NostalgicCappy
@NostalgicCappyy
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When To Ask The Birthday Info
"I'm into astrology, what's your dob, I need to confirm you're not a total psycho..."
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When the subject comes up. And that could be anywhere from a week to a whole year or never. But I can't just up and ask for birth details. That's gonna make the person you conversing with feel uncomfortable and suspicious about you.
Posted by Cachet
I usually just come right out and ask. The longest I've waited was probably three weeks. I think. It might be less, though.
If he's not into astrology, I make a joke about it, and just say that I don't care if he's not into it, he can roll his eyes if he wants to but I wanna know the deets.
With one guy, I told him I would read his chart and he could tell me if he related to anything. So, he would get something out of it. Turned out to be fun for him.
I like the way you go about it. 🙂
Posted by Basorexia
"I'm into astrology, what's your dob, I need to confirm you're not a total psycho..."
You got this. ✌️
Thank you, Basorexia. 🙂
I do need to take a more relaxed attitude about it.
Posted by HighAnds
Bday you can straight up ask ASAP
Birth TIME is when it might start to sound creepy
Thank you Ands, it’s good to see you. I hope all is well.
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
When the subject comes up. And that could be anywhere from a week to a whole year or never. But I can't just up and ask for birth details. That's gonna make the person you conversing with feel uncomfortable and suspicious about you.
Thank you Cuteboy- He’s a Gemini like you. I appreciate your answer. I don’t see this guy bringing it up at all, but I hope I’m wrong about that.
Posted by Erin
I just ask when I am curious but I almost never ask the birth time and place because I worry he will think I am a stalker doing a background check or something.
I'm just like: "My birthday is July 16th, when is yours?". That's the least awkward way to ask.
Thank you for your answer Erin. 🙂
This seems like the easiest way, and to the point.
Posted by Vicktoria
When you see him again look over at something in the room- a child, a plant, lol and say "Omg, that reminds me of my mom's story when I was born!" Be creative, share details of your birthday including the time of birth and make the story interesting.
Hopefully, he'll chime in and give you details of his.
Omg, I love the Grinch.
Thank you Vicktoria. I like your way too, actually. 🙂
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
When the subject comes up. And that could be anywhere from a week to a whole year or never. But I can't just up and ask for birth details. That's gonna make the person you conversing with feel uncomfortable and suspicious about you.
Thank you Cuteboy- He’s a Gemini like you. I appreciate your answer. I don’t see this guy bringing it up at all, but I hope I’m wrong about that.click to expand
I find that Gemini women bring this thing up a lot. Especially when Gemini season is upon us. They does it with me and that's how it all lead up to. Gemini women talk so much they don't give me no time to talk back to them about our sign. I'm like this
when they blab. If you wait for a Gemini man to bring it up best of luck.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
When the subject comes up. And that could be anywhere from a week to a whole year or never. But I can't just up and ask for birth details. That's gonna make the person you conversing with feel uncomfortable and suspicious about you.
Thank you Cuteboy- He’s a Gemini like you. I appreciate your answer. I don’t see this guy bringing it up at all, but I hope I’m wrong about that.
I find that Gemini women bring this thing up a lot. Especially when Gemini season is upon us. They does it with me and that's how it all lead up to. Gemini women talk so much they don't give me no time to talk back to them about our sign. I'm like this
If you wait for a Gemini man to bring it up best of luck.click to expand
That picture is hilarious, made me laugh.
That is not the best news, but I think I will gently bring it up one of these days soon. It’s better to not waste my time, I think. He might not like me because I’m into Astrology, the Metaphysical and Esoteric, so I should probably get that out of the way.
Do you guys (Gemini men) care too much about having different interests than your person?
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
When the subject comes up. And that could be anywhere from a week to a whole year or never. But I can't just up and ask for birth details. That's gonna make the person you conversing with feel uncomfortable and suspicious about you.
Thank you Cuteboy- He’s a Gemini like you. I appreciate your answer. I don’t see this guy bringing it up at all, but I hope I’m wrong about that.
I find that Gemini women bring this thing up a lot. Especially when Gemini season is upon us. They does it with me and that's how it all lead up to. Gemini women talk so much they don't give me no time to talk back to them about our sign. I'm like this
If you wait for a Gemini man to bring it up best of luck.
That picture is hilarious, made me laugh.
That is not the best news, but I think I will gently bring it up one of these days soon. It’s better to not waste my time, I think. He might not like me because I’m into Astrology, the Metaphysical and Esoteric, so I should probably get that out of the way.
Do you guys (Gemini men) care too much about having different interests than your person?click to expand
To be completely honest with you I can't speak for all Gemini men I can only speak for myself as all Gemini men are different. I love talking about astrology but with the right person. Me and my Pisces bestie talk about it all the time. She's not that deep into it like I am cus she only go by sun sign in every aspect of her life. Two or more Geminis getting together on something is actually not a good idea. A whole lotta blabbing gone be going on and somebody not gonna get a word in. This is why its best for me to talk astrology with the right person and with the right sign.
Um like I got a question. How do you know this dude is a Gemini? If you know he's a Gemini it seem to me like yall've talked about birthdays already.
Don’t ask. Use www.mylife.com
Posted by VicktoriaPosted by pinkbird03
Don’t ask. Use www.mylife.com
There's never a time of birth, a lot of them are inaccurate or don't list the birth date.click to expand
For me the birthday is always the accurate part. The rest is questionable
Posted by NostalgicCappyy
I know this has been asked before, but I don’t know where that post is.
When do you guys and girls ask a new person you’re talking to, for their date of birth details? I’ve never had an issue with this, but now I’m in uncharted territory. I really am curious about this guy’s chart though.
How long should I wait? He doesn’t seem to be into Astrology, but I don’t know.
It’s actually none of your business until that person wants you to know any of their birth details.
Posted by jukey
Steer the conversation with relevant remarks and questions and see if they take the bait. Listening when they drop hints like someone's birthday in relation to theirs or simply their age which narrows down the outer planets. But don't overdo it; they'll more likely divulge on their own time when they're comfortable. In the mean time, have fun making educated guesses based on what you know and your intuition. That's really the best part.
Thank you for this, Jukey.
Posted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by Jumpin_Jupiter
When the subject comes up. And that could be anywhere from a week to a whole year or never. But I can't just up and ask for birth details. That's gonna make the person you conversing with feel uncomfortable and suspicious about you.
Thank you Cuteboy- He’s a Gemini like you. I appreciate your answer. I don’t see this guy bringing it up at all, but I hope I’m wrong about that.
I find that Gemini women bring this thing up a lot. Especially when Gemini season is upon us. They does it with me and that's how it all lead up to. Gemini women talk so much they don't give me no time to talk back to them about our sign. I'm like this
If you wait for a Gemini man to bring it up best of luck.
That picture is hilarious, made me laugh.
That is not the best news, but I think I will gently bring it up one of these days soon. It’s better to not waste my time, I think. He might not like me because I’m into Astrology, the Metaphysical and Esoteric, so I should probably get that out of the way.
Do you guys (Gemini men) care too much about having different interests than your person?
To be completely honest with you I can't speak for all Gemini men I can only speak for myself as all Gemini men are different. I love talking about astrology but with the right person. Me and my Pisces bestie talk about it all the time. She's not that deep into it like I am cus she only go by sun sign in every aspect of her life. Two or more Geminis getting together on something is actually not a good idea. A whole lotta blabbing gone be going on and somebody not gonna get a word in. This is why its best for me to talk astrology with the right person and with the right sign.
Um like I got a question. How do you know this dude is a Gemini? If you know he's a Gemini it seem to me like yall've talked about birthdays already.click to expand
I know how you feel. I only feel comfortable talking about Astrology with like minded people.
I only know he’s a Gemini, because it’s listed on his profile page. But, that is an automatic setting when making an account.
Posted by black773Posted by NostalgicCappyy
I know this has been asked before, but I don’t know where that post is.
When do you guys and girls ask a new person you’re talking to, for their date of birth details? I’ve never had an issue with this, but now I’m in uncharted territory. I really am curious about this guy’s chart though.
How long should I wait? He doesn’t seem to be into Astrology, but I don’t know.
It’s actually none of your business until that person wants you to know any of their birth details.click to expand
I actually didn’t ask if it was my business, or not. Nothing about him, is my business. That doesn’t mean that I can’t ask though.
Posted by pinkbird03
Don’t ask. Use www.mylife.com
Thank you for the suggestion, pinkbird.
Posted by CancerAquaSagg
Once i asked too soon the guy thought I was a witch lol. He got really weird after that since he was religious I understand but astro is not witchcraft.
Usually I ask right away it's just a birth day but for the birth time I ask later 😉
Thank you, CancerAquaSagg. 🙂
This helps to put it into perspective even more.
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by black773Posted by NostalgicCappyy
I know this has been asked before, but I don’t know where that post is.
When do you guys and girls ask a new person you’re talking to, for their date of birth details? I’ve never had an issue with this, but now I’m in uncharted territory. I really am curious about this guy’s chart though.
How long should I wait? He doesn’t seem to be into Astrology, but I don’t know.
It’s actually none of your business until that person wants you to know any of their birth details.
I actually didn’t ask if it was my business, or not. Nothing about him, is my business. That doesn’t mean that I can’t ask though.click to expand
It’s not your business. Nothing about him is your business.
Posted by black773Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by black773Posted by NostalgicCappyy
I know this has been asked before, but I don’t know where that post is.
When do you guys and girls ask a new person you’re talking to, for their date of birth details? I’ve never had an issue with this, but now I’m in uncharted territory. I really am curious about this guy’s chart though.
How long should I wait? He doesn’t seem to be into Astrology, but I don’t know.
It’s actually none of your business until that person wants you to know any of their birth details.
I actually didn’t ask if it was my business, or not. Nothing about him, is my business. That doesn’t mean that I can’t ask though.
It’s not your business. Nothing about him is your business.click to expand
You Seem to have some level of intelligence from your posts, however I think you need to re-read what I just said. You basically repeated what I said myself....
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by black773Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by black773Posted by NostalgicCappyy
I know this has been asked before, but I don’t know where that post is.
When do you guys and girls ask a new person you’re talking to, for their date of birth details? I’ve never had an issue with this, but now I’m in uncharted territory. I really am curious about this guy’s chart though.
How long should I wait? He doesn’t seem to be into Astrology, but I don’t know.
It’s actually none of your business until that person wants you to know any of their birth details.
I actually didn’t ask if it was my business, or not. Nothing about him, is my business. That doesn’t mean that I can’t ask though.
It’s not your business. Nothing about him is your business.
You Seem to have some level of intelligence from your posts, however I think you need to re-read what I just said. You basically repeated what I said myself....click to expand
I know I repeated what you said.
If it's true love astro signs would just be an afterthought. But if it's just a random chick from the bar I will ask fairly soon to adjust my strategy to seal the deal.
Posted by G6Posted by NostalgicCappyy
Do you guys (Gemini men) care too much about having different interests than your person?
Yes, they care about having different interests than others, but in a good way. They're open minded and also very curious.click to expand
G6- Thank you kindly. This is the most encouraging thing I could read right now. I don’t feel like I can be myself, if I can’t.... be myself.
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When do you guys and girls ask a new person you’re talking to, for their date of birth details? I’ve never had an issue with this, but now I’m in uncharted territory. I really am curious about this guy’s chart though.
How long should I wait? He doesn’t seem to be into Astrology, but I don’t know.