@butterflyy
16 Years
aqua guy SHY? ...interested, taking it slow or ..?
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-- met on dating site. he kept on viewing my profile, and so did I. I waited till he message but he didn't. So I decided to take the risk and message him. I asked if he knows me and why he kept on viewing me. he replied " hi sorry if I made u uncomfortable. I dont know you.... but I'd like to =) " then he asked for my messenger id so we can get to know each other
-- we started chatting..he was the one who initiated contact when I was online. he likes watching movies. didn't ask me out. so one day I sent an offline message, said something to make it like it's his idea to ask me out. "lets hang out" next chat he asked if I was free. He said he was thinking of asking me out for movie and dinner. I said sounds nice.
He didn't ask me for my number. So I asked if he wanted to exchange numbers. He said sure.
-- I couldn't meet him that week. So did he. he said "i wish to see u tomorrow..but I had to fix.. t'row"
following weekend..I sms him and said I went for a movie and wanted to ask him...but didn't keep his number. he was acting cute and funny and said "😢 next time tell me after the movie babe heh jk" and said next time he'll call me if I dont mind..I said sure. last weekend, he sent message on messenger when I was offline and ask "u there?" why didnt he sms my hp?then we chatted the following day. we planned to watch movie on saturday..I told him to confirm on friday. he said "i'll book and confirm earlier =) "
my questions:
1) why hasnt he called me yet— it's just text between us
2) why didn't he sms me when he has my number(contact directly)...instead of sending offline message on messenger?
3) is he interested romantically or he just wants me as a friend?
4) is he shy and afraid of rejection—? he viewed my profile again and again, and waited for me to message 1ST. he waited till I sms first. he waited till I ask him out first.
5)I asked if it's ok to postpone the movie this sat to next week cos have to travel for work. and said if he wants to watch that movie with someone else this weekend it's fine..we can pick other movie next week. he said "its ok..I will not go to movie then. thanks for informing =)"
do they not like to initiate things? or he's not really interested...
and I don't know if he really wants to see me or...just wants a company to catch movies...since he likes going for movies.
hope to hear from u guys 🙂