Aqua Man-Taurus woman

An Aquarius man really likes me, he even say he want to marry me if he can get me. We met online and communicates through chat. He's 41, divorced, with a kid. I am 31 and still single. He is very intelligent, we have similar interests and we also have this cosmic connection. he captured my mind, but not my heart yet. I am very cautious in choosing a mate, what are the positive and negative of this pairing? Will this work in the long run?

Posted by slimgirl
An Aquarius man really likes me, he even say he want to marry me if he can get me. We met online and communicates through chat. He's 41, divorced, with a kid. I am 31 and still single. He is very intelligent, we have similar interests and we also have this cosmic connection. he captured my mind, but not my heart yet. I am very cautious in choosing a mate, what are the positive and negative of this pairing? Will this work in the long run?

well there's not much to go on, do you have any difficulties with him?

and you are both online dating, so I wonder, have you at least MET— because that will surely determine more.

we can exalt a human being through interactions on the internet /online dating because they sound so good to be true.

it's only positive, if you both have good synastry/complementary personal planets, and maybe the house sign of your sun and other planets. ect

Posted by Koniuchaa
Have you not met yet and he is saying he wants to marry you? I would be wary of that, if that is the case.

Thanks.. Yes it made me think maybe it's a bait, he want to know if I am an easy catch. He offered to sponsor me to go to his country so I could know him better and his 3yrs old child but I just ignored. He asked if I want him to visit me cuz he will anytime, again I didn't answer. He said the decision is mine. I just think he is testing me, i want him to decide on his own if he really is interested. I just love my country and will only leave if I am sure he's the one.

😄 but right now I am not yet sure.

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Posted by slimgirl
An Aquarius man really likes me, he even say he want to marry me if he can get me. We met online and communicates through chat. He's 41, divorced, with a kid. I am 31 and still single. He is very intelligent, we have similar interests and we also have this cosmic connection. he captured my mind, but not my heart yet. I am very cautious in choosing a mate, what are the positive and negative of this pairing? Will this work in the long run?

well there's not much to go on, do you have any difficulties with him?

and you are both online dating, so I wonder, have you at least MET— because that will surely determine more.

we can exalt a human being through interactions on the internet /online dating because they sound so good to be true.

it's only positive, if you both have good synastry/complementary personal planets, and maybe the house sign of your sun and other planets. ect

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The only difficulty is he is far, and it's hard to know if he is telling the truth or not. We haven't met yet although he wanted to visit me, I am hesitant as of now. I don't trust easily but so far he is very consistent and already shared to me his past, his job, family, and introduced to me his baby girl. We have very good conversations. But i don't know his planets or mine.

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Posted by slimgirl
An Aquarius man really likes me, he even say he want to marry me if he can get me. We met online and communicates through chat. He's 41, divorced, with a kid. I am 31 and still single. He is very intelligent, we have similar interests and we also have this cosmic connection. he captured my mind, but not my heart yet. I am very cautious in choosing a mate, what are the positive and negative of this pairing? Will this work in the long run?

well there's not much to go on, do you have any difficulties with him?

and you are both online dating, so I wonder, have you at least MET— because that will surely determine more.

we can exalt a human being through interactions on the internet /online dating because they sound so good to be true.

it's only positive, if you both have good synastry/complementary personal planets, and maybe the house sign of your sun and other planets. ect

The only difficulty is he is far, and it's hard to know if he is telling the truth or not. We haven't met yet although he wanted to visit me, I am hesitant as of now. I don't trust easily but so far he is very consistent and already shared to me his past, his job, family, and introduced to me his baby girl. We have very good conversations. But i don't know his planets or mine.

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I think personally if he has the money and if he is willing to have a foreigner and marry her, then he should have MONEY. and then fly there to meet you and your family, then from there on out your family and yourself should suss out what he's like, and if he's valid. Also, he should fly you out as well, both ways. That's why he needs to be established and have money to do these things. Most men who are local don't go for foreigners because it just isn't in their budget. And local girls are easier since the girl is already working somewhere in the city or town and they don't need to bother about flying back and forth and the LONG process of dating.

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Posted by Koniuchaa
Have you not met yet and he is saying he wants to marry you? I would be wary of that, if that is the case.

Thanks.. Yes it made me think maybe it's a bait, he want to know if I am an easy catch. He offered to sponsor me to go to his country so I could know him better and his 3yrs old child but I just ignored. He asked if I want him to visit me cuz he will anytime, again I didn't answer. He said the decision is mine. I just think he is testing me, i want him to decide on his own if he really is interested. I just love my country and will only leave if I am sure he's the one.

😄 but right now I am not yet sure.

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most men here in Europe, who get BRIDES from overseas are generally really older guys, from their 50s to 60s, near retirement or retired, and have a lot of money saved up from working, and /or have money in general,

so if he's looking to take care of your expenses of bringing you over, or he going over there, then I see it working out.

EDIT- for typos, ugh.

he has a child right? do you know what kind of work he does that he can afford to bring you over and him going over there and have so many expenses with also a child to take care of??

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An Aquarius man really likes me, he even say he want to marry me if he can get me. We met online and communicates through chat. He's 41, divorced, with a kid. I am 31 and still single. He is very intelligent, we have similar interests and we also have this cosmic connection. he captured my mind, but not my heart yet. I am very cautious in choosing a mate, what are the positive and negative of this pairing? Will this work in the long run?

well there's not much to go on, do you have any difficulties with him?

and you are both online dating, so I wonder, have you at least MET— because that will surely determine more.

we can exalt a human being through interactions on the internet /online dating because they sound so good to be true.

it's only positive, if you both have good synastry/complementary personal planets, and maybe the house sign of your sun and other planets. ect

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The only difficulty is he is far, and it's hard to know if he is telling the truth or not. We haven't met yet although he wanted to visit me, I am hesitant as of now. I don't trust easily but so far he is very consistent and already shared to me his past, his job, family, and introduced to me his baby girl. We have very good conversations. But i don't know his planets or mine.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by slimgirl
An Aquarius man really likes me, he even say he want to marry me if he can get me. We met online and communicates through chat. He's 41, divorced, with a kid. I am 31 and still single. He is very intelligent, we have similar interests and we also have this cosmic connection. he captured my mind, but not my heart yet. I am very cautious in choosing a mate, what are the positive and negative of this pairing? Will this work in the long run?

well there's not much to go on, do you have any difficulties with him?

and you are both online dating, so I wonder, have you at least MET— because that will surely determine more.

we can exalt a human being through interactions on the internet /online dating because they sound so good to be true.

it's only positive, if you both have good synastry/complementary personal planets, and maybe the house sign of your sun and other planets. ect

The only difficulty is he is far, and it's hard to know if he is telling the truth or not. We haven't met yet although he wanted to visit me, I am hesitant as of now. I don't trust easily but so far he is very consistent and already shared to me his past, his job, family, and introduced to me his baby girl. We have very good conversations. But i don't know his planets or mine.

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so strange. your post here is similar to the one above.

well, there's only one thing you have to do, is meet him.

I talked about financial because it is IMPORTANT. You can't go over there if he isn't established with career or have a lot of money.

how is he supposed to take care of you and set you up in the new place? as a Taurus i'm sure you would very much understand the financial front/aspect of this.

but if he's consistent, then good. tell him to fly over and meet you and your family.