AquaMan: Is He Done with Me??

Hello,

I (Cap woman) would like to vent and receive your thoughts on my situation. I have been 'friends' with my aqua man for a few months. We have known each other for about 2 years now but would just speak to each other to say hi. We recently, since August, been actually seeing each other more often. Going to the park to just talk for a few hours. We would also meet a couple times a week late nights to engage in some very spicy making out sessions that leads to sexual contact but I would always pull away. Not b/c I don't want to but b/c I like to think things through concerning what we are actually getting ourselves into. Also I'm not quick to do anything like this. He is married and I am married by the way. We are both very interested in each other deeply. I have been a bit clingy to him by asking to see him. He would always text me in the mornings right before I get up to get my day started so we can chat a bit. I noticed how off and on he would shut me out for a couple of days. Where he would quickly tell me that he has to get off the phone or he would give me quick answers or say things like I do not want to talk about 'it' when I would ask him certain questions. He has said that he loves the fact that I whine to him about certain things like why I want to see him... even when he tells me that he has things to do. He has opened up to me that he would love to be very affectionate to me openly in public when he sees me but he can't. He would love to move me right into his home but he can't. He would love to have sex with me everyday when he wants but he can't. He said that is his realist side and that he can't live in a fairy tale. And I perfectly understand. We recently went to the movies together and once again made out. After the show he callled me while I was driving home To talk about the movie and what I thought the moral of the story was. We also talked about some things like what he is going to do for the weekend, etc. Well I messed up...I think. I wanted to see him later on that same evening (yes, after we just saw each other at the movies earlier that afternoon). I text him and I had no reply. I text him again and I had no reply. So I called his regular phone and had no answer. Then I called his 2nd phone and no answer. So about 15 min later he calls me back. He said with a very calm voice, " Sooo, I was sleep and my wife was trying to get into my phone to know who was trying to get into contact with me by calling both of my phones. So do not call me on 'this' number like ever". Then I said, "I am so..." . Now the reason I called is b/c he is normally out late nights working. And so he completely hung up in my face. Now what I know about him is that his wife does not have the code to his phone. He does not sleep at all. If he does sleep it's cat naps. He works late nights all the time. His phone is always on vibrate. He is VERY careful of what he do. He is a very cautious individual. So he ended up blocking my number that I normally call him on. He knows that I have another number but I have not contacted him yet through that number. I want to know is this a game that he is playing with me just to get me off of him a bit. I know that he has to take a test and he wants to concentrate on that. He did tell me that he have to buckle down so that he can pass this test and I know that I can be aggressive but he has told me that he loves the fact that I am aggressive b/c that's how he is. He loves the fact that I know what I want and like and that is him. In the past he also played a joke on me that his wife got into his phone and saw all the text messages him and I have sent each other. Then he started busting up laughing like it was something funny. I want to know if he has told me this just to get away from me for awhile b/c maybe I was getting too clingy and so he can have time to think about things or was he telling me to not contact him at all ever again for real? I also would like to know your thoughts if he is waiting for me to contact him to see how much I really like. Like what would I do to get his attention? Please let me know if he is extremely mad at me now and he just need time and that he will or will not be back. Thanks y'all!

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