aqua cancer relationship

hello everyone

newcomer here 🙂
looking for some insight regarding aquarius and cancer relationship
we are just friend, but lately i think i am getting to like her more than casual friend
after 2months of relationship, ask her about her feeling, she said good friend only for now
then after i asked her about that, i dont know if this just my feeling but it seems she putting distance with me
maybe she just want to be friend with me, well thats fine with me either, love is all about chemistry anyway.

the thing that make me curious is, there is few times i get tired with our casual chat because is not used to be (like i said she been putting distance with me) so i stop text her for 1 or 2 days, so far she always looking for me asking where i am gone
is that what aqua-people do ?

do you guys think i should try chase her and see what happen or just move on ?

looking at chart (not really sure, as i dont know astrology much yet)
me gemini-cancer cusp (22june), scorpio moon, leo venus
she aquarius, pisces moon, sag venus

Oh man I just spent a while replying to the other thread lol

hello feb16aqua

thanks for the reply
ah that's nice things to hear, maybe i should try take some more time with her
what i worry is my cancer side, i know my gemini side always telling myself when i become moody
but still moody is moody for cancer

i afraid those emotion become an issue when i have stronger feeling towards her

and yes, i think i find the way to delete the topic myself 😄

Posted by aquasnoz
Oh man I just spent a while replying to the other thread lol

ah aquasnoz sorry for that! 😢

Okay take 2!

I've made a habit of not looking into synastry without complete accurate charts, it gives more insight as to how things might work to be honest so I can only give advice based on me being Aqua/pisces myself. Difference is my venus is pisces so keep that in mind also pisces is my dominant sign.

You probably need to believe it when she says "Just friends". Aquas are not known to lie and they value friendship and I think that's partly why she hasn't completely disappeared just yet. 2 months probably seems like a day to us lunar pisceans, it doesn't give us a lot of time to sort out whatever feelings we have for a particular person unless the connection is strong.

We really do operate on our own timescales so when you asked her about her feelings she probably felt forced even if you didn't mean to come across that way. Part of us will naturally hold back because we feel like we're invoking these emotions from whatever friendship we had, not only do we feel it but it's also the most logical conclusion. It doesn't mean our feelings for you have changed as a friend. If anything you really just need to accept this fact.

As for asking you where you are, is it just that? Did you bail on a conversation half way? or is she asking directly or indirectly about your feelings or implying her own feelings? If it's just as it is I wouldn't read too much because we're perceptive, do it enough times and you might strain the friendship even more.

I'll ask you this, are you really okay with just being friends? Lunar pisceans don't and we don't make a habit of playing games either what we feel for you is real, a connection on a friendship level, we'll let you know loud and clear when we'll move it up a notch. If you're not okay with this then I'd consider halting the friendship.

@aquanoz
Ah, i get the "just friends", and yes probably she want that way
and about the time, if you, do 2 months enough to decide a relationship ?
from what i read aqua-people took time in relationship, right ?

and thanks for explaining about "your own timescales", i think i am getting image about it now 🙂

about asking where i am, after i skip texting her for one-two days, she text me asking where i am gone
so maybe that just it i guess
well that's different from me, to my friends, even close friend, i never keep in touch that close

also back before she putting distance with me, she contacting me alot, we talking about many things until morning, thats why i decide to ask her feeling, but i guess i miss-understand her feeling 😢

well just being friend is just fine for me, there is nothing i can change anyway 😄
i think what attract me most to her is her honestly, so far she seems never lied to me

i kinda curious if i got to fast asking her feeling ? maybe she need more time ?
based on what she ever told me, her ex also get her heart by loyalty

thanks for great insight!