourself. Guess what? They’re already there.
Edit: This is not the entire article, but a good portion of it. She gives examples of signs in the 7th house, but none pertain to me. 🤷🏻♀️click to expand

Posted by bmoon8Posted by Dastard2020Posted by bmoon8
Why the Scorpio forum? Is this only for Scorpios? I have Pluto Opposition Mercury in my chart and relate. My Libra moon gets blamed on Dxpnet, lol! But that shit is in the 8th house conjunct Pluto. Pluto makes contact with all my personal planets except my Sun. I am not sure what my most overlooked aspect/astrological influence is? Saturn in 7th house in my chart probably is?
Wrong forum, lol. I meant to post it on the astrology forum.
It makes sense and I think I can sort of see that Mercury/Pluto influence in you.
Like you exposing BS publicly and tons of people just playing devil advocate, demonizing you for your delivery. Failing to take into consideration that you had a very valid point and were taking a different approach to an issue that's been deal with in the same manner by others but never resolved. I think oppositions sometimes get projected and appear to the native in the form of other people and situations.
As for your Moon being in the 8th House and conjunct Pluto. I honestly think that completely changes the very nature and natural expression of the Libra Moon. That's not a regular Libra Moon but a straight up Hades Moon on steroids. I mean the Moon is such a sensitive and receptive planet and Pluto and the 8th House are so overpowering, overwhelming and abysmal. My uncle has a Gemini Moon exactly trine Pluto within a 0 degree orb and his behavior sometimes resembles that of a Scorpio Moon. I can only imagine what a Moon/Pluto conjunction in the 8th House must be like . . . The influence must be inescapable.
I am just glad the Hades moon is in Libra and not Scorpio. I think it would be a little too much if in Scorpio even though Aries Sun carries that moon well.click to expand


Posted by bmoon8Posted by Dastard2020Posted by bmoon8Posted by bmoon8
I need to post the rest of that article. Let me reach out to Jeff on Sasstrology. I’ll be back.
Jeff always comes through.
Saturn represents structure and permanence. The downside of this is that Saturn can introduce fear or lack of confidence where it sits in your chart, turning this structure into rigidity. In the 7th House, this rigidity can cause you to avoid relationships or enter into them with emotional armor. And it’s tough to get past because it’s such a powerful planet. But there’s a way to deal with this.
Saturn signifies responsibility for your actions. Saturn is actually exalted (functions really well) in Libra, the natural ruler of the 7th House. Once you understand this, it becomes clear that the key to dealing with Saturn is to take responsibility for creating your own relationships. The 7th House represents your own, usually unacknowledged, qualities that you project onto someone else. If you think about what you admire in a partner, it’s not too big a leap to understand that these are the qualities that you would like to see in yourself. Guess what? They’re already there.
Edit: This is not the entire article, but a good portion of it. She gives examples of signs in the 7th house, but none pertain to me. 🤷🏻♀️
That's an awesome Saturn position. It has accidental and essential dignity. Exaltation in this case. I once read (can't remember the source) that Saturn represents an area where we have the potential to master completely if we work hard and diligently to develop and improve those areas.
Yea, the 7th House involves a lot of projection and most of the times it's not always obvious that a person already has those qualities. I do find it very interesting that you have Saturn in the 7th House because your Ascendant is in Capricorn so you must definitely already have and express those qualities upfront. I would imagine that having Saturn as the chart ruler and also having it in Libra and the 7th House would make someone first come off as cordial, pleasant but with a professional, business-like approach.
My Saturn in Gemini only has accidental dignity (in the 11th House). It's always been hard for me to be a team player because of the intense contempt I've felt towards popular ideas, herd mentality, echo chambers, peer pressure, conformity. Whenever I was in a group of people and they were feeding each other bullshit and indoctrinating one another I'd always point out the uncomfortable truth and kill the vibe of the group. In a sense I was always being Saturn in most group settings, acting as a wet blanket.
I've learned that most people not only don't like the truth, but they don't want to be set free by it. They just want to feel good even if that's based on made up BS. Nowadays I just let them be without absorbing or internalizing their ideas and simply enjoy the positive vibes of the group. Being more friendly and not taking ideas too seriously has paid off for me.
Do you remember @hollyhock_ ? Her chart was not that great. Most of her planets were in Libra in the 8th house and she also had Saturn in the 7th house. She was depressed about it. She was thinking that she would get with someone in her 50’s and he would be in his 70’s... then she said that he would die on her. Lmfao 🤣
I like the placement and am glad I did not marry before my Saturn Return. *knock the hell on wood* My twin also did not marry before her Saturn Return. She was in 10 year relationship before she tied the knot with him.click to expand




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I need to post the rest of that article. Let me reach out to Jeff on Sasstrology. I’ll be back.
Jeff always comes through.
Saturn represents structure and permanence. The downside of this is that Saturn can introduce fear or lack of confidence where it sits in your chart, turning this structure into rigidity. In the 7th House, this rigidity can cause you to avoid relationships or enter into them with emotional armor. And it’s tough to get past because it’s such a powerful planet. But there’s a way to deal with this.
Saturn signifies responsibility for your actions. Saturn is actually exalted (functions really well) in Libra, the natural ruler of the 7th House. Once you understand this, it becomes clear that the key to dealing with Saturn is to take responsibility for creating your own relationships. The 7th House represents your own, usually unacknowledged, qualities that you project onto someone else. If you think about what you admire in a partner, it’s not too big a leap to understand that these are the qualities that you would like to see in yourself. Guess what? They’re already there.
Edit: This is not the entire article, but a good portion of it. She gives examples of signs in the 7th house, but none pertain to me. 🤷🏻♀️
That's an awesome Saturn position. It has accidental and essential dignity. Exaltation in this case. I once read (can't remember the source) that Saturn represents an area where we have the potential to master completely if we work hard and diligently to develop and improve those areas.
Yea, the 7th House involves a lot of projection and most of the times it's not always obvious that a person already has those qualities. I do find it very interesting that you have Saturn in the 7th House because your Ascendant is in Capricorn so you must definitely already have and express those qualities upfront. I would imagine that having Saturn as the chart ruler and also having it in Libra and the 7th House would make someone first come off as cordial, pleasant but with a professional, business-like approach.
My Saturn in Gemini only has accidental dignity (in the 11th House). It's always been hard for me to be a team player because of the intense contempt I've felt towards popular ideas, herd mentality, echo chambers, peer pressure, conformity. Whenever I was in a group of people and they were feeding each other bullshit and indoctrinating one another I'd always point out the uncomfortable truth and kill the vibe of the group. In a sense I was always being Saturn in most group settings, acting as a wet blanket.
I've learned that most people not only don't like the truth, but they don't want to be set free by it. They just want to feel good even if that's based on made up BS. Nowadays I just let them be without absorbing or internalizing their ideas and simply enjoy the positive vibes of the group. Being more friendly and not taking ideas too seriously has paid off for me.
Do you remember @hollyhock_ ? Her chart was not that great. Most of her planets were in Libra in the 8th house and she also had Saturn in the 7th house. She was depressed about it. She was thinking that she would get with someone in her 50’s and he would be in his 70’s... then she said that he would die on her. Lmfao 🤣
I like the placement and am glad I did not marry before my Saturn Return. *knock the hell on wood* My twin also did not marry before her Saturn Return. She was in 10 year relationship before she tied the knot with him.
Saturn capricorn in the 7th here along with uranus, neptune and mercurt.. and i married before saturn return.. let's just say lesson learned 😆
Just got out of saturn return, let's just say the things i went through during SR was enlightening 😆
It says it all over for Saturn in 7th house - “do not marry before Saturn Return”. 😂
My Saturn Return was quite liberating and I felt a sense of freedom after a long term serious relationship ended. Pretty sure ol planet of Father Time/karma broke that shit apart. 🙌
Ikr 🤣 i wish i had known astrology when i was wayy younger 🤣
What about getting married during saturn return? My cousin got married during her saturn return with a man she just know for like months.. i told her to wait, afraid she's being disillusioned by her neptune in the 7th too.. but shes stubborn 🤣 her placement is like mine, saturn, uranus, neptune in the 7th 😅
Mine was liberating and interesting too.. i met few mirrors. They helped me to see me, some in a good way and some not in a nice way. But it was a very interesting experience that taught me a lot about myself.
She made a mistake getting married to someone she barely knew. It may last for a while, but the 7 year itch may set in or something similar.
https://sasstrology.com/2011/06/uranus-and-the-7-year-itch.html
If you can’t see some of that article, please let me know.
Yes, Saturn in 7th house is like the anchor in a relationship if someone has it in their natal. You are the “rock”. Obligations, duties in a relationship etc are of no problem.
I just remember feeling freedom after my Saturn Return even though I had to deal with bullshit of having all resources tied together.
Lol, my itch is less than 7 years 😅🤣 she's been learning a lot about grounding, hopefully that'll help her with her itches 😅
Can you please explain what this means? I dont quiet get itYes, Saturn in 7th house is like the anchor in a relationship if someone has it in their natal. You are the “rock”. Obligations, duties in a relationship etc are of no problem.
Yes I remember you talked about it when we were talking about south node. So the separation happens during your SR?
Yes, it did. Thank you Saturn.
Or it could be the other way around where her husband gets the itch.
By being the anchor in the relationship, I mean that you are the anchor person in the relationship - someone they confide in and have a lot of trust in. Someone who provides stability and strength. You are basically the other person’s rock.
Oh ok. That should be easy. I tend to be like that in a long term relationship. But moving forward from short term to long term is what i find the hardest. Because trust, empathy and loyalty is involved lol.. im not talking about faithfulness, it's the loyalty that im seeking.
I like what you wrote about entering relationships with emotional armour, that's exactly how i am 😆
For clarification, I did not write the emotional armour bit. An astrologer, Nadia Gilchrest, did. Don’t want it to seem like I am plagiarizing. I just copied/pasted it from the article. It is true, though...
What sign is your Saturn in?
Haha ok got it. It is indeed very true.
My saturn is in cap, 7th house with uranus, neptune and mercury 🤪🤣
Yours is in cancer, correct?
Oh okay, got it. My Saturn is in Leo. Was just wondering because she wrote about certain signs that Saturn is in and how it effects you. Our signs were not written about.. dammit.click to expand
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Mine is Mercury conjunct Pluto. I think people just assume I must have a relatively unaspected Mercury in Sagittarius and blame or credit my Scorpio Moon for almost everything. People with Mercury/Pluto aspects are naturally skeptical and distrustful yet intensely curious. Our minds are naturally drawn to investigate and uncover all sorts of secret information and hidden motivations. Even if someone approaches us with highly and skillfully concealed BS we will smell it and take that person down the rabbit hole of whatever subject they are BSing us about until the BS gets exposed and then beat that person over the head with a truth stick.