What do u consider attractive in the opposite sex?

Maybe I'm an atypical aqua (I don't really think so) but physical attraction is a must if I start fancying a guy. The thing is though that what attracts me is not so straightforward. And it's not just physical either. There's a whole lot of other ingredients that've gone into the mixing bowl when an infatuation's starting to cook. Ok so using the cake mix analogy a bit further, let's say looks would be the flour, personality is the butter (or oil!), compatible interests as me would be the sugar, sense of humour would be the eggs...and then the spices and essences and extra additions like nuts for example, well they'd be other things that are not so vital but real make it the cake that you want to eat every day and never tire of it............ok cake analogy over, oven timer bell rings!

Like I don't usually find univeral heart throbs that attractive. David Beckham, for example, I don't find him sexy at all! Perhaps to very shallow or stupid women he is considered hot because in that group he's gonna come across as having some kind of brain matter whereas when I have actually heard David Beckham speak, his voice and what it's actually saying is an immediate turn-off! Another guy I could never find attractive was Brad Pitt until all this media coverage of his break up with Jennifer Anniston and then I started to see him in a different light, his character came out more I guess and made him more attractive to me.

George Clooney's another personality I don't get all excited over. Yes he has a pleasant handsome face but the personality behind it doesn't excite me at all!

Ok sanity would be like the bowl that you're gonna bung all the ingredients into. Without that you'd just have a big mess.

I quite like my cake mix analogy 🙂

GL, I hope this is not gonna offend you but I don't consider him that hot myself

(cowers and runs for cover......>😉

He looks cute but I would stop in the street and stare after him. Lt's put it that way.

Each to his own tho!

*would = wouldn't!

"What do u consider attractive in the opposite sex?"

-- For every guy that I've dated it's been a set of different charasteristics in each, so I always find this question to be very difficult!

And BTW what you WANT in a man is not necessarily what you find ATTRACTIVE in a man... but it's just very basic stuff so a lot of different men can have that. Hopefully, there's no contradictions there.

Yeah I can appreciate that Adrian Brody would not be commons regarded as major heart throb material and I know he's got a big nice and is quite skinny and lanky but it's kinda because of this and coupled with his personality and acting manner and presnce that ignited my attraction him. It's like you see some guy in a certain light and from then on you'd attracted to them.

It kinda weird and hard to explain. YES GL I'd have Adrien Brody over yer man any day. At least we wouldn't fall out over a man anyway!!

*commons= commonly
*nice=nose
*presnce=presence


Sheesh

A yes the magic dough boy......I think he's past his expiry date by now or did he just turn out to be a half baked idea anyway 😉

Perhaps you have nut allergy Aguaaqi. I don't have a nut allergy myself but I still don't really like them in cakes. There's a time and place for nuts. Cashews are lovely in stir fries and curries. I find them much more palatable this way.

*What do u consider attractive in the opposite sex?


-it depends on alot of things....people are different and everyone has qualities that make them attractive......

LOL @ G-2

HAHAAA- C'mon now GEM- as if we don't KNOW what you're REALLY thinking!

"-they are different (all so hot) and everyone (each and every chic) has qualities (different sized titties) that make them attractive (shaggable)......"

😛

Schoene,
i'm glad u understand 🙂

I guess first off i have to be physically attracted to them.. i cant just go out and get with any girl.. it just aint me.. but after that i gotta be able to get on with them and have somthing to talk about.. so it aint all about the looks..

Hmmmmm, what do I find attractive in the opposite sex ..... let me see .....

1) The ability to engage me -- those that can make me think (even by only saying a few words) is very attractive. Sorry, brains come first in my book!

2) Men who wear glasses -- I wear glasses myself but there's just something appealing about a man who wears glasses.

3) Baldness -- my former professor is about 60 years old but I think he is one of the sexiest men at my college. The man is a genius with a bald head to match 😉

4) Men with hair -- I love men with hair too 🙂 I enjoy playing in it 🙂

5) Thin or stocky -- their body structure doesn't matter to me at all. Thin men are easier to squeeze when you hug them and stocky men are just VERY squeezable 🙂

attracts me about men??

BRAINz
HONESTY
SPIRITUALITY