Hi guys, what do you think of this bright spark idea that came into my head recently? I think I was just casting my mind back to this and that and eventually it touched on the time, almost 2 years ago, that I got the train up to Galway to meet my friend. He happened to have his cousin with him and I remember I thought he was a really nice and quite attractive but that's as far as I went with it as I was going out with my ex boyfriend at the time.
So anyway I'm thinking about him and the train of thought progresses to me wondering what he's doing now, is he going out with anyone now, I'd like to see him again. It happens that I saw my friend a few days ago and he mentioned his cousin in passing. I should've taken the opportunity then to ask him about this guy in more detail but I felt slightly unsure about this so ended up saying nothing much in response when his name was mentioned.
Anyway I told a friend about it and she said that we all spend too much time worry about what others may think and thus let a lot of opportunities go by. This gave my courage a bit of a boost so I sent this man an email (I had his email address in a group email that my friend had sent a while back). But it got bounced back rpesumably because the email address is now defunct. So....I'm now wondering should I just ask my friend to give me his cousin's current email address so I can say "hi" to him.
Or is this whole idea just bordering on mild Aquarian lunacy?
Thanks guys, they're the kinda responses I was hoping for 🙂
I guess it doesn't sound so crazy considering it objectively. It's just when I think of doing it I feel kinda shy and tentative. I remember talking with him that day we met and he was telling me he's a Cancer?Leo cusp. When I asked which does he feel he really is, he replied Cancer as he's kinda sensitive.
But d'you know I've got capricorn merc and venus and taurus moon and rising and I kinda prefer the quiet type man over the wild and zaney guy 99 times out 100.
My imagination's going a bit turbo now, probably cos I've had a run of not very nice guys recently and he's my fantasy night in shining armour!
Yeah I'd prefer to contact him myself directly instead of going though an intermediary. Ok I'll email my friend and ask him in as casual and sane way as I can muster up, if he could give me his cousin's email address.
Aguaaqi: I am SO shy when I actually fancy a guy. I'm generally fine when I don't. Totally illogical and annoying.
MellowDee replies to Aguaaqi: "I am SO shy when I actually fancy a guy. I'm generally fine when I don't. Totally illogical and annoying."
Alana is saying to Mellow-Dee...."Me knows you better perhaps than most here:-)....who wouldn't want a woman of your substance to turn up unexpectedly via their e-mail"!!
Go for it woman....carpe diam that friend's cousin:-)
Aw shucks Alana! You always say such sweet things! Thanx for the compliment honey 🙂 Especially coming from such a sexy hot chick as yourself! I got your message by the way. Sorry I keep missing your call! I'll try giving you a buzz later on too. Hope you're well.
Primegem.......is that your shy but awkward way:-) of you asking me (A Ms. Aquarius!) on a date.....if so, consider yourself dated!!! I'll meet you at midnight, under the moonlight.........I'm all a-tremble at the thought of it and you!
What's seven hours between 2 lovers—!!!:-) or best perhaps we meet in our dreams...for the moment anyway Prime:-)
Yes, but you are right-on on your lower comment re. the "runaway feeling" - hey, what a good term for the aqua condition to run away when it gets too hot and intimate....you've just coined another great aqua phrase...gonna add that to my memory file and usage:-) Dr. Primegen.
Gotta dash now for my bus.....say adios till 2moro to you and all dxp pals.
Ciao A x
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Anyway I told a friend about it and she said that we all spend too much time worry about what others may think and thus let a lot of opportunities go by. This gave my courage a bit of a boost so I sent this man an email (I had his email address in a group email that my friend had sent a while back). But it got bounced back rpesumably because the email address is now defunct. So....I'm now wondering should I just ask my friend to give me his cousin's current email address so I can say "hi" to him.
Or is this whole idea just bordering on mild Aquarian lunacy?