Depression

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Winters12 on Wednesday, September 23, 2020 and has 2 replies.

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@Winters12
6 Years

Hi gems

Just want to ask a question from a Gemini’s perspective? I properly already have the answer to however my partner had moved into a new house and wants everything decorated straight away she has had a lot of pressure on her with having to move jobs due to work relationships breaking down and she has two younger children to also look after I.e. school run and pick ups and also working in between that she seems very distant at the moment not wanting to be close to me or intimate when I try too I know I also do nag her sometimes as she has said I just want to share the responsibility’s with you however we do not live together I can see she is feeling very depressed she has had to change over all her bills addresses like for her car and everything else etc that comes with moving and then today she went on to talk about having her hair done again when she only had it done about 2months ago I just want to show her a different side so she can be happy and not so stressed what could I do to help as right now I don’t know what’s going on sometimes I do listen to her and I have helped her decorate and move all her stuff and put all her garden stuff together but when I ask her for our time together her heads not init at all but maybe I haven’t been so supportive is there anything I should be worried about ?

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@Winters12
6 Years

It’s easier said than done as she’s quite a fair person in a lot of respect and she is a lovely person it’s Hard to explain everything that goes on over message .

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Just give it some time for her to adjust to her move and new job and get her balance back with her routine and kiddos. Be supportive as you have been doing. But not overbearing.