Aqua advice needed!

Hello!

I posted about an Aqua guy that I have a crush on sometime ago. I started talking to him over text and sometimes we have nice and deep conversations. I usually don't stretch them out too long and stop replying when the conversation fades away because I don't really want to force a conversation.

I did a lot of reading on Aqua men and everything on the internet points to the fact that they are the most challenging men of the Zodiac. As a Scorpio, I am totally intrigued by this. So, here I am, asking all you Aquas about tips on how I can win him over.

Whenever we have a conversation, he is friendly and tends to give me advice about things that are bothering me. He often refers to our previous conversations and asks things like "So how's that project you mentioned before?". We were initially talking on facebook, but he asked for my number and suggested that we move to texting.

Sometimes he gets cold, but I think Aquas tend to do that. Recently, he was being cold and ignoring me in public so I started ignoring him back. Two or three days later I caught him staring at me at lunch, at dinner or whenever we were in the same area. So should I take this as a plus?

Also, so far, I've been initiating the conversations. Not everyday, but once every two days or something. I know I sound a bit paranoid, but um, am I on the right track here or am I doing things wrong?

Any advice/help will be appreciated 🙂

Win him over? Ugh, just annoying...Wrong approach which is why you're losing/being ignored.

Posted by tiki33
Win him over? Ugh, just annoying...Wrong approach which is why you're losing/being ignored.

Yep.
Staring is an air sign thing btw. It doesn't necessarily mean something all the time.

When someone tries too hard, that's a big turn off.

tiki33, I think I used the wrong word here.. I don't mean "win him over" as in viewing him as a conquest/gaining control or anything like that.. all I meant was to get his attention. Sorry 🙂 Thanks for telling me what NOT to do though. 🙂

truecap, I know. I don't actually stalk him in public places or anything. Neither do I bombard him with texts. Even when we do text each other I make sure I don't make statements that might come off as me trying too hard. I just keep it casual and friendly. Thanks for the advice though 🙂

You're scorpio and you like aqua? Huh?

Yeah, weird right?

Aquas are slow. They take a lot of patience. They're not going to show/say/imply big acts of love and emotions. Can your scorpio parts handle that?

If so, just be light, fun, relaxed, cool, interesting, independent, patient, no pressure, off the wall - mainly just different than every other girl out there. That's what gets and holds their attention. Stereotypically, anyway.

I can empathise the frustration thats about to manifest but on a more positive note it will be a learning curve for both of you??_

its not about winning someone over like they are a prize to be one, we aren't some stallion you can tame for your collection.

What you fail to realise is that you the one who is being tested and experimented on he's gonna see what it takes for your scorpio rail to rear its ugly head??_.Hes going to also find out to what extent you are capable of forgiveness lol.

i'll give you a little insight on SOME scorpio women's (obviously not all or many) on love and forgiveness. If they love you, they will move the stars and moon to be with you.
One of my husband's first cousin is a Scorpio female, with cancer moon. One of her ex's didn't treat her well. Everyone in the family knew it, but he was honest and upfront about what he wanted. We could tell he didnt like her more than a friend. (they all met him) but it was ultimately HER decision and HERS alone. We couldn't do anything no matter what and you know what? why should we?? She wants to learn on her own time, and her OWN TERMS.

She followed him all the way to Austrailia, and to New Zealand and the figi islands, ect ect...to live there even, and go to school. She was that much in love. It took awhile, even when the guy in question has a girlfriend right in front of her eyes. But all is not lost. She is now happily married with beautiful children. To another man, very similar to him but this time, she got the pot of gold because he loves her back with the same ferocity.

I love stories like that and true ones.I thought i'd share that small bit.

of course she has no hard feelings for the other guy. not at all. why should she? she has moved on.

so if a scorpio loves you, and if they are the "right kind," you better believe it, they love with ferocity. A man would be super lucky to have that kind of love.